i want to get married and have a baby too
2006-06-08 06:49:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be a real woman, not a shallow Barbie; A responsible woman who works hard & plays harder. Someone who's a goof to hang with, great laughs are essential. Do not push the issue let him realize that you're a catch. Don't look for him to complete you, be happy with who you are. Let him get to now you & your idiosyncrasies, & pet peeves as he should get to know yours. In the meantime have a great time getting to the next phase. Don't bore him intellectually, emotionally, or intimately. Intelligent conversation with a beautiful woman turns guys on & dumb chicks turn us off. Be affectionate but not over the top. Also be a lady; it's ok to be one of the guys but, not all the time. We prefer a woman who loves being a woman & looking like one, dressed up or dressed down for beer or wine. Be spicy, enchanting, sexy, eclectic, sensual, cultured. Make him want to be around you more and more. In the bedroom be a passion filled, no holds barred, uninhibited, hang from the rafters lover who can throw caution to the wind & will keep him guessing, push the boundaries of your intimacy to new heights & limits. Sex should be fun, passionate, sensual, spontaneous, sometimes kink, & always safe.
2006-06-08 07:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by zmebme 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and really think. Take all the gushy romatic feelings out of the picture. Hard to do, but it must be done to answer.
Does he really love you?
Is he the marrying kind?
Are you really ready to get married, or do you think that being married will fix what's wrong in your life?
On that third one, let me tell you...if you ask around, marriage does NOT fix things. And kids do NOT fix relationships. If your relationship with him has problems, marrying will make him notice the problems MORE. If you two fight or his eyes roam, having a baby will feel like a NOOSE and push him to FLEE. If it's YOUR life that is a mess...you want to move out of the parents house, you worry he's going to leave, you two fight...then you need to work on YOU.. Marriage will NOT fix these things.
If he's not the marrying kind and you are in a healthy relationship, then get out or stop worrying about marriage and kids. It's basically hit the road or shut it. I mean that in the kindest way.
2006-06-08 07:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by WriterMom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him that you want babies he will run away!
Get into sports and start liking beer.
Turn off the nagging button.
Don't be needy and overwhelming.
Always look pretty for him, wearing skirts and high heels is a plus.
Good luck!
But the truth is, men are ready for marriage when they feel like it and there is nothing you can do to push the situation. A man comes to a point of their life where rthey crave for a family and stability. Hopefully, your man is ready, if not, there is nothing yu can do about it. Honest.
2006-06-08 07:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty. And I am not being superficial, I am talking about inward beauty, personality. If you are a beautiful person inwardly it will come out and that attract the marrying kind. Some of the most beautiful women can be so ugly inwardly that it comes out and they are no longer attractive to anyone who knows them. Just be yourself, honesty is key.
2006-06-08 06:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by beauman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seeing someone now? If so take your time and get to know the person really well before commiting in marriage to them. If you are just looking then by all means take your time and breathe and go slow... No need to hurry... By the way how old are you? You seem awful young!
2006-06-08 06:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, girl. Me too!! :)
What I know for sure they love - a woman that takes care of herself (but not to the point where she only eats salad, men like women who can eat and eat well), a woman who´s got a good head over her shoulders, a woman who cooks (great asset to have), a woman who knows how to treat her man (you know, great in the kitchen, great in bed), a woman with a sense of humor and good positive outlook.
2006-06-08 07:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by goodgirl2484 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, pure unconditional love....not you do this for me, i'll do this for u.... cooking well helps, listen, communication, honesty, show you;re responsible with your home and money so when the time comes he will see beforehand that you can take those responsibilities on. Respect him too...
2006-06-08 06:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by pianoshopgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook well...men love food.
2006-06-08 06:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by bubblesunday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat him as he was the only man left on this earth. but let him know that he can't walk all over you.
2006-06-08 06:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by squirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good and frequent sex helps a lot. But don't do it unless you like it yourself.
2006-06-08 06:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋