my boyfriend dumped me on msn....[how low is that] this was 4 1/2 days ago....i cried a couple of time and i did stuff with my friends...but it still doesnt help..i dont know how i can i get over him!!!!!!!!! and now he asked out another girl and soo they are going out now and well im not that kind of person to hate him for that or anything but i just hate seeing them together at school all happy and everything... soo what should i do???
2006-11-12 06:52:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we went out for a month...and he dumped me just one day before our 1 month aniv...
2006-11-12 07:05:48 · update #1
hes the one who asked me out first and i didnt even like him that much..but i still gave him a chance and this is what i get in retur....im soo mad but at the same time im really sad
2006-11-12 07:07:41 · update #2
Get a different boyfriend, and when that one dumps on you, get another, etc, etc, etc.
2006-11-12 06:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, depending on how mature he is... you should talk to him... you don't call a relationship a day by msn! But I deduce he's a teen... generally speaking guys are more immature than girls at least at that age. It is quite normal to feel sad or jealous when you see him happy with his new date... you shouldn't let him know that this hurts you... not by making a big fuss or saying stupid things to bother them but IGNORING HIM completely IGNORE HIM even if it is something hard to do. Take some time on your own to think about what you want from life, TRY to concentrate on school tasks and friends... let yourself meet other guys... this feeling will remain for a while but I am sure enough that you will meet someone who deserves you and will love you... and when this happens... you won't feel as bad as you feel know... everything is about PATIENCE... I know it's difficult but... that's why I'm suggesting to concentrate on other kind of stuff like extra-school activities... going out with friends etc.
Good luck!
2006-11-12 07:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Royal Flush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on or else you will never get over him, he has made a choice and that choice was to be with someone else, now it's time for you to make your choice and what is that going to be?? are you gonna sit around and stop living b/c of what he did, or are you gonna move on and enjoy life...i know it's hard i've been there...but you can't allow somone to have that much control over your life....he's out having fun enjoying life....so why can't you be happy too? here's how you get started to moving on, first you need to accept that it's over, second you need to avoid contact with him don't call/text or email him, do not accept any of his calls or meet him anywhere...b/c all your gonna do is go right back to step one again....and you'll never get a chance to go on with your life...everytime you get sad about him, just remind yourself the reason why your sad....just say to yourself well isnt he the reason why i'm sad....so that should tell you right there that he don't care nothing about your feelings....move on sweeti you deserve so much better.
2006-11-12 07:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow talk about a jerk! First if a guy dumps you and can't even do it to your face, he's too shallow and tacky for you any way..... did you ever think he just wants to get you jello? Sweety pie if I were you I would have dropped him like a hot potatoe in a fry'n pan! Get up and get your self back on the marcket!
2006-11-15 04:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Hali R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL. Pat yourself on the back for not being with this guy. And, pat yourself on the back for hanging with your girls and trying to cope....BUT, honestly, he Dumped you on msn?!?? HELLOOO that is SOOOO LAME!!!!!!!!!!!! Just think, he's doing you a favor by going out with that girl. I know you probably really liked him, etc. but I think this is your chance to find a REAL GUY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And, you are young...you will find that guy. Just file this one in the "not-so-great-relationship file" and never return to it again.
2006-11-12 06:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think about it and focus on something else and just think about what he is missing out on after ya-ll broke up just try to forget about it but don't just pretend u don't care because then u will jus end up one Day bored and all these memories will pop up i tell u this cuz it happened to me.
2006-11-12 07:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by el Blaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get yourself busy .. get involved with stuff around the house and/or parents .. join a club of your choice if you want .. travel for a change of atmosphere.
I hope this helps
2006-11-12 06:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to here this,some time it take time to get over a person
2006-11-12 07:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you wasnt that important to him from the get go, and on msn?? he was playing with you from the start! get over him and move on with your life!
2006-11-12 07:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a new boyfriend and keep your eyes only on your new boyfriend. Dude, is playin you and your letting him. See it like it is.
2006-11-12 06:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋