2006-06-08 07:45:27 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as two adults find a common ground, they work. My BF is 20 years older (I'm 27) and I can't imagine my life without him. We are on the same level in so many ways - maturity, goals, opinion, etc. Like any relationship, it comes down to a balance of give & take, acceptance, and respecting each other. I believe people come into our lives for a reason, and we learn and grow from them. Being in love is the greatest feeling in the world and age shouldn't stop anyone from experienceing it.
2006-06-08 07:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy-N-Luv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think a situation like this should be just for fun and not considered as a serious situation. there is just too much difference in your life experience when you are 40, what can you possibly have in common with someone that is 20 except some fun sex? when a guy does it i think its called a midlife crisis, the guy wants to feel like he's still got it and the girl wants a father figure and the security of an established bf. the women i've known that have done it have seen it as just a fun thing and weren't foolish enough to take it seriously.
2006-06-08 07:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with either of those! Age is just a number. It's how you feel on the inside. My aunt & uncle are 20 years apart.
2006-06-08 07:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by leecarh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation of discussion is the place the balance of equality gets disturbed. typical consensus might answer your question with a great fat resounding 'no it is not immoral', while in case you turn the jobs (older guy, youthful girls) the respond could be the whole opposite. Ah have been a stupid bunch us people, eh?
2016-10-30 10:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over the long run
devinately no
i am married for 13 years
our difference is 14 years
does not work out
2006-06-08 07:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by spike 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who cares. age is just a number. i wouldn't have a problem dating somone 20 years younger or older has long we are having fun.
2006-06-08 11:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number.
2006-06-08 07:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by scarlett_038 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's ok as long as it's not one of your family memebers. My mother is 14 yrs older than her boyfriend. Put it this way her husband and mine are the same age.......juk!!!
2006-06-08 07:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by yo_010180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is their choice! Dont make no difference to me either way. Whatever floats their boat! If they are right for each other then so be it!
2006-06-08 07:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age doesn't matter as long as they are happy
2006-06-08 07:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋