I think i have some sort of bad luck going on for me, what do you think?

Question

I mean, i'm not happy because my husband is going out, and i'm constantly yelling and swearing at my two boys because i'm so stress, and i really don't want to yell at them anymore, but its so hard because they're so bad too, and we are having so much money problems with the bills and plus my husband is getting laid off, and we have a newborn, and i have no job and can't seem to find one, and we have no reliable car, our bedrooms are so damn tiny that we can't ever fit a crib inside there for the baby, and we don't even have draws for our clothes, and these annoying people keeps coming over to eat all our food, and they can't ever just leave us alone, and i have so many things to deal with at home that i never get any rest, and i'm hardly eating now, so i lost about 30 pounds already during my two weeks of postpartum, and these stupid jerks don't wanna pay me my money that they owe me, but tell me what you think of my life...ok

By the way, i have good credit, and that's the only good thing in my life right now, besides my kids. i love them very much. but anyways, so yeah, i never missed a payment and i don't intend to, because i'm very careful with my credit...

Answer 1

i've been through similar bad patches. lost my job and my family over abusing narcotics.

that was a pretty depressing time.

i was talking to a fellow about it and mentioned that i'd had a spell of bad luck.

he said he didn't believe in 'bad' luck. he believed we made our own luck. when he said that it was like someone had turned on a light---if you believe in 'bad luck' then you become a victim. if you 'make your own good luck' you become in charge of your life. he was right!

he told me that almost 20 years ago, and its as true today as it was then. we make our own luck.

keep working, don't ever give up. remember, we make our own luck!

Answer 2

You responded to my question of a cheating husband and I was not sure how to get back to you. Your life sounds a bit similar to mine. I have 3 small kids 3 and under. While I was prego with my last I was a mess. It puts a lot of stress on the family and your emotions go crazy. He started cheating when I was pregnant because of the horrible time we were experiencing. He dove into work and I worked and took are of the 2 kids. I knew my husband was cheating because I felt it. Sixth sense?? I am not sure, but anyone who comes home super late in the evening and gives YOU grief for it is guilty of something. Smell his clothes etc, try and get him aroused. All I needed to know was what I was feeling. I wish you the best with your children and family.

Answer 3

Could any more be found wrong? Yes, it could. For I think you are manufacturing some of your own problems, and that you are on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Before you let that happen, please seek professional help. Find a psychologist at least who can determine your mental state and assist you to get either medical help or at least counseling. You obviously need someone to talk to who is unbiased, even dispassionate. No one can deal with the issues you cite at one time and remain unaffected. But it's not luck, it is what you and your husband have had the misfortune not to see coming and did too little to head off. That's not bad luck; it is bad management of your lives.

Answer 4

It isn't bad luck. The devil has gotten into your life and taken control. Each time that you yell, cuss and throw a fit at your boys and husband the devil is throwing a party in Hell. I'm not sure of what you believe, and I don't care. I am a Christian and it is my duty to witness to people no matter if I know them or not. If you pray to Jesus and turn your life and your problems over to him, he will bless you in ways you've never thought possible. I will pray for you and with you if you need me to. Jesus died on the cross for our sins, and he will come back. I believe that it isn't far off either. Turn your life over to him and pray as often as you can. He hears your prayers if you believe and if you trust in him he will bless you abundantly. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Phillipians 4:13

Answer 5

you are in a major mess!! because you are not skill in any form of relationships and perhaps you r not emotionally mature enough to get married to be begin with never mind having children. on top of that you and your husband are probably lousy financial managers!! You have a lot of work to do to get out of this mess. first by cutting off free loaders that is not part of your immediate family!! than you ought ot focus on your family....you betterb e on the pills and your husband should wear condoms everytime!! Can't afford to have more children!! you need to seek financial counselling from around your area. hopefully they can define for you and your family what is want and what is need. And start cutting unnecessary expenses and trust me there are many areas that can be cut...your husband can;t be picky about finding job at this point. the family needs the income to survive.....you ought to start treating your children the way it should be ...not using your own burden as an excuse to take it out on them. punish them consistenly on bad behaviors and nothing else!! the more emotionally you get the messier things will get. It,s not about luck, it's about controlling your emotion, use your logical thinking instead....that applies to every aspect of your life....be patient and slowly you will get out of this mess....

Answer 6

Sounds like evil eye -- it is typically forged by accident by means of a jealous individual. There are a pair approaches to eliminate it. Supposedly letting the individual have or contact the object (wherein relevant) is adequate to dispel the bad have an impact on. There are a few cultures wherein you must watch out approximately complimenting persons on their possessions in view that they are going to think obliged to provide it to you to maintain you from casting evil eye on them! Otherwise, there are charms and amulets that may be worn to dispel evil eye. They mainly contain some thing eye formed and the colour blue. A buddy of mine got here again from Turkey and gave me a tiny one she'd picked up that have compatibility on a small security pin -- I used to put on it within my sleeve. Otherwise they mainly come as necklaces, bracelets and many others. Finally, the usage of distinct herbs is mainly hired to fight the Evil Eye. Rue and Sage are a few traditional ones. If you purchase a few Rue oil and blend it into your fragrance or frame wash that perhaps enough -- I might for my part begin dressed in Rue oil on myself day-to-day, on your function. Otherwise, there are extra formal, elaborate rites like egg cleansings that may be played. I'd propose making an attempt probably the most above ways due to the fact that it sort of feels to be a widespread obstacle, nonetheless.

Answer 7

its a lot like mine, people tell me that when u hit bottom the only way to go is up, wrong, u can stay on the bottom and never move, i hate people like that, makes me want to use the f word.as far as ur life goes, i dont think i know anyone thats that bad off, i dont know what to say that would give u any kind of hope, you will be in my prayers

Answer 8

This really isn't an answer to this question but,

I loved your answer to the shrew wife question!!! you just described my husband to a T !!! So, don't feel so alone lady! Life sucks for most of us right now!!! And Men suck!!! I don't know who made up the rule that women have to carry the burden of the whole house, but we do and its Wrong!!! I don't have a solution for ya but if you find one please let me in on it!!

Answer 9

Ya that is some bad luck. Life sucks sometimes. My advice is to take control of the situation as best as you can. Do not put up with crap..but still control your temper. especially with your kids.

Answer 10

yes you are going thru a hard patch and there is no real comfort for that

but things will turn around - if you hang hard

the measure of character is how we hang when we are rock bottom