my friend is not that rich wat so ever and she cant efford to take a shower but i dont want to really like sit by her bc i dont want to get it on me but i dont want to tell her really bc i dont want to hurt her feelings bc she is sesitive plz some good advive (i am not older than 13 so plz some slack and no mean things )
2007-12-05 08:24:09 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Peace♥Love♥Jonas♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK, have you talk to your friend about her dandruff? Have you thought about asking her to sleep over the weekend and you can show her how to take better care of her hair. Buy a mid size bottle of Head & Shoulder and few hair conditioner and hair oil. Make it a treat for her, you pretend that you're a hair stylist and she visit your shop. Make up a funny routine and tell her that you can make her hair feel smooth than fine slik. And wash her hair for her, I think she would like that a friend take time out and show some kindness toward her. Rather sit back and talk about her behind her back and not offering do help. Talk it over with you parents and see if its ok that she can spend the weekend with you and tell what you have in plan for her. I think your parent will think you're the best!
2007-12-05 08:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some suggestions:
-Give your friend a hat
-Ask her to come join a swim team with you
-Wear a jacket when you sit next to your friend
-Bring a fan or blowing device and pretend to be playing around when you aim it at her head to blow the dandruff away
If you can't do any of those or can't think of something else you have 3 options:
1) Accept your friend for who /she is, dandruff or not. If you are true friends this shouldn't be a problem.
2) Keep making lame excuses to be away from her which will end up ruining your friendship.
3) Stop being friends if you can't stand it that much.
Good luck
2007-12-05 16:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by GL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Sit her down and tell her that you know she doesn't have money for dandruff shampoo or lotions. Tell her how you feel about her dandruff.
Just saying...
I don't want to sound mean, but many people get dandruff around this time of year. It's cold and your scalp dries out. Then your skin on your head starts flaking. I don't get dandruff, but some of my friends have. Give her a break. She can't do anything about it.
If you want to, help her out and get her some medications or shampoos to help her. Be a friend.
2007-12-05 16:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by ann-uh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think your friend can find somewhere to take a shower. Invite her to your house and switch the shampoo you have in your shower with dandruff shampoo and maybe her scalp will feel better and she'll ask you what kind of shampoo you use. If it keeps on then speak to your counselor at school and tell her that she needs to have a talk about personal hygiene with your friend and tell her you want to remain anonymous.
2007-12-05 16:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her over to your house...then she might stay long enough so she can shower and tell her to use your favorite shampoo...in there put some dandruff shampoo....thats the only way you can help her because I dont see how she cant afford to take a shower everyday.
2007-12-05 16:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by LAP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then...if it bothers you that bad...then buy her shampoo...well on second thought...that might be mean...go to her house and "accidentally" leave a bottle. then tell her you have some and that you really like it and that she can have it because "you'll never think to get it back"....ha ha. this is kind of funny. plus "rich" people can get dandruff too. and dandruff is not a disease. like communal-character-apathy
2007-12-05 16:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very nice to her and try to bring it up casually in a conversation about boys or something. Once you let her know, offer to buy her Head & Shoulders <~~~ it works!!!
Honesty works best. Otherwise you have to constantly avoid her, which will hurt her feelings even more. Be truthful to her
2007-12-05 16:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by TheWanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her dandruff shampoo for a birthday gift, but put some others things with it like in a gift basket, so it is not obvious
2007-12-05 16:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Colin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant catch dandruff from your friend. Talk to your parents about it, maybe they can do something for her. Stick by your friend and be there for her.
2007-12-05 16:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gift wrap her a bottle of Head And Shoulders, tell her u use it and it smells so good so u got her one.
2007-12-05 16:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋