don't get me wrong i love my mates but they make me feel so bad!! I live for footy (im a female btw) i train 3 times a week and play on sats and sun, so i never socialise with them so that annoys them, telling me there more to life but to me there not!!! i also dress different im into the typical rock music and dress sense so wen they see me they look at me like im a freak, it knocks my confidence! i dont like seeing them out of school anymore cause of they way they act, looking at "hot boys" ect they dont care about my football, even wen i was in hospital with a broken foot from a match? whats wrong?
2007-12-23 08:06:35 · 3 answers · asked by Bez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thats the same with me. Im a gymnast and train 5 times a week and they always get annoyed when i have to turn them down. They just have to deal with the fact that you love the sport and is good at it.
2007-12-23 08:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Keligh P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're either jealous that your making something of your life and doing well or they just want you to be more girliy girliy like wear dresses, wear rings jewellery, wear heels and check out hotties like a typical girl does. i dunno which one it is but you guys dotn seem to get along. either they have similar tastes and you have tomboyish tastes. You see, my friend is like that. When she talks about football, no girl wants to know coz footy is wel...seen as a guys game stereotypically and most girls don't like getting mucky and dirty and all that. Girls just wanna know more about makeup, clothes, fashion, guys. Why dont you hang around with the girls from footy team. You need time out for your friends too coz then friends care and they like you to be there with them too. coz sooner or later, if you decline aaaaalll the time, theyre gunna get sick of it and not bother inviting you and then you will have lost alot of friends frm school. why dont you accept some and decline when you really really have to. tehres a limit to things one does in life. You cnat evolve your life round one thing and one thimg only. everything in moderation so get out there with your friends and enjoy life. have the bvest of bot worlds. Are you gay by the way? my friend plays rugby and football and yes, she is gay. maybe thats where you and your friends differ.
2007-12-23 16:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just seems to me that your in the wrong group of Friends. You obviously have different opinions and views on things than they do, so maybe its time to slowly distance your self from them and find some friends who can except you for who you are.
2007-12-23 16:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋