2006-06-08 13:35:44 · 24 answers · asked by marcia t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Watch the signs! Does he stay away all night? Says he's going to the corner store but takes 2 hours to get back? Does'nt have sex with you as much as he used to? Starts pointing out all your faults, everyday? If you can answer yes to 2 or more of these questions then he is probally cheating. If you're married then payback is a *****. If you're not married consider moving on honey. 12 years is too long to just be a "mate" anyway. However, I find that pouncing on a big d**k 25 year old stud makes me not give a damn about his cheating. Just keep paying my bills!
2006-06-08 13:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
FIND OUT. I think you should search in everything your mate has. I'm not trying to turn you against him but you need to know. Check emails, check phone records, check voice mails check everything!!!! To me there is nothing worse than being cheated on and YOU are the only one that doesn't know whats going on. Maybe the person your mate is cheating with is in your circle of really close friends and you may never know if you don't look for answers yourself. FIND OUT NOW!!!!!
2006-06-08 20:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by shoefrkfosho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i just went though this and ,u will know by the way he acts around u and the way he dresses,does he have a i don't give a crap attitude about anything around the house?just sit down and ask him point blank!get the proof so u can show him if he lying.then i would say good ridden buddy,u may hurt but if u stay u will be hurting more in the long run OK.
2006-06-08 21:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by very concerned55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not capable of monogamy. Maybe 12 years was your mates limit.
2006-06-08 20:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give ur mate a reason 2 second guess an affair.
2006-06-08 20:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I think me and you are i the same boat. When you find out the signs of a cheater, let me know. Mine has gone distant on me and barley wants to hug or kiss. He states, that he was never a lovey dovey person, but I hate the cold shoulder. What else is a girl to think, huh?
2006-06-08 20:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years you should know if things have changed sit him down and ask right out if he is find out why what has gone wrong and see if you can fix the problem if not move on . it will hurt but time heals a broken heart good luck and i hope you are wrong
2006-06-08 20:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys have been together 12 years you know them pretty well. Just ask them to be truthful with you. 9 times outta 10 your right.
2006-06-08 20:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can address your concerns with your mate without accusing them of cheating.
2006-06-08 20:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you know for sure that he is cheating, then start what you need to do to drop him. Even if he is "sorry", and he stops, you'll never be able to trust him again and you'll be miserable. To me, cheating is the one sin you cannot forgive.
TX GUY
2006-06-08 20:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋