My ex-girlfriend left 10 months ago, but we started talking again a few months back. We've been out to dinner a bunch of times, and the first time I saw her after a 4 month absence the first words out of her mouth were "I love you so much."
She won't kiss me, and she has been with (had sex) with other guys and dates regularly.
Sometimes we talk on the phone for hours at a time, but she has to call me, I can't call her (she lives with her parents and they hate me).
Once she came to my house and I was with another girl, and I think I made her very jealous.
She took me out for my birthday last week and we spent about 10 hours together. We sort of had sex (oral) and had a really great time together.
I am still as much in love with her as I ever was. When I left her after my birthday she wouldn't kiss me good night (even though we fooled around)
Do you think she still loves me? She has lots of other men interested in her.
2006-06-08 09:00:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She doesn't really want you, but she doesn't want you to want anyone other than her. Call up the gal she caught you with. Date her more regularly. If ex-gf wants to go out, don't jump at the chance. Tell her your busy,(even if you just go walk your dog) She's using you, she's playing games with you and She's teasing you. And oh God..that "I'm not going to kiss you thing"...geeze she's been watching "Pretty Woman" reruns. That is so immature. What?, she's become a hooker now? That's a hooker thing. Let her go and don't look back. Don't let her treat you like a boy toy. Be a man.
2006-06-08 10:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was with them when she was not with you then do not worry about it that is not cheating in any way. Forgive her and start dating her as friends again and really slowly... If she is wanting to work it out with you and not see the other guys that is a good thing. I wonder why she does not want to kiss you. Give it some time and see what happens down the road. Why do her parents hate you if I may ask?
2006-06-08 16:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best answer I can give you is to be her friend first. The best people to date are ones you can talk to anything about. As far as not kissing you goes... that seems a little weird if she'll give you oral but not kiss you (unless of course it was right after giving you oral). Ask her right out, there's only one of two answers that she can give you but at least you'll know if you're wasting your time.
2006-06-08 16:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nursen' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think mabey you are more of a freind to her now and she does still have feelings for you. but more along the lines of friends. She may be jelouse becaouse of your close relationship you had with her no woman even after the break up wants the man to love someone more than her it is just an ego thing lots of women have. Stay friends and see where it goes.
2006-06-08 16:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by lady_to_know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you need to have a conversation with her about what she is doing and feeling and give yourself a chance to express your feelings and concerns to her. Clarify the situation.
She says she loves you and you love her, but there are levels and degrees of love. Maybe she isn't ready to commit to one man.
I don't know if I would see as much in the refusal to kiss as you do, but maybe there is a simple explanation, like it makes her big toe hurt (?) and if you ask, you will know that it isn't about not loving you. Talk to her!
2006-06-08 16:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Batty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys use women like this, but this time she is using you. You are a safe sure thing. Fun with no commitment. Love, I doubt it, but friends with benefits sounds like that to me. If you are cool with that, then leave it alone, if you want more, then lay it out there, otherwise you will be tortured.
2006-06-08 16:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! she sounds like she likes a lot of attention from a lot of different men. I would be careful not to catch something.... and if she loved you she wouldn't be with other people and neither would you. Also you should just make a clean break of her nothing positive will come out of it.
2006-06-08 16:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is to move on with your life. You can remember all of the good times you shared with her, but you have to put that in the past.
2006-06-08 16:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is strange that she will not kiss you. She must be playing the field and thinks that kissing is too personal. Good Luck!
2006-06-08 16:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she doesn't love you. She might love part of you or miss certain things about you, hence her occassionally coming around. but people who are in love don't separate from one another and sleep around.
2006-06-08 16:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by tobcol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋