I just found out that my boyfriend is doing coke and it is killing me but he dosen't see that and i dont know how to help him what should i do stay with him or just leave him????????? please help me!!!!!!
2007-12-05 08:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by chikafresa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him outright that you hate him doing coke and ask him to stop. If he doesn't I would leave him. Coke is highly addictive and dangerous, and also illegal. Just one line can kill you, even if you've done loads before. Ask him to stop or leave.
2007-12-05 08:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Aoife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its you or the coke? And stick to it. If you decide to stay together, watch out for the signs. He will be very chatty and may talk more than usual. He will keep disapearing for periods of time and may keep wiping his nose. His confidence will be at an all time high. And if his habbit gets bad he will be very short of cash. Dont lend him any. And dont be tempted to try for yourself. Your bf is on a slippery slope.
2007-12-05 16:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum. Coke or you. If he chooses the coke then leave. You can't help someone unless they want to help themselves
2007-12-05 16:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not willing to get help for his drug addiction, show him where the door is. You dont need a future like that, not the right father figure if you know what I mean!
2007-12-05 16:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Micah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn't stop then you will have to end the relationship. And depending on how badly addicted he is, you may want to seek professional help for him.
2007-12-05 16:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by TheWanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can help him, tell his parents, or teacher but tell someone and get him help. He won't thank you for it now , but one day he will, so do him a favor, if you love him, and if he won't get the help, run don't walk, go find someone else, someone on drugs won't make anything of themselves, this is not for you.
2007-12-05 16:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Penny D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are going to leave him if he doesnt stop. If he says he will stop and you truely belive him, then stcik with him. But if he says no or he says yes but you dont belive him, then i would leave him. Good luck hope this helps =]]]
2007-12-05 16:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lyss Lyss;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk to him and let him know how you feel. After he knows that you are concerned about him then he may quit
2007-12-05 16:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Veronica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does not agree to get immediate help leave him.
frankly, i think your best bet is to leave him anway.
its best to stay away from druggies.
2007-12-05 16:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you cant see him anymore till he cleans up his act.
2007-12-05 16:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋