are these friends worth it?

Question

i had a fight with them because i was saying that 41/60 isnt a good maths exam mark and 22/30 isnt a good test mark. they got really pissy at me because they got lower than me and they said i was insulting them so they didnt talk to me for the rest of the day! my other friend told me that they had called me lesbian because i dont have a boyfriend or go out with guys a lot and they've bitched about me behind my back. i had no idea they were like that. i honestly thought they were truthful, friendly people but i was proven wrong. there are only two days of school left. should i make up with them, i didnt start the fight, they did.
and we are 15 years old!!

Answer 1

For starters you did get a good result on your test so you shouldn't of complained in the first place, you passed so be happy with that. As for your so called friends, it does seem that all friends ***** about each other, the only friends who won't do that is the one person who is your true best friend. Ignore what these girls are saying && it probably won't be worth being friends with them unless they appolgise && you apologise && also it's only worth it if they actually are people worth spending time with.
Good luck.

Answer 2

They don't sound like great friends if they were saying mean things about you behind your back. You don't need people in your life who are so negative, and I'm sorry you were the subject of gossip.

At the same time, don't assume that you didn't contribute to the situation at all. Perhaps you did come across as obnoxious or arrogant when talking about the test scores, especially if the people you were talking to didn't score well. Sometimes, it's good to use tact, and be selective about what you say and who you say it to. Of course, good friends will handle such a situation without starting a fight.

If you feel your behavior provoked the situation at all, you may want to apologize, just to be the bigger person and acknowledge that your words may have hurt your friends. But you should also be wary of people who are unkind to you behind your back, and maintain some distance from them in the future.

Answer 3

i know what exacly know how you feel i had the same problem when i was going to high school i just ignore them when people put me down there a mpharse that people say alot but i can't remember right now if you want someone to talk to you can im me okay or email me if you like i don't lioke people treating people like crap that not how i roll i make peple feel good about them selves and those aren't really good friend that stab you in the back i had so many friend before but i finally caught on about my friend i had almost everything tv in my room trampoline and stuff likje that all my friend use to call me and say hey can we hang out and i say yea sure but i relaize they used me alot and there weren't really good friend now i don't have any friend becuase i dumped all my crap friend that weren't friend of mine so what i'm saying is find new friend and if your looking for a true best friend you can hit me up okay i will be there for you and i have a good personality

Answer 4

As far as the math test goes, I wouldn't let that bother me too much if I were you. But, them putting you down to your face, and behind your back, isn't cool. Unfortunately, friends gossip... its one of the really crappy things about high school.

Unless this is a regular problem, I'd take some space over break and see how things go. You shouldn't stay friends with them if they're always putting you down because friends are supposed to make you happy and feel good about yourself, not the opposite.

Good luck sweetie.

Answer 5

i think you need a new set of friends.
Friends come and go....im sure you'll find new ones out there....its not worth keep your old friends, not worth getting back together with.

Answer 6

if you are friends again... what about marks and those words about being lesbian? when you're 15 you're often mean to other girls but still.... I would advise to stop trusting them but still don't become enemies with them. you don't need to make enemies without any reason. but studies are a bad reason for a fight. I'm afraid they never really were your friends, may be envied you... just be careful. you should not trust some girls at all.

Answer 7

I'd be insulted if I were in the same spot as your friends... You basically called them dumb right in their faces. Own up to your own mistake and apologize, if they accept your apology then they are friends worth keeping. They probably talked about you behind your back just for spite. And for the record you started the fight by saying that their grade isn't good enough...

Answer 8

Here's a question for you:

Now that you've seen the way thos "friends" act under certain "conditions", did you really have to ask online wether or not to stop being their friends?

Sorry if that sounded mean, but that's the way the cookie crumbles.

Answer 9

I think these kind of things are common in schools. Just get into the past and recollect the times that you had with them, recollect that is this the first time or something like this has happened earlier too. Think yourself and decide how important are they in your life. Wait for some days and see that are they too in the same situation as you are, and then come to a conclusion. I think this may heip you and also thanks for answering me. God bless.

Answer 10

First off, you never tell your friends or anyone else that their grades are bad. Thats just mean. You always say "That's good" or "Thats okay" even if its not. And about them saying stuff about you, that's just imature, and I can understand why seeing that you all are 15 years old. Anyway, get over it, and I'm sure they will get over it as well.
-AB