OKAY SO TODAY iS NEW YEARS EVE AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN GOING OUT FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS AND --[[IM 13 HE IS 14]]--WELL WE WANT TO MAKE LOVE SO WELL I LET HIM COMEOVER ONCE BEFORE BUT SOMETHING WENT WRONG AND WE DIDNT DO IT. THEN ALL THA ONTHER TIMES I GET TO SCARED IM GONNA GET CAUGHT SO I TELL HIM NOT TO COMEOVER BUT TODAY I KNO ERRONE IN MY HOUSE IS GONNA BE GONE AND IM GONING TO BE HERE. SHOULD I JUX LET HIM COME OVER!!! I MEAN LIKE I WANT TO BUT WELL I JUX WANT UR OPINION!!????
TAHNK YOU
2007-12-31 05:35:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should wait for that special some one. you are to young right now and so is he you well meet lots of young gentle mens and its fun to just go out to movies for a burger or just hang around and talk listen to music things like that but not sex. they well be a right time when you get older .if you have sex wit him you'll be doing every boy friend you have .don't start at in early age you might regret it.
2007-12-31 05:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay woahhhh
1. its only been 3 months!!
2. your only 13 and hes only 14
you are WAYYYY to younge to have sex
he can comeover but just to hang out or kiss
no sex woah im 13 you are way to younge
2007-12-31 13:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by shocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he does not want to make Love. He just wants to satisfy his urges and HAVE SEX. After you all have sex...then what. He will just move on to the next girl. If you want a boy to like you and respect you, giving him sex is not the answer. Once you begin to have sex you open yourself up to all sorts of diseases. ghonnorhea, HIV and maybe aids. I understand you may like this guy a lot but just because you like him does not mean it has to lead to sex. If he truly likes you he won't ask you to do something you're not ready for or that you uncomfortable with. The Only saying...If it feels good, do it! Well that is A TOTAL LIE! If everyone elses is doing it....This really means its most likely is NOT a good thing to do. At least not yet. You a child still. Don't rush into anything just to make him happy. Save yourself for someone who Loves you and not only wants to satisfy his own selfish desires. I PROMISE YOU. You won't regret. Too many women assume the way to keep a guy is to jump in the sack with him & then they discover its not True. If you allow him to come over, BE SURE, Be very sure he understands you will not be pressured into something you are not ready for.
2007-12-31 13:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the age of 13 you are not ready to have sex wait until you are a couple years older if you do it now you will regret it big time wait until you are actually in love and in a long term relationship . the reason why I say wait is because you say that you are scared and that sends up a red flag . if he really likes you then he will agree to wait if not then he might just be wanting you for sex and that would suck because you say that you really like this guy . and when I say long term I mean a little longer than 3mnths (Iknow that in teenage yrs 3mnths is a long time) but just my opinion hope this helps whatever you decide be carefull and be safe
2007-12-31 13:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r way too young to have sexual relations...
2007-12-31 13:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 13 and 14 years old you have no idea what love is.
And you shouldn't be having sex at 13. Too young, your only a child.
2007-12-31 13:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 13!! what the heck man. theres a reason you dont feel right, you're too flipping young! thats disgusting man. and why are your parents leaving you alone? u obviously dont deserve to be thinking on your own yet
2007-12-31 13:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Incredible 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are way too young to have sex, dont do it because when you get older and mature some more u are going to regret it, dont let anyone pressure you into having sex, if your bf respects you and cares about you enough then he will be fine with it and if not hes not worth it. he seems way too young and immature to me to love or even really care abou a girl.
2007-12-31 13:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Diaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember those days i lost my virginity at 12 and its hurts a lot look i made a mistake loosing my virginity at 12 and i dont want u making da same one i knoe im no one to tell u wat to do but i just want to give u good advise.i mean at least u have been going out with him for 3 months i had sex with my boyfriend da night i met him and after three years im still with him so i knoe thats not all he wanted be carful sex may be all ur bf wants
2007-12-31 13:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by •ANONYMOUS• 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my personal judgement, you are too young to be engaging in sexual relations. Your boyfriend of 3 months has no commitment to you, he just wants to get into your pants.
If you persist in this folly, make sure he uses a condom for protection againt sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-12-31 13:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋