Friends - December 2007

What do you do ?
when someone betrays you then they come back and you act like every thing is ok (but you hate them inside) but your just gona wait for the momement to pay them back but as you wait you gorow close to them agan and you still hate them more then ever .....what do you do??

2007-12-05 11:00:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 3 friends and i had a few drinks and one girl had a few too many. i'll call her "Ducky". Ducky has never been w a guy. ducky had got sick and we had to lay her down. so like 3 hrs later i get smashed and have to lay down so i go to lay in her bed. well ducky kept trying to finger me and i kept tellin her No and pushing her off and i even curled up and squished myself into the corner of the bed. but she was very persistant. so i went to sleep on the couch in other room. i am so freaked out and disgusted cuz it makes stuff awkward between us and i am not even sure she remembers. but if i remembered it and i was drunk- how can she not?
should i just toss this up to a wild drinking night and forget about it?
or should i talk to her and ask her if she is gonna wear birkenstock sandles and move to san francisco to become a freewheelin lesbodian?
i am trying to make a joke but this really is bothering me.

2007-12-05 10:58:03 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2

she is devastated and i dont know what to say to her or how to help her

2007-12-05 10:23:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi

at college I used to be friends with this girl, at first she was great, but now I have figured out she is VERY two-faced and makes my life an absolute nightmare. Living in the same college house as her (next door to mine) I see her every day, I am in the same classes as her so it's very hard to avoid her, she spreads lies about me, and when I last stood up for myself, I was accused of being a bully! When I said nothing rude and do nothing but stick up for her despite the amount I hate the girl! I tried avoiding her, talking to her, and for a while she is fine then she goes onto an attention seeking rant and the staff just think I am being mean. All my fellow students tell me what an attention seeking b**** she can be, and have on many occasions said nasty things about her, but still I refuse to gang up on her. She even claimed rape on a friend of mine so she could get some attention!!!

How do I deal with her without being accused of bullying, or being mean =/

2007-12-05 10:02:47 · 4 answers · asked by jessy p 2

We were friends for almost a year and things were going well but within the last six months she calls me 4 or 5 times a day, comes over when i dont answer the phone, she has one sided conversations with me (doesnt listen to me or cuts me off) She pokes her head out her door as soon as i drive in and says: wanna come over for tea?, Tries to talk me into drinking when I try to quit, slept with the neighbor's husband, she doesnt have any family and makes me feel guilty so that ill be her friend, i keep trying to avoid her but she always finds a way into my house, looks in my window and asks who was here, screwed around with my brother, keeps hounding me and she wont give up no matter what i do or say. How the hell can i get rid of her without hurting her too badly?

2007-12-05 09:57:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend died 10 weeks ago in a car accident. I didn't attend her funeral because I found out after she died. Some of my other friends weren't able to attend because we're scattered everywhere. because I didn't attend I feel a bit of emptiness like a hole in my life.
I was thinking since we all a lot of time around Christmas time to have a memorial service so the rest of us who didn't get to attend can at least get the opportunity to say what we wanted to. The thing is I need her husband's permission and he's pretty unstable right now. His son and sister died with her in the accident and he was the driver. Is this memorial service a good idea?

2007-12-05 09:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by christigmc 5

im 15 and i have no idea wat to get my friends, i also am a little lost at wat i myself want...

soo wat do u thik a teenage girl wud want or if you are a girl wat wud u want?

2007-12-05 09:37:45 · 6 answers · asked by xbrunette1492 2

Especially during the Holidays we are confronted with people we often feel conflicted about: I'm talking about family!

What are some of the ways you deal with family members you find difficult?

2007-12-05 08:27:07 · 23 answers · asked by Spiritual_Director_4_Women 2

my friend is not that rich wat so ever and she cant efford to take a shower but i dont want to really like sit by her bc i dont want to get it on me but i dont want to tell her really bc i dont want to hurt her feelings bc she is sesitive plz some good advive (i am not older than 13 so plz some slack and no mean things )

2007-12-05 08:24:09 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Peace♥Love♥Jonas♥ 2

I just found out that my boyfriend is doing coke and it is killing me but he dosen't see that and i dont know how to help him what should i do stay with him or just leave him????????? please help me!!!!!!

2007-12-05 08:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by chikafresa 1

i really like her and cant live without her. she is my best friend. she is really mad at me and havent called me in 4 days now. i need her back in my life. what should i do? please help me out!

2007-12-05 07:39:30 · 9 answers · asked by surfingbeaver 2

My best friend of 5 years has recently begun talking and getting involved with guys from myspace, which I think is very dangerous, but she does it anyway
She has a new bf now that she met from there, and they have been dating for about 6 months or so
I noticed that she had been gaining a lot of weight which is VERY much unlike her, and I asked her if something was wrong and if she was depressed w/ her new guy
She told me that for years she has had this sexual fetish to gain weight and this guy shares it with her, and together they are trying to gain as much weight as they can
She went on to tell me about how they feed each other fattening food and have the best sex ever
I was more than stunned, and being her friend, I just listened, but now she tells me all the time about things they do together, and it's bizarre, not to mention a health hazard!
How can I handle this without being mean and loosing my friendship with her?

2007-12-05 07:37:46 · 4 answers · asked by marm212 5

Is it possible for you to just...become insane from the lack of friends or popularity?
Because...I've lost all my friends in three days due to retarded reasons, and now I'm alone.
Everyone hates me because of the retarded stuff I've done.
ex: jealousy (in thier minds) and offending my best friend with an matter-of-fact remark.

and now, they've told everyone, and now I'm screwed, and nobody likes me because they think I'm a *****!!

PLEASE...
I don't know what to do....

2007-12-05 07:37:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm at a stand still , I don't know which way to go or where I should be how does one find out there destiny there purpose , once there children are just about grown one Graduated and the other one just turned 18 and is graduating in June , and I never even finished H.S
:(

2007-12-05 06:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by foxy_blue00 3

I have a good friend who smokes the green stuff a lot. She always does it Friday and Saturday night--and I mean she smokes to get high, not has one hit--and almost always does it Thursday night, too. Sometimes she does it as many as four nights a week for several weeks in a row. The thing is, she's an adult, 24, and she has a job which she excels at. The issue here, for me, is not whether it's legal. I think it should be. But even if it were legal...three, four nights a week, with two of those being Friday and Saturday, where she aims to get pretty high...to me that seems like too much. It bothers me. I worry about her. I told her this, but she always just says she understands how I might think it's too much, but she can do what she wants. I think she does it because she is bored with her life, etc. Am I justified in pushing harder and telling her she has a problem. Please do not address legality in your answers; I would not say, "you shouldn't do it b/c it's illegal." while I wouldn't

2007-12-05 06:40:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 05:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by homie crispy 2

I have a friend who moved 10 states away after graduation. She insisted that 'she would not go visit ANYONE, until they visited her first'. This is her typical attitude, so naturally being the good friend I booked a flight a month after her move to go stay with her & her bf for a week.

She refused to cook, let me cook or bring us to the grocery store. We ate out 3 meals a day, and in the end spent $450 on FOOD. Then our flight going home got delayed, and she insisted we stay at a hotel near the airport to 'not inconvenience her to get up at 4:30am'. We had a budget of $500 for this trip, we spent $1,100 in total.

Ok, yea we shouldnt be friends. But being the person i am, i ask when are you going to come stay with me? Oh, after her june visit to friend X, her july visit to friend Y and her february visit to friend Z.. NONE of whom plan or have been to visit her.

its one of those relationships where i know i shouldnt be friends with her, but i figured that out too late

2007-12-05 04:52:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says that she doesn't like the way things are going. Her husband i think has some thing to do with because he puts her down all the time. she doesn't feel like eating any more or doing any thing any more. I don't know what to say to her. how can i get her help with out her getting mad at me?

2007-12-05 04:42:53 · 46 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4

n with this girl in a different state and my family is 1,000 miles in a different state and I want to make them both happy.

2007-12-05 04:36:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that there should be a bullying section or at least a school problems section, does anyone agree ?

2007-12-05 03:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by pop 4

MY boyfriend and I love eachother alot but I have never gotten him jealous and I want to go to his friends house this weekend and Have some fun and dance and I want to teach him how to grind and his friend knows so until I can teach him I want to just grind with his friend... Do you think he will get jelaous.... and I am really good friends with the guy too, and if me and my boyfriend ever broke up he would defineitly become my next boyfriend....so What do you think?

2007-12-05 03:37:07 · 35 answers · asked by scarred_soul_princess 2

For me that would be my mom and dad.

2007-12-05 02:49:54 · 15 answers · asked by kim t 7

Friends,

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Thank you!

-R

2007-12-05 01:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by -R 6

I like a boy. he is very graceful. He is my very good friend. how to know his feelings? how to express my feelings?

2007-12-04 22:49:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who is always late - sometimes by ten minutes, sometimes thirty, but consistently late. She knows she is, she often says to me, "Sorry, I know I'm always late." It didn't bother me that much until recently, when she said, "The only thing I'm never late for is work, because I'm afraid of being fired."

This made me feel really unimportant - yes, if you are always late for work you can lose your job. But if you are always late meeting a friend you could lose that friend. Perhaps she doesn't realise this?

I'm not sure whether to confront her about her lateness, because I don't think she is uncaring, I think she is just one of those people who leaves things til the last minute.

Should I have a talk to her about it, or just start giving her an earlier time to turn up to meet me?

2007-12-04 21:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by jasmine 3

i had a fight with them because i was saying that 41/60 isnt a good maths exam mark and 22/30 isnt a good test mark. they got really pissy at me because they got lower than me and they said i was insulting them so they didnt talk to me for the rest of the day! my other friend told me that they had called me lesbian because i dont have a boyfriend or go out with guys a lot and they've bitched about me behind my back. i had no idea they were like that. i honestly thought they were truthful, friendly people but i was proven wrong. there are only two days of school left. should i make up with them, i didnt start the fight, they did.
and we are 15 years old!!

2007-12-04 18:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by My Name Is Trip 4

2007-12-04 18:03:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help me here. I am struggling to keep alive right now. I tried to commit suicide a few months ago and those feelings are lingering and worse. First, my mother, she is driving me insanse..most negative person you would meet always convincing in her secretive ways that my husband doesnt love me, wants divorce, and is messing around. I have an autistic son 12 who has not a clue whats up but I protect him the best I can from it. My husband always thinks I cheat on him, etc. but I have done of the following. I take off hours at a time to be alone and cry to myself as I am not one to do it in public or let anyone see me like this. My hubby lost his job recent and its been stressful and he has made me juggle everything. Its hard for me as I am on disablity with advanced lupus and the pain is unreal. My group of freinds left me right when I went through the suicidal thing because one mad up a lie about me and the others believed. The one I thought would never leave me has now

2007-12-04 17:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in college but I feel like my friends don't like me...Am I just being too sensitive or something? When I call them, sometimes they don't pick up the phone...And last night, I talked to someone and he said he was at home doing something. I told him to call me back when he's finished, but he never did. So I met up with another friend and went to go to the bar, and saw him there! What is up with that?

2007-12-04 16:36:24 · 28 answers · asked by puffer fish 5

Have you ever just felt blessed? I don't know why but today I just feel so thankful that I have the friends I have. Through the good and the bad they will always be my friends and I love them. Some i don't see as often as I used to. Some i still do but I still remember them all. Can you relate is what i'm asking i guess?

2007-12-04 15:40:07 · 10 answers · asked by Random guy number 1988 3