If you don't believe in premarital sex and your boyfriend does do you think that it is right for him to have sex with another girl because you won't?
2006-11-12 07:24:49 · 32 answers · asked by D'Whannah Lowe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he's your boyfriend and he genuinely loves you then he should respect your wishes - it's NOT ok for him to sleep with someone else - it's basically blackmail on his part as he wants sex. If he won't respect your wishes and therefore does not truly love then you are best off without him. It doesn't matter what you believe in but if one party isn't ready or happy about having sex then the other should wait if they love you enough - that applies no matter what your beliefs are. Never allow yourself to be pressured into sex.
2006-11-12 07:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by minotaur 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This will be unpopular here, but...
Do you REALLY think this guy is the one for you?
If he wants sex with others now, do you REALLY think he is gonna wait and be trustworthy, just because you ask him to?
If you don't believe in premarital sex...don't do it... you will regret it.
Now the unpopular part...
If you enjoy being around him, and realize he is NOT the "love of your life", then let him do what he wants, but be open and communicative. Men don't talk much, but if they feel you are not trying to control them and are respectful of what they want, generally they will do the same...or at least be honest about why they cant.
2006-11-12 07:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by kiltboi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that you should find a more compatible boyfriend. You may be able to ignore such a problem early on, but in the long run it'll only cause you grief and frustration. Talk to him about how you feel. If he acts like he doesn't care, then he's definitely not the guy for you.
2006-11-12 07:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't right. Even if he doesn't believe in it he'll wait if he really loves you. If he goes and have sex with another girl he is not respecting you at all. I know that it is hard for them sometimes, but if he really loves you he'll wait
2006-11-12 07:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...NO!!!
It's not like a guy NEEDS to have sex or something, that's ridiculous. Let him know he can go ahead and sleep with whomever he chooses, but he will not be your boyfriend any longer!
Quite frankly, you should dump him for even propositioning you about that!
2006-11-12 07:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. That is just a sign of how horny he is. If he goes off sleeping w/other girls, when you get married, do you want to have sex w/a guy who did 20 others just because you didnt want to?
2006-11-12 07:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is not something in the Bible approximately premarital intercourse with the aid of fact having intercourse became into between the approaches you will get married. You substitute into one flesh once you have intercourse. one million Corinthians 6:sixteen
2016-10-17 04:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not the end of the world. Trust what you believe. Find a 'true' love. Not 'passionate' love since he might dump once you cannot satisfy him
2006-11-12 08:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by nockzee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't believe in premarital sex and your boyfriend seeks it elsewhere, please tell me he's not your boyfriend anymore.
You deserve someone who will respect you... not make you feel guilty for not doing what he wants to do.
Stay strong and smart.
2006-11-12 07:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's not compromise, unless you are okay with that. For me, I'd say hell no. If he loves me, and respects me, then he'd wait. You can fool around without having "sex". If he is with you, then he shouldn't cheat on you, that's horrible
2006-11-12 07:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋