Marriage & Divorce - 8 June 2006

I mean, i'm not happy because my husband is going out, and i'm constantly yelling and swearing at my two boys because i'm so stress, and i really don't want to yell at them anymore, but its so hard because they're so bad too, and we are having so much money problems with the bills and plus my husband is getting laid off, and we have a newborn, and i have no job and can't seem to find one, and we have no reliable car, our bedrooms are so damn tiny that we can't ever fit a crib inside there for the baby, and we don't even have draws for our clothes, and these annoying people keeps coming over to eat all our food, and they can't ever just leave us alone, and i have so many things to deal with at home that i never get any rest, and i'm hardly eating now, so i lost about 30 pounds already during my two weeks of postpartum, and these stupid jerks don't wanna pay me my money that they owe me, but tell me what you think of my life...ok

2006-06-08 15:53:09 · 10 answers · asked by lola 2

2006-06-08 15:51:56 · 4 answers · asked by Megan R 1

2006-06-08 15:49:08 · 7 answers · asked by creditloandone 1

If your spouse found out you were cheating and asked you to stop cheating, would you do it? and will they forgive you?

2006-06-08 15:43:48 · 20 answers · asked by Mercury5_7 3

My husband told me cause of all the stuff ive done and said he doesnt want to be with me anymore.Ok so why wont he leave he has somewhere to go ?And also why does he still get mad when i do things ,i walked out of the house in short shorts and i got yelled at .Anyways on the cheating thing he swears he wouldnt or did anything ever.So yea i was overreactting so yea i deserved all this crap i guess.

2006-06-08 15:43:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband of 9 1/2 years left me abandoned in 357 miles from home in a corporate condo for 2 weeks, I made it home and the man moved back in with his x-wife it's been 1 1/2 years we were divorced yesterday and I still can't breathe I love him so much, he left me homeless, how in the hell can I even care let alone feel like I'm going to have a heart attack every second of the day, I feel worthless, useless, and ugly.

2006-06-08 15:39:01 · 15 answers · asked by SingleCellHeart 1

Everytime he goes out of town he promises not to do it, but inevitably, after a few months he does it again. I am concerned about the choices that he may be making when he gets so drunk...ie I am not sure I can trust him. This has been going on for years.

2006-06-08 15:13:55 · 26 answers · asked by frogrtesting 1

2006-06-08 15:08:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-08 15:00:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was listening to Marketplace on American Public Media today on the way back from the lake. I heard an incredible (perhaps I should use the word "incredulous" instead) article about "post-nuptial agreements."

If you missed the article, you can find the online version at http://marketplace.publicradio.org/shows/2006/06/08/PM200606085.html

If you're a) aware of this, b) know of someone in your sphere of influence that has implemented one, or c) have implemented one yourself, I'd like to know more about it. I'm fascinated by the concept.

2006-06-08 14:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by Scotty Doesnt Know 7

My husband recently totaled my sports car. He promised to buy me a nice replacement. He said he picked out a lovely Audi for me at a local dealer, but I just found (long story) that it is his ex-wifes car who wanted to sell it. I'm furious! He not only lied but was going to have me driving around like an idiot not even knowing I was in his ex's car. He says what's the big deal? What do you all say?

2006-06-08 14:41:00 · 20 answers · asked by 13th Floor 6

I am having a rainbow wedding and I want to make sure the colors will look nice together. My colors are butter,lavender and pistachio. My flower girls are wearing pink and the Jr bridesmaid is wearing pale blue. What do you think?

2006-06-08 14:29:18 · 3 answers · asked by musiclover 5

i want to stay friends with him because we have 2 children but he is constantly asking me to go back to him and gets angry when i say no i have tried to explain that i don't love him anymore but he doesn't seem to get it i am 25 and he is 35 but he is acting like a child how do i remain friends with him when he keeps doing this?

2006-06-08 14:23:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-08 14:16:34 · 5 answers · asked by ctownparts 1

Would you have sex outside of your marriage? Would you have sex with someone that is married?

2006-06-08 14:12:39 · 15 answers · asked by daddys_girl319 2

2006-06-08 14:03:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-08 14:03:05 · 11 answers · asked by CHARLIE 1

Also Men what do you like to buy for your wives and what do you think looks best on your wife? Diamonds, opals, birthstones, pearls or rubies and do you like the stone set in gold or silver the best?
As for me i like diamonds set in white gold. The rarer the diamond the better and i want a teardrop diamond in a nice white gold setting in a ring! They just shine! Diamonds are my favorite and i also like my birthstone as it is pretty too. My birthstone is peridot.

2006-06-08 13:58:03 · 6 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6

how can people agree with equal rights and not agree with same sex marriage? i believe the problem is fear. they don't like what they don't understand. if this country can say we are free, then why do we have all these "rules" that are just there for the sake of paper? if you want to be ignorant, do it on your own time, not when it is dealing with someone else's rights. straight, gay, bisexual, if you cut them do they not bleed? quit trying to run everyone else's life just because you don't know how to run your own!! one more ? since when does the government have the right to take away a persons free will?

2006-06-08 13:50:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-08 13:49:16 · 11 answers · asked by marcia t 1

2006-06-08 13:35:44 · 24 answers · asked by marcia t 1

my husband revealed his bi-sexuality to me and I didn't have a problem with it because I am bi myself. We decided for the first time that we would explore these things together and be open and honest about goings on, however his "need" for male intercourse is stronger than bisexual tendencies. I don't "need" to have sex with a girl, it's fun to do when the occasion rises but it doesn't cause me great distress not to have it. I'm starting to think that maybe he's more Gay than Bi because in our first attempt to openly explore with a guy he acted in a way i've never seen him before, he was all about this guy & then the guy told me that my husband said that I wouldn't always be involved and when I questioned him about it in front of the guy he called me bitches and threatened to leave me, it was like he cared more about what this guy thought of him than what I did, it was really weird and I don't have anyone to ask about this. Is he Gay Gay & not just Bi?

2006-06-08 13:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by very confused 1

When I was pregnant his excuse was he could feel the baby. it feaked him out, he felt uncomfortable. now we have had our baby and still 5 weeks later nada. i have no problem satisfying him but he won't return the favor. he says he is worried we may get pregnant again, what do i do.

2006-06-08 13:30:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-08 13:28:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-08 13:25:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this girl have been dating for 8 months. i really love her and i tell her all the time that we belong together and she said she feels the same. so should i pop the question?

2006-06-08 13:16:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-08 13:12:02 · 1 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6

2006-06-08 13:11:17 · 10 answers · asked by ruby 4

I already have some that i visit like Doctor Phil's site and Marriage today with Jimmy and Karen Evans but i would like to see more ! I really enjoy visiting and learning from these sites. Thanks in advance for your responses!

2006-06-08 13:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6

I know I keep asking the same question.

My ex-girlfriend left me 10 months ago. We started talking again a couple of months ago.

Since she left, we have both dated and been with other people (sexually and not) and once she tried to come to my house when I was with someone else, which made her jealous.

I'm still very much in love with and and would like to get back together one day.

Last weekend she took me out for my birthday. We spent ten hours together and even fooled around a little. We talked about our dates etc. and me telling her actually got her excited.

We both had a great time (I didn't say I love you and neither did she) and would love to do it again.

Do you think she's still in love with me? Do you think there is a chance we could get back together? She's the woman I want to marry. We're both 45 years old.

Any suggestions as to how I could win her back? She has lots of other men interested in her, and is dating casually.

Suggestions/Ideas?

2006-06-08 13:03:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous