Marriage & Divorce - 8 June 2006

When I try to talk to my husband about something that is wrong or something that I have a problem about with him he gets defensive. I dont come to him mad or anything, I mean I do the whole sit down I want to talk to you in a calm manner type of deal. And also for some reason hes really good at changing the whole situation to be my fault. And honestly im getting to the point where I want to seperate.

2006-06-08 09:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by truedestiny1984 1

2006-06-08 09:06:00 · 12 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2

i dont trust my husband becos he had lot girl friends,he always look at girls when we go out.but now he dont show it.we had enough talk about it..i found somethings at home before about girls.i saw his past emails also for girls.now that he want to join college for mba fulltime.i dont trust him & i am very insecure.i said no to him & he is also firm but i cant help it.i want to but i cant support his decision becos i know he'll talk to girls,will get close to them.i told him that i'll leave him if he join college.his past has made me like that

2006-06-08 09:03:07 · 9 answers · asked by jenny 1

2006-06-08 09:01:29 · 21 answers · asked by shawtyp0000 1

My ex-girlfriend left 10 months ago, but we started talking again a few months back. We've been out to dinner a bunch of times, and the first time I saw her after a 4 month absence the first words out of her mouth were "I love you so much."

She won't kiss me, and she has been with (had sex) with other guys and dates regularly.

Sometimes we talk on the phone for hours at a time, but she has to call me, I can't call her (she lives with her parents and they hate me).

Once she came to my house and I was with another girl, and I think I made her very jealous.

She took me out for my birthday last week and we spent about 10 hours together. We sort of had sex (oral) and had a really great time together.

I am still as much in love with her as I ever was. When I left her after my birthday she wouldn't kiss me good night (even though we fooled around)

Do you think she still loves me? She has lots of other men interested in her.

2006-06-08 09:00:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has now had her visa approved for England and we will finally be together after spending more of our married life apart than together thanks to the British government! I just wanted to share my joy!!!!!!

2006-06-08 08:58:53 · 24 answers · asked by swoody17 3

how do u deal with a selfish and mean husband that has an anger problem? he treats u bad and so mean and selfish. u do everything to take care of him and make him happy. u suppory him in everything, u put up with his lousy past. how do u deal with that? u so good to him but he so mean to u.

2006-06-08 08:35:15 · 27 answers · asked by caramel_sexy20 3

2006-06-08 08:20:47 · 16 answers · asked by flyingdove 4

2006-06-08 08:15:38 · 11 answers · asked by Darla S 1

My husband is a sex addict and when we were teens we would have sex 3 times a day Monday thru Friday. I never did feel like having sex but I would do it anyway. Now we're a little older and still happily married but I still don't feel like doing it. He's a good looking man, in great shape, and very loving but he's such a horndog. I want to be there for him when he wants it. If it were up to me I would never have sex, I just love being with him no sex invovled. What can I do?

2006-06-08 08:13:59 · 9 answers · asked by Prissy 2

2006-06-08 08:13:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is more concerned about going to play cards or going to parties than he is staying home and spending time with me and our two children. Any advice?

2006-06-08 08:11:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

He cheated on me with the same woman for a long time. We broke up and nearly divorced. He begged and begged for me to take him back constantly, so I finally gave in.

I just found out he has been contacting her again. He says she wont talk to him, except to yell at him. (He could just be lying some more)

So, I dont want to divorce him, because of some issues right now. What do I do to stop him from cheating. We have always had a really great sex life, (2-3 times daily everyday, in many many differerant ways) I have gained some weight, because I just had a baby, but that is coming off now.

I am trying very hard, but it seems hopeless. Are there any progrmas or books we can look into to save our marriage?

I know it sounds pathetic, but this is my life and he is my husband. I would like to give it one last try before giving up for good.

Thanks

2006-06-08 08:05:34 · 19 answers · asked by wifeirate 1

Your brother provide for his parents cause they don't work, he pay the all the bills and you're his sister live in the same house with his/ your parents.
Your brother and yourself had and argument concering his wife. Would you tell your parents have nothing to do with him n his Family.
What would you do if your the wife?

2006-06-08 07:54:47 · 5 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4

2006-06-08 07:49:49 · 17 answers · asked by tlm411 1

2006-06-08 07:45:27 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3

My husband feels I always get more attention from people when we are together. Also, I always work very hard to achieve and people notice it - in whatever I do. I dont do this consciously, but that's the sort of person I am. Earlier he would encourage me to dress up my best. Now a days he says - dont dress up so - its too much. But he always compliments me when I look good. We have known each other since we were teenagers. Our married life is 25 years old. For the past several years, he sought female attention by chatting on the internet. He also met many of them without my knowledge. We have sorted out this issue between us now, but I feel he still has some contact with atleast a few of them. When I had questioned him why he did it, he said, it was not for sex, but for the attention he got as he was being humourous on the chat. Something he said was missing with me. I told him that it was missing from my side because he had been an alcoholic for 20 years that kept me away

2006-06-08 07:42:55 · 7 answers · asked by Somebody 1

I do. I wish I had someone to help with the baby, and to take my husband off my hands sometimes. I also love women; so It would be great if she was attractive and bisesual as well.

2006-06-08 07:41:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because i've had it with this man, he's alwayz accusing me of things I don't do, and I have grown apart from him I have no love for him no mo.

2006-06-08 07:37:51 · 8 answers · asked by Latinlicious r 1

My husband and I were having a BIG argument, and I have been going through postpartim depression, so I've been a little wacky. I was so upset that he went to my parents for advice. My sister is over there at the time. She didn't have her car so my husband gave her a ride home. My sister offers him to stay the night, or in fact stay the night anytime we are fighting. I think this is odd, because they barely know each other and she knows my husband does not like her cause she borrowed money from him and never payed it back. I thought this was in poor taste, and tacky, even though she claims she would have stayed with a friend if he had stayed at her house. Am I wrong? Also that same day I had asked her if I could stay with her, cause I didn't want to be alone. She said yeah, I guess, but had a put out look on her face, which showed that she didn't really want me too.

2006-06-08 07:35:19 · 19 answers · asked by sky 1

2006-06-08 07:30:23 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine 1

Should the husbands just leave them?

2006-06-08 07:23:13 · 9 answers · asked by niceman steve 1

THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON SINCE 2004, OR BEFORE, AND I FOUND OUT WHEN I WAS DEPLOYED AND THEY BOTH DENIED EVERYTHING. WE GOT MARRIED IN 2002.

2006-06-08 07:15:32 · 56 answers · asked by shoefrkfosho 1

2006-06-08 07:07:46 · 17 answers · asked by niceman steve 1

i want to get married and have a baby too

2006-06-08 06:49:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

she told me that she would let me go when she was ready 2 let me go i just want to know what sould i do

2006-06-08 06:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so lonely and sad.. This is not how it is supposed to be? I just cannot be happy. I don't know how to make this go away.

2006-06-08 06:45:54 · 25 answers · asked by tear streaked angel 2

All I do is hurt my husband, how do I stop, I excuse him of everything under the sun and make him feel like S H I T on a daily basis, he tells me I do! I don't want to! I try not too, but I continue to do it! I love him so much, really I do! What the H E L L is worng with me?

2006-06-08 06:45:29 · 14 answers · asked by Rikki M 2

My husband and I are having marital problems. and i want to go to counseling and he only wants to go so the therapist can tell me what a horrible person i am. my husband doesn't beat or anything but he gets all frustrated and mad over lil things. and takes it out on me. gets all mad cause we don't have alot of money left over after the bills are paid. he won't help with any work around the house. i feel like he doesn't really care for our newborn baby cause she's a girl and has colic (really fussy). he gets mad cause i don't care to have sex as much as we did before our first child. he always gets all caught up in the drama his family creates which we live VERY close to and they all like to borrow money from eachother. and one of the things that made me EXTREMELY pissed was, he co-signed for a car for his DAD and didn't tell me until after it was said and done. and then almost did it AGAIN. but it didn't work out. thank god. sorry so long. i need an opinion.

2006-06-08 06:44:59 · 7 answers · asked by adeleighernandez26 2

2006-06-08 06:44:44 · 6 answers · asked by everprecious 2