my husband revealed his bi-sexuality to me and I didn't have a problem with it because I am bi myself. We decided for the first time that we would explore these things together and be open and honest about goings on, however his "need" for male intercourse is stronger than bisexual tendencies. I don't "need" to have sex with a girl, it's fun to do when the occasion rises but it doesn't cause me great distress not to have it. I'm starting to think that maybe he's more Gay than Bi because in our first attempt to openly explore with a guy he acted in a way i've never seen him before, he was all about this guy & then the guy told me that my husband said that I wouldn't always be involved and when I questioned him about it in front of the guy he called me bitches and threatened to leave me, it was like he cared more about what this guy thought of him than what I did, it was really weird and I don't have anyone to ask about this. Is he Gay Gay & not just Bi?
2006-06-08 13:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by very confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
please tell me what makes you say what you say, for those that say gay what about my story signals this to you and for those that say not gay, well noone has so nevermind.
2006-06-08 13:42:54 · update #1
sounds like he is coming out
2006-06-08 13:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you know the answer. in your story you made a point to say he acted differently at the first encounter. And why would the extra guy lie about it? You know him...would he have motives? If not, your husband is gay.
2006-06-08 20:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda sounds gay to me but make sure and ask him and seek for the truth! Dont judge and give him a chance to explain himself!
2006-06-08 21:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gay to me! As for reasons, just read what you wrote. It's obvious in how he acted during and after.........
2006-06-08 22:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your husband taking it up the butt while he called you a b*tch? If so, he's probably gay.
2006-06-13 13:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by virtualguy_53211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's more than just bi....
2006-06-08 20:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ ☆ StarLiteGrl~98☼1 ☆ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me I would pick the 1st answer
2006-06-08 20:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry my friend but he is gay gay gay.
2006-06-08 20:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by caramel_sexy20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...hes gay
2006-06-08 20:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋