My friend has gained about 115 pounds since highschool. I love her, and when she comes to me for weight loss advice (I weigh the same that I did in highschool and have had children) I ALWAYS give her all of the help I can, but she doesn't use it, and complains about her weight. I haven't seen her in about a year and she posted some pics on her website. The other night she kept referring to herself as a "fine looking woman" and so on, complaining about how her husband isn't interested in her. When I saw her pics, I didn't comment on them because she's not trying to lose weight, and she doesn't look as good as she thinks. I don't know what to say. This may sound shallow, but I'm being truthful. When I met her she weighed 105 10 years and 0 kids later she weighs like 215. She often comments about certain foods and how good they are, and then complains that she can't lose weight. Should I tell her what I think or just hold my tongue for the sake of our friendship?
2007-12-01
06:04:25
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