I dont know if I should talk to my best friend or not.
I mean its funny because Im doing something and out of no where
she pops in my mind. We got into a fight and I dont want to be the one to say sorry. We've been best friend for 6 years and we havent talked to each other in like a week.
Should I talk to her. If yes, then what should I say ?
2007-12-01 14:01:10 · 11 answers · asked by maria 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Personally, I think having disagreements is perfectly normal, and it is actually healthy. When you can argue with someone and still be friends, that means you are very comfortable with that person. It is sometimes hard to express yourself when you are not comfortable around that person. I think everything will be fine for you. Sometimes being the bigger person is the way to be. Although you do not want to apologize I would step up and be the one who gets things going again. Maybe send her a funny text message or a funny e-mail. Good friends are hard to come across, I would try and patch things up, believe me, good things happen to good people, and what goes around comes around.
If you have any pictures of you and here on your computer. Go to www.elfyourself.com and put your faces on the dancing elves and send that her as an e-mail. she will get a laugh out of that and so will you. just an idea.
you sound like a good hearted person so she will be at a loss if she looses you as a friend. Good luck and don't sweat it, I got in many fights with my friends, and true friends always make up and move on. That's when you know you have a good friend. ;-)
2007-12-01 14:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should be the bigger person and say something first. Apologize for what you've done and bring up the things that bothered you and some ideas on how to work on it just in case you both have a disagreement again in the future. Don't let some stupid petty thing ruin a best friendship!
2007-12-01 22:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷVERONICA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she means that much to u as a friend 6 years is a long time to just throw away over some silly fight. just be the bigger person and say sorry even if u dont mean it. only do that if she means that much to u
2007-12-01 22:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
Was your arqument really that bad or was it all blown out of proportion, life is to sort to bear grudes send her a message or phone her and say your sorry.
it make syou look the better person for apologising
2007-12-01 22:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by sharon d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do what will make you happy. if it means apologizing to her then apologize, but don't expect her to do the same... She may or may not be ready or she may see things differently then you... But it will give you a good idea of where your friendship stands.
2007-12-01 22:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by GeorgeC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger person. talk to her about things, say sorry. im sure it will be worth it in the end, especially knowing that you mature enough to stop stupid fighting.
2007-12-01 22:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it is unfortunate that you don't see things eye to eye but isn't it time to move beyond it.
You don't need to work out all conflicts. Agree to disagree.
2007-12-01 22:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by deirdrezz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my 10 year best friend fight alot. talk to her and resolve it
2007-12-01 22:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by chastity p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you're wrong ,or right,, apologize for fighting, then both of you can cry, and then...makeup...
2007-12-01 22:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll idk what the fights about ..but you should just apologize and say i cant go on like this and not talk to you im sorry blabla
2007-12-01 22:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by ABCD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋