All I do is hurt my husband, how do I stop, I excuse him of everything under the sun and make him feel like S H I T on a daily basis, he tells me I do! I don't want to! I try not too, but I continue to do it! I love him so much, really I do! What the H E L L is worng with me?
2006-06-08 06:45:29 · 14 answers · asked by Rikki M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Many times we take our frustration and or anger out on the person who is closest to us which is usually the one we love the most! Plan a "date night" with your husband! Tell him in advance that the two of you are going out to dinner together. Pick a restaurant that both of you enjoy. Wear something you know he finds sexy on you. Once this day comes, you are going to start off with a whole new attitude! You are going to be more positive about things. Yes there are things that will get us down but don't let it keep you down, no more S.H.I.T. !!!! From here on you are going to see the brighter side of things! That evening at dinner talk about all of the wonderful things the TWO of you have done TOGETHER! Reminisce about your wedding day, anything of the wonderful things that two of you have done! Also, tell him how after dinner you are going to take him home and the two of you are going to get absolutely wild in bed! After this, wake up each day and realize how good you have things. A wonderful, loving husband, a good family life and all of the other things you may have! Take a positve outlook on things and you will stop giving him that other thing you mentioned. By doing this you will help yourself mostly but also your marriage too!
Good luck!
2006-06-08 07:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't love (don't be mad at me like someone said the truth hurts) maybe what you think is love is truly not. Some people are together for so long that they become use to each other and are only together out of habit.
Honestly the fact that you "make him feel like S H I T on a daily basis" over powers the so called love you have for him. Take it from someone who knows each time you hurt him slowly he loses love for you. So if you do not want to loose your hubby I suggest you get some marriage counseling.
2006-06-08 14:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and be a real woman, instead of a brat. You are in love with your husband, true, but you are acting very SELFISH.
When you don't get your way, instead of thinking things through and exercising due patience, and being cleaver, as good woman usually is, you are
in his face, and brash, and you say whatever comes to your mind.
Grow up - get the skills a woman needs to get what she wants and still make a man feel like a million bucks. Learn how to be clever without making a stink. If you don't you might lose him.
I wish you love
STW
2006-06-08 13:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because usually we are the most honest with the ones we love and sometime the truth hurts, But if your are accusing him of alot of stuff maybe yo just need to take a look at everything and figure out why.
2006-06-08 13:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by tryinhard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we our so concerned about the people v love that in order to avoide any inconvinence to them, we non intentially do sumthng which leads us to regretion.
avoide asking him questions everytime he comes back home.
show ur faith and concerne in him.
it will make him feel worth u.
try pleasuring him,
make delicious food and appetize him to all the extents.
spend time together, know each other better.
tell him often that u love him, but dont irritate him wid dis.
and at last dont hastel in negotiating issues.
where there is a will there is a way.
hope u find the way.
all the best.
god bless.
heaven stays.
2006-06-08 13:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your missing him you need to lay w/ him talk laugh then your going to laugh and love forgive learn to built each others up no more tearing one down look up smile your in control so stay postive on high note love ya life it happen ya say honey i sorry give him a hug everyday kiss him count him in ya heart good luck girl Rockon !
2006-06-08 13:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is coming from another man so i no how it feels to be hurt . but if u look in the world it is hard 2 find a good man but it easy 2 find a good woman
2006-06-08 13:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by youngkeef270 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u hate urself for loving him.....has ure marriage meant lots of sacrifices on ure part? maybe then u resent him for the sacrifices u made...even though he might not have asked u to make them and u did so willingly at that point...but now when u have him its killing u that u did and maybe u think he didnt have to change his life at all....
2006-06-08 13:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by ak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling and help here . You need to stop being mean and start being nice to him. I am here to talk if you need to talk. I dont want to see you lose this guy!
2006-06-08 13:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him why do u keep hurting him, u really have to try hard not to hurt him.
2006-06-08 13:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋