Friends - December 2007

My best friend recently confessed to me that when she was a teenager, she had an incestuous relationship with her brother. I really care about her and I know that her telling me this was really difficult for her, and that she was trying to unload a lot of her pain on to me. But I can't help being disgusted by her now! Every time I see her I feel repulsed and ashamed. Can you help me get over this so I can keep on being friends with her?

2007-12-31 07:15:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends have said they have some ecstasy pills that I can have at their new years party. I have a crate of beer and would like to have a pill as well. Is this a good idea? I will only be doing it for this one occasion or at celebrations. I know some of the people at the party but some others will be strangers. What do you think?

2007-12-31 06:57:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in the middle of a dilemma. My best friend and her boyfriend have found an apartment and want me to move in with them. The price is very good, and the location is awesome. I do not feel like a third wheel when I am with them, however I am afraid that when I move in, I won't have any say. They want me to pitch in for furniture, which is fine but It has to be my friend's way and what she wants, and i have different ideas than her. I want to move in but I am afraid that I will feel like I am living in their apartment rather than sharing the apartment. Should I move in, and how do i tell my friend my opinion without making her mad, what do i say? Also, she wants to have a housewarming party, and on the invitation she wrote down only her and her boyfriend's name, not mine.

2007-12-31 06:18:31 · 21 answers · asked by Alyssa Matheson 2

2007-12-31 06:17:16 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have liked this guy in my grade for 3 years and he knows that I like him but he doesn't like me. He has been the only REAL crush I've had on somebody. Now he is at a different school but in the same community. I might be going to that school next year. I really don't know what to do. HELP ME!!!

2007-12-31 06:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by Doglover! 2

is it ok to hate him and his new girlfriend?

2007-12-31 06:10:08 · 6 answers · asked by humphrey 2

Ok, I recently had a commotion with a ex-friend and it went kinda like this. There was this person I hated so I left the group in hoping to feel better and I was until this other person who was in the group left it and came to me and at the end of that day, there was a big confrontation and the other person back stabbed me badly. So, I took the rest of the week off to help with xmas things so I haven't really faced them yet so that means I'll have to wait until monday. I'm so dreading it ! I hate drama lol. The confrontation was basically that had said something about the person who made me leave the group and I didn't, apparently my "friend" had told them. Should I be worried about facing them or should I not let them get to me because I'm sick of there little games ?

10 points for informative answers. I'm not being biased, I never actually done anything wrong, I just wanted a little bit of peace and quiet.

2007-12-31 06:07:02 · 2 answers · asked by pop 4

I cant tell if she likes me the way i like her... we are friends but anyway read on:
1. We were just on holiday and spent like every second together, be it in the pool watching tv etc...
2. Since i 1st met her she has always seemed to be nicer to me than anyone else around
3. I have a feeling that sometimes she rings me just to talk to me but covers it up with some random subject.
4. She likes to play around with me e.g. walking in front of me then stopping, effectively playing tig nd similar things.
5. She likes to drag me around wherever she is going.
6. She offers me food/drink when she is getting one for herself
7. when playing sport or swimming, she always likes to have a bit of time just with me
8. we always make each other laugh
9. recently i hav spent lots of time with her over christmas etc. and sometimes we get onto the sort of boy subject and there is this boy she went to her dance with bt she always says to me she doesnt like him. i do really like her

2007-12-31 06:06:30 · 12 answers · asked by gussy 3

I'm 21, It's new years and i'm home alone for the first year ever - sitting in my room on the computer, drinking bacardi and coke and feeling so miserable. It's this time of year that I realise I actually have pushed everyone away from me - if anyone asks, i'm out with my whole lot of non-exsisting friends getting pissed and enjoying myself. But no... I'm in my room, on my computer, drinking, realising I have noone left.....

What can I do tonight to cheer myself up? I feel so lonley :(

2007-12-31 05:58:04 · 25 answers · asked by Cjmax 1

OKAY SO TODAY iS NEW YEARS EVE AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS AND --[[IM 13 HE IS 14]]--WELL WE WANT TO MAKE LOVE SO WELL I LET HIM COMEOVER ONCE BEFORE BUT SOMETHING WENT WRONG AND WE DIDNT DO IT. THEN ALL THA ONTHER TIMES I GET TO SCARED IM GONNA GET CAUGHT SO I TELL HIM NOT TO COMEOVER BUT TODAY I KNO ERRONE IN MY HOUSE IS GONNA BE GONE AND IM GONING TO BE HERE. SHOULD I JUX LET HIM COME OVER!!! I MEAN LIKE I WANT TO BUT WELL I JUX WANT UR OPINION!!????

TAHNK YOU

2007-12-31 05:35:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has done engineering she is working for some big super market i have lost her email address. i want to be in touch with her. she went and studied a bit in france but went back to mexico

2007-12-31 05:22:26 · 2 answers · asked by Veronica vazsquabez 1

it just sounds too plain. i need help.

2007-12-31 05:21:42 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

this break got rili boring so im looking for anyyone (boy or girl) hu is 13 or 14 yr. old hu i can email and talk dirty little secretz to...
Im 14!!!!

2007-12-31 05:17:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this may seem silly but it's not! Me and my brother take it in turns to do the chores (1 week I do the dishwasher and he does the recycling then we switch the next week) Yesterday was my dishes and I did them but there was a load left today of yesterdays dishes. Who should do them. (bearing in mind that b4 when I said that the dishes were from yesterday so he should do them my mum said no we're stopping that you do whatever dishes are there on your day)

2007-12-31 05:16:33 · 10 answers · asked by Ciara 6

Some of my few friends are not talking to me. And have not been for a while now. No calls, texts or emails. Which is super weird as we didn't have a falling out or anything.

Last time my one friend spoke to me was 2 months ago. She sent me a FWD. I sent a fast note to see how she was. Her response was one sentence. We used to be close, and i've overlooked a lot of things with my friends, like their fibbing, fishing and gossiping and so on. But, they've been acting super weird in the last few months especially. And earlier this year, my one friend did something super rotten to me, that my mom said makes her no kind of friend at all. Same with the other one who is always talking crap.
All of my friends lie, i'm the only one that doesn't. Even so, they are my freinds, and i still care about them, even if i know that most of what they say isn't true. I figure, they have their reasons for doing so. I believe in forgiveness and friendship takes work, but Whatever.

Also:

2007-12-31 04:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cyber cuddle. In exchange I'll send you positive thoughts for the best New Year of your lives. (Well...I tried to make it a question)
I really do send my love to you all and wish you a very happy, healthy and prosperous year ahead.

2007-12-31 04:53:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

A minute of your time. When we were small lots of us had ideas of how life would go for us in the future. Two questions:

1. Did any of your plans happen?
2. Where has it gone wrong?

Just curious as per usual.

2007-12-31 04:36:57 · 32 answers · asked by Chico 3

this boy always annoys me in school, he kicks me and hits me...but it doesn't hurt....then he smiles back...he's a friend of my cousin though( bestfriend of my cousin). i don't understand.he pushes me and stuff...he hides around corners of my school and gives me a fright...wat does this mean?i'm 12yrso by the way and he is 13...he's kinda a friend of mine...but annoys me...pls help me...why does he do this?

2007-12-31 04:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and were meant to be going to a party tonight! Does this mean she doesn't want me to go? She is kinda like that.. anyway please help i feel desperate texting her again because i already have... hmm what should i do?

2007-12-31 04:13:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. im 13 and my friend is 12, im in 8th grade, and hes in 7th grade and were both straite , and i liek this girl, but ok. so i just met my best friend this year. and he has a condo at a ski place in maine. i was really happy that he invited me. so the first time i went up to his place, we slept in the same bed, because we had to, wearing our clothes, and i hugged him a lot.because im kind of depressed and he gave me something to look forward to . id hug him when we were in the same bed while we were lieing down and i put my head on his shoulder while holding onto him with both of my arms (rigjt arm under him, left arm over him) when we watched a movie and id put my arm around his shoulder..., and id be like..o thanks for inviting me, and id just hug him a lot and we did snuggle then,and we did tho on a couch, and wed lay down an id place my arms around his stomach rest my head on the side of his chest/stomachand relax but ive never had a friend before,being serious, and ive alwayz been a loner for my whole life, an i dont know how to be a friendor have a friend because id never had one before. but id hug him a lotand cuddle . and he started to call me gay because id hug him. and he accidently kissed my forehead when we were up there, so i kissed his his forehead because i felt bad and when i did, he'd start to laugh and giggle over it. but he'd call me gay, but i went over his house, and we were playing guitar hero, and he squeeezed my balls when he was talking to me out of nowhere...i had my pants and boxerbriefs over it, but it felt weird still....we've been together though in our boxer briefs before, through crew(rowing) and we're used to seeing eacother in our undies and in spandex (you row in spandex) so i didnt really care....we also showered together in DIFFERENT STALLS WEARING BATHING SUITS, and we only wore them becasue we were embarresed to get naked naked in front of eachother, but we'd always go to eachothers stalls and like, but soap on eachother,and like..talk and stay in eachothers stalls but i never saw his privates and he never saw my privastes

so basically.... i act gay just because i dont know how to be a friend....and is it gay to hug him and put my head on his shoulder and snuggle in the same bed...and kiss him after he kisses me accidently because i feel bad...and he did accidently..not purposely........so please help...and domt say stuff like that im gay..because i know im not..because i didnt like it when he touched my balls..at all..i felt violated...but remember that ive never been a friend ever a.and i luv the kiid as a friend, and i dont know how to be onetohugh , so please include maybe stuff involving what is ok..
thnx..
p.s.i never got an erection when we idd this just to add/...so disclude the gay thing

2007-12-31 04:01:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone know Angelshezza of Habbo and if so, how often does she come online. We're friends from school and I know she's been having trouble with her internet lately but she was online on the 29th so I've figured her nan's sorted that but I wasn't online then and I haven't seen her online since and I'm really bored and have no-one to talk to on there.

2007-12-31 04:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by Lily R 6

As you may know my lil sis broke up with her bf yesterday. My family and I are goin to a New Year's Eve Party tonight and her ex will be there. He broke up with her by sayin we're over and then left her on her own. My bro is really mad at him for not doing it nicely. What should we (me and my bro) say to him if he talks to us and what should my sis say?

There'll be like 20 teens at the party and 10 parents.

2007-12-31 04:00:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. My friends birthday coming up but i dont have a clue what to get her! Ive been mulling it over for a while now and cant think of anything. she loves oreos, but i dont know where to get them in the UK apart from cosco, which im not going until a week or 2 after the day i need to get her something. she is 14, likes really colourful stuff, random useless things. She is my best friend so it has to be kind of special but im a guy so dont want it to look like i like her or anything. Please any ideas at all would be much apreciated. im really worrying here cos i dont want to get her nothing, but i dont know what to get her!

2007-12-31 03:42:28 · 6 answers · asked by Dec 3

There's this guy from my work that I like. We met months ago on a work get together but work in diff. states. We talk now and again by phone and have even got together once (kissed)..we like each other & he told me that. Also he has now called me and wants to come see me soon. I asked him what he was up to for the weekend and he told me that he had invited a girl to his house to work on a project with him. I asked him if this was a girlfriend and he said no it is a friend. His voice didn't hint of any feelings for her. Do you think he likes her as more than a friend? I mean, why would he call me & say he's coming to visit if he's into another girl? He does like travelling though and would love to see my city. Am I worrying unecessarily?

2007-12-31 03:39:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-31 03:26:53 · 43 answers · asked by Hayley S 1

My new boyfriend parties in Italy, my old friends party on their own, my university mates went home for holidays, none of my so called "friends" have even bodered to see how i'm doing.. Is it only happening to me or the people u care the most just stab you in the back? Well what goes around comes around...
I guess this gives me a new goal for 2008 -make new friends!
Happy New Year!

2007-12-31 03:26:35 · 7 answers · asked by together_ro 1

I really dont understand this and wondered if anyone can help in anyway

im the nice guy out of a group of friends im the one that if you run into us on a night out either I will be the peace maker if a fight breaks out or im the one who if we run into some ladies and they are completely drunk then I hope they get home safe even if I have to see them home after chatting all night lol

yet the guys who I thought were my mates have been really quiet and I havent heared from them or seen them in a few months and although I was going to ring up and say hey hows it going I found out by chance (by walking past a couple of them and saying hi before I entered a class at uni that they were talking about the five a side team we played in) so it hurt in a way because ive always been good to these lads and it felt like they basically ended one team to set up another without me and ive always given lifts home if its on my way or close by - yet everyone has gone silent on me - so I decided ...

2007-12-31 03:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by Music fan 4

my desire for 2008 is changing something in my life... and so...do you think i can really leave Italy for leaving in UK? is it possible take this important decision without regrets?... have you had similar experiences?? like start a new life abroad...??
pls help me to find my way! thks

happy new year!!!!!

2007-12-31 03:09:55 · 2 answers · asked by clara 2

WISH YOU ALL
A BLESSED ,
PROSPEROUS AND
HAPPY NEW YEAR...!

with love ,
sundar,
December 31,2007,9:30 P.M
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2007-12-31 02:59:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I moved to another city after just getting to know this girl who is really friendly. We contact each other sometimes, kind of flirt sometimes. I told her I got a new job and they need more people and she joked 'will they give me a job'. I kind of went all shy when she said this (as I like her). What does this mean? Also she is going to come to see me on her next vacaction.

2007-12-31 02:50:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous