2006-06-08 13:25:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey people just cause we men are dogs doesn't mean we stop having sex with are wives. Usually if the wife never ever instigates a sexual encounter the spouse will lose interest. Also and very common is he just cant get it up like he use to so instead of going through the embarrassment of trying and failing he just doesn't do anything. It isn't easy for a lot of men to seek help for impotence you know?
2006-06-09 16:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by elreybrown 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you should of course ask him, but....I would suspect, either that he is interested in another woman or...
1. weight gain on your part...no matter how little.
2. bad breath or something like that
3. he has lost respect for you because he has seen you slip into uncoucious behavior...i.e. things like farting around the house, becoming slovenly, sitting around watching TV, becoming an internet addict...it could be anything really.
Get up and get out of the house on your own. Get a life, get in great shape at the gym...he will come around I bet. Maybe when you do these things, you will lose interest in him
2006-06-08 14:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by odysseus96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to ask him. But here are some possible reasons.
1) He's having a hard time at work, he's stressed and tired
2) His libido is just going down
3) He's having sex with someone else
4) He thinks you're having sex with someone else
5) He just doesn't want to
Bottomline: It doesn't matter what I say -- ask him.
2006-06-08 13:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by kissy972001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know how to answer this question! Is he stressed out or upset about something? Does he seem preoccupied? Maybe he is having an affair. Sit down and talk with him and ask him why. Try spicing things up for him in the bedroom too!
2006-06-08 13:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be a number of things!health problems for one will do it,or maybe just ask him why! that would be your best bet.but there might be a possibility of cheating.But how long have u been together?because if he is doing the cheating thing there is signs.red flags.
2006-06-08 14:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by very concerned55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a physical problem that he hasn't told you about. It has been several months since my wife has been willing and I don't know why either.
2006-06-08 13:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by bill_lee48 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's having sex without you (by himself or w another). for some reason he doesn't want you.
the more important question is: what are you going to do about it? i suggest a heart-to-heart chat.
2006-06-08 14:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously say, maybe "down there" isn't tidy. It happened to me when I didn't want to have sex with my girlfriend...
2006-06-08 13:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weight gain tired when this happen to me he had found a new love and didnt know how to tell me we just drifted apart lies after lies, the signs should be there plain to see excus,
2006-06-08 13:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The have sex with him.
2006-06-08 13:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋