Friends - December 2007

Okay. So I liked this guy a long time ago, but then I didn't see him for a very long time. Out of sight, out of mind, right? But then he started dating my BEST best friend and I like him again.

Sometimes it seems like he likes me back, too. But I've never had a boyfriend before so I really don't know what to do.

2007-12-23 09:38:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

thank you x

2007-12-23 09:20:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 2 brothers are sold on A.A. not that it is a bad thing. But they live and breathe this stuff to the point of thinking people are'nt that well together unless they are involved in this program. I used to drink alot but changed my life and work on my spiritual program, which works so well for me. I tried A.A. but it made me feel guilty everytime i would do a meeting. I mean this is like 3 yrs. sobriety. Eveyone kept telling me you have to do this or this will happen, but you have to think for yourself not constantly be told what someone thinks you need to do to be o.k. But my brothers are so brain washed that they don't see how closed minded they are. Anyway has anyone felt this way also?

2007-12-23 08:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by sunburned 2

i need some help ok, as you all most kno i have been having friend problems ok its almost Christmas, should i send my best friend a card? i think his dad will read when it comes in the mail, i kno that i dont really see him or talk to him do you think i should send him one? Or would that be a bad idea? i still really care about him and stuff, or can i send him a friendship card or can i send him a Christmas and a Friendship card? what should i do??

2007-12-23 08:35:05 · 6 answers · asked by holy moses 3

2007-12-23 08:34:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Then when you tell them to cut it out it was so long ago, they tell you they were just joking?

2007-12-23 08:24:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if someone has done you wrong..so wrong that you want nothing to do with them...but u forgive them and don't hold any grudges, should you let them know that u have forgiven them so that they don't think u hate them?

2007-12-23 08:16:41 · 15 answers · asked by it's_love 5

2007-12-23 08:07:42 · 12 answers · asked by Brad Jordan 1

don't get me wrong i love my mates but they make me feel so bad!! I live for footy (im a female btw) i train 3 times a week and play on sats and sun, so i never socialise with them so that annoys them, telling me there more to life but to me there not!!! i also dress different im into the typical rock music and dress sense so wen they see me they look at me like im a freak, it knocks my confidence! i dont like seeing them out of school anymore cause of they way they act, looking at "hot boys" ect they dont care about my football, even wen i was in hospital with a broken foot from a match? whats wrong?

2007-12-23 08:06:35 · 3 answers · asked by Bez 2

Do you pick someone out and start talking to them, and then ask them to hang out? ....How do you make friends with ppl that already have their own group?

2007-12-23 07:57:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 07:57:31 · 5 answers · asked by joe 2

Some boy I talked to outside of school, rather friendly and flirty inside school too told me, "It may be socially looked down upon to talk to you, but I don't care." (I said ouch) and he replied with "jk". His friends dont really like me and I think they told him to stop, hence when I told him my feelings towards him he freaked out and acts super mean towards me as if he was offended. His friends are super popular too.

I wonder if five years from now people like him, ponder mistakes they make like that. Do you?

2007-12-23 07:27:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 06:54:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hear n / y is good .

2007-12-23 06:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

um, i alredy posted a question wishing evry1 merry xmas but it got deleted :( anyways, so im trying agen MERRY XMAS EVRY1!!! im sayin it early now cuz im takin a few day break, which i dont want 2 do but i need 2, so ill miss all of u 4 howevr long im gone!!!! *hands out cookies and gives hugs* i hope u all hav a great holiday!!! ill talk 2 u all agen soon!!! (this also means i wont b on 360 or anythin, so the best place 2 reach me is email, if i check it...)

2007-12-23 06:23:18 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea Gracexox 5

My college rooomate and I do not get along at all, we come from different backgrounds and income levels and never see eye-to-eye. However, a mutual friend came to our room right before break. My roomie was not in the dorm so the girl wanted to wait. I then started packing my clothes and had my back turned to this girl while still making conversation. The girl turned on my roomies flat iron and started using it. I wasn't paying attention and didn't see her do this. My roomie came in, the girl apologized and I thought that was the end. But the next day my roomies flat iron didn't work and the mutual friend refused to pay for all of it. My roomie now thinks it was my responsibility because I was in the room and this girl was "more my friend than hers". I do not believe it is my responsibility, and though i feel sympathy I do not feel obliged to pay for it. My roomie has been calling me "sick, twisted, selfish, and a rich b****" for not doing this.

2007-12-23 06:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ohhkay so my family isnt acting like christmas.
we're all fighting and were supposed to take a trip to six flags today but my dad dropped out and my mom ran out the house.
what do i do :[

2007-12-23 05:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by fly4awhitegurl94@aim.com 1

This girl asked me over today, but I don't want to because I don't really like her. So far I have told her that I would have to ask my parents, and I would call her back. But what do I say when I call her back? Or should I just not call her back?

2007-12-23 05:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this male friend and he has been seriously upsetting me for awhile now. I have formed a small crush on him which i wouldn't have if he hadn't thrown signals out that he was interested in the beginning. like a drunken one night stand, wanting to take our relationship slow, and we did make out while we were sober. he is just getting out of a long relationship and has told my friend that he is torn about his feelings for her. he tells me he is not attaracted to me in that way. i have tried to change my feelings for this man but, whenever i get close he sucks me back in. he saw me and my now ex fighting one nite and after staring at me for 3 min he turns and just walks away. he then told me that he saw us but since we are still friends it didn't matter. and last night he pissed me off when we were iming i asked him to hang with me and my friends for new years eve because i trusted him and didn't want to spend it alone. he gets all quiet changes the subject and then refuses

2007-12-23 05:36:27 · 4 answers · asked by S 1

I am 32 years old. I have been best friends with Alisa for 10 years now. Over time, she has gradually just gotten meaner and more selfish. Little things here and there she would do or say that were just totally rude. Last night she again was completely impolite to me, after I brought her an expensive gift and everything...

I emailed her today just saying... "you know what? Lets not continue our friendship"

okay.. so my question is this...

Has anyone ever been thru a big "friend-breakup" and can you tell me when it stops hurting, and how you got thru it?

Sometimes you just have to move on from a friend, and leave them in your past- this is definately one of those situations.

thanks for your help!

2007-12-23 05:09:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

welll i have known my friend for about 2 yrs now and he has autism. at first he was fun to be around and we talk to each other almost everyday but now for a couple of months he has just gotten so distant from me and we hardly talk at all. i feel kinda hurt by him but i try to remember that he wont connect with me as much as i want him to. now though sometimes i dont really want to be is his friend that much any more cuz i dont feel as if he is trying to open up to me. what should i do should i throw in the towel or try alittle harder to get him to open up more

2007-12-23 04:25:35 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole M 2

there is a girl who is mentally sick,our school physcologist and her parents told us that ..she keeps cutting herself and cursing herself,and she keeps saying bad stuff about herself,,and she compares us to her. (.ex : look at you !! you are too pretty and smart...everything im not ! im so damn ugly and stupid,everybody hates me !!! )
she is also too sensitive its really hard to deal with her,shes insane ! everybody gave up on her even her parents and her sisters,,me and my friends tried,and tried so hard to change her into the better..but everytime she does the same exact thing : she betrays us and talks behind our backs,and spells our secret with a spicing things up !! a few months ago when we werent her " friends " and with having no one standing by her side she was about to commit suicide ! i saw her with the mother of my eyes,i told her to put the knife down,the police was there,it was INSANE !!and now with only us standing by her side,i GIVE up ! do i have to put up with her ?!

2007-12-23 04:13:42 · 15 answers · asked by Dreamer 4

my best friends step brother has recently died in a terrible car accident. she was kinda close to him. ever since he died she has been kinda a b**** to me. me her and her sister have been best friends for 4 years but she has been acting really weird since her step brother died. her sister is still my friend but we cant hang out cuz its really weird when her sister is around. but like shes been really b*tchy and shes been sprendin rumors around the school about me but then she asks me why im mad at her and she trys to be my friend again but the next day at school she acts the same way. its been like this for like 2 weeks and im really tired of it but i dont want to give up on her cuz i know its just been really hard on her. should i just give up and move on or should i just keep tryin to be really supportive and deal with all the drama?

PLEASE HELP I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO

2007-12-23 04:11:04 · 25 answers · asked by jessica_smlsn 2

Last night I had friends and their children round. Two of the girls I see regularly and we all went on holiday this year as families. The other girl I have know since school but I haven't been in much contact for the past few years - odd night out, phone call but not much else. The old schoolfriend has just split up with her husband and was quite drink. She really upset one of my other friends by making constant side remarks. The friend left and took her children. The girl who had upset her was not even aware. My dilema is we were going bowling with kids tomorrow with a different friend altogether. The friend who has been upset says she will not go if the other girl is there as she couldn't be civil. I have had to lie to the old school friend that the lane has been double booked and we are no longer going, although we are. Feel terrible - have I done the right thing? By the way, the school friend has always been stroppy so not result of the split up.

2007-12-23 04:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Ally 5

i have a girl friend who wants me to help her prank her brother..but it has to be from people he doenst know..heres the deal..
a couple weeks ago she and 2 OF her best friends accidently saw her brother (hes 19) get undressed to go take his shower..and one of her friends grabbed her camera and took his pic..lol..he has no idea they saw him..all u can see is his butt and a good view from the back..she wants to get someone to look at the pic and email him and kinda describe the pic a little..llike what in his room etc..colors.. furniture..stuff like that..and maybe his tan line LOL..but NOT TELL him how they know..anyone care to help ? LOL email me back if you want..THANX !

2007-12-23 03:42:37 · 4 answers · asked by hollyoops 1

I was just wondering what makes a man want to cheat on his wife of 6 years if he is 35 and the girl he is seeing on the side is 21. And also, he has no kids with the wife. Is it a mid-life crisis or does he just want to have sex? Also, do married men usually care if they hurt their wife's feelings or cheat, as long as they think they can get away with it? Thanks for all your help!

2007-12-23 03:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 02:58:06 · 5 answers · asked by Rockin' Cello Player 1

Two of my good friends have had a fall out, and so they do not speak to each other or try to communicate with one other in anyway. They're still my friends and I'm still friends with both of them, so they're not friends with each other, but they both still consider me a friend.
The tricky thing is, a lot of the time there are situations where I have to choose who I spend my time with. I then have to tell the other that I can't accompany him. I feel I'm letting both of them down every time I do this, and it's hard for me to tell them when I can't accompany him because whenever I tell either *Phillip or *Ben, I can tell in their voices that they're disappointed and either annoyed or left feeling abandoned.
I read something in a book which stated, 'Don't blow out friends repeatedly. You're letting them down if you do. And within them will grow an accumulation of disappointment. They will eventually, most likely, let you go. Beware the piracy of indifference.'

2007-12-23 02:53:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i relly like but she is with somone and when she talks about him i just feel terrible i even now that he treats her rely bad what can i do?

2007-12-23 02:18:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

good morning everybody.

2007-12-23 01:52:30 · 3 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5