2007-12-01 08:07:21 · 19 answers · asked by ashleigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think that it's good to have any boyfriend in 5th grade yet. Sit down with your daughter and tell her that she needs to seriously think this over. Or at least wait a few years. Also, what kind of boyfriend does she have? A nice one or a not so nice one? Make sure he isn't going to be a bad influence. just don't break them up because she will hate you. Let her date him for a while and after some time she'll know what she has to do. Just, remember... Don't break them up. How would you feel if you were in the 5th grade and had a boyfriend and your mother was all in your business, telling you who you should or should not date?
2007-12-01 08:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cooℓ Smιℓεys :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the parent?!? You should be setting the boundaries for all aspects of her life while you still can.It may be an 8th grader now but is is going to be a senior next year?A fifth grader should have nothing more than a crush if that. You need to get her more involved in activities that take up her free time so she doesn't have time to think about him or any other boy.A lot of middle school kids are having sex these days, do you want your little girl to lose her virginity at such a young age?I would also have a talk with his parents.What on earth does he want to hang out with a fifth grader.If you don't let her know who is boss now it will only get worse later.You will end up with one of those out of control teens on Maury doing paternity tests on 3 different guys.
2007-12-01 16:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by ashlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in eighth grade so this probly wont mean much coming from me but here it goes anyway. I see how the eighth grade guys are i hate it they are immature, trying to get too much and going for younger just probly makes them think they will get more because the younger one feels afraid that the relationship will be broken off if she doesnt do whatever he wants. it might be making her more popular becuase of the age difference while it could also be bringing her down, because come on what 8th grader would go for a fifth grader i mean really. 8th grade boys can be a mess.
2007-12-01 16:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by «~♥Krista♥~« 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I don't know what you are doing???? You are not giving your daughter enough attention. You need to focus on spending more time with her. Make sure that she knows you love her and will always be there for her. You are the first line of defense against horny little boys. Just take up more time so she can't spend any time with the boy. When holidays come, I give cards and flowers to my daughters and my girlfriend to let them know they're special in my life too.
I have 3 daughters 18,14,and 13. They feel like any boy that wants their attention. They have to do better than my father.
2007-12-01 16:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my little brother is in 5th gr and likes an 8th gr brat and he doesnt get it so we are like just letting run its course and she will be gone next year so i bet by the end of the year they will be done I don't get why everyone thinks they need a b/f g/f in those grades and I'm in 7th and don't care to have a boyfriend
2007-12-01 16:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Help I'm Lost! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions are how long have they known each other. And how firmiliar they are with one another. You have to remember the young man is going to be in high school next year so it might not be such a good idea. We all know how all guys tend to be when there growing up..
2007-12-01 16:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Trak kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They absolutely cannot be alone together. Mom supervises everything, participates in everything, orchestrates everything. The 8th grader won't be around very long.
Or simply forbid it and take the whining. It's the right thing to do.
2007-12-01 16:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly have a talk with your daughter she might not want to but make her and explain how you feel, because teenagers actually want to talk about whats going on in their lives but most of the time they are afraid they're parents won't listen.
so take the time and when she talks don't freak out be patient and help the situation don't make it worse.
hope things work out for yall
2007-12-01 16:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forbid this. No 5th grader should have a "boyfriend" anyway. WHy are you allowing this? It only invites trouble. She needs to be a child.
2007-12-01 16:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by maryfran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Talk 2 her in personally in a good mood,be good with here every time & be a good friend of her,Slowly tell her 2 leave the friend ship of that boy,be good 2 her.
2.Track where she go,meet with that boy & kick his *** right & left worn him 2 be far from ur little girl.
Then see the defference soon yu problem will be solved.
2007-12-01 16:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Muidahmed MD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋