I am in a complicated situation. During June, I met a girl in Hong Kong. We had a relationship. When I came back to Canada , I still called her. We are still in love with each other.
Now the thing is, she was married, but the husband cheated on her with his previous wife. She then left him a year back, now the husband came back and offer her 2 million dollars to stay with him!! The husband has a land in China which worth around 3 millions =$420,000 Canadian$
MY GF SAID NO, because she wants to be with me. She said that being rich is nothing if I am not with her.I am so touched. I told her that I would go back to Hk next year. The husband kept asking her to stay, she said "if my boyfriend isn't coming back to HK next year, then I 'll go back to you", of course, she only said it just to keep his mouth shut.
So you see my problem? I love her but I know if she is with him, then she'll be rich. I don't have 3 millions and I want her to be happy. Should I let her go??
2006-11-12 07:55:57 · 11 answers · asked by Webballs 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I forgot to mention. She doesn't love the husband because he cheated on her a few years back.
In fact, He destroyed her Hong Kong ID so she couldn' t leave the country. If the husband has to offer money to make her love him, then he probably doesn't love her at all
Her family threated to kick her out if she doesn't go back to him. She said she would rather live on the street then to be with him. Of course, I am not going to let that happen. The moment they kick her out, I 'll take her back to Canada!!
2006-11-12 08:06:23 · update #1
Yes go to her. any gir who would turn down all that money to be with you really loves you. If you don't go you will break her heart. Ask yourself do you want to do that and how you will feel without her and she without you.
2006-11-12 08:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you and wants to be with you, she needs to divorce her husband first.
That will show you that she's not just all talk.
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And to the person who said just take the money and run...... DON'T LET HER DO THAT. Her husband sounds like a psycho and could possibly chase after her to get his money back. Bad, bad idea.
2006-11-12 15:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No dont let her go. She obviously doesnt want to be with this cheating bastard. She wants to be with you! So just do what you said you would and go back next year. Or why dont you get her to move to Canada?
2006-11-12 15:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister Margaret and I had the same problem years ago. She had buku bucks and and I was a loney chap in vespers. I never let her go. Neither should you.
2006-11-12 15:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgrt her shes married man .Where is your pride ? She belongs to someone else and shes not gonna leave him . Find a nice Canadian girl and get married and have kids .GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-12 15:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find someone who not married because if her husband find out some will get hurt she married if she love you so much why dent she married you ?
2006-11-12 16:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, true love shouldn't involve money
2006-11-12 15:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
lf she really loves you, and you love her, then you would know that money isnt everything, and you cant make her happy without money.
2006-11-12 15:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. don't tell her to go. if she said she'd be happy only if she were w/ u , then that's probably true.
2006-11-12 15:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take the money and run
2006-11-12 15:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋