Okay. So I liked this guy a long time ago, but then I didn't see him for a very long time. Out of sight, out of mind, right? But then he started dating my BEST best friend and I like him again.
Sometimes it seems like he likes me back, too. But I've never had a boyfriend before so I really don't know what to do.
2007-12-23 09:38:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So for some more expanation: My friend actually isn't even allowed to date until she's 16, so they aren't OFFICIALLY together. She has also mentioned a few times that she might not like him any more; she's just not attracted to him anymore. BUT she DID get all bugged when she saw that our other friend (who IS friends with him) had been texting him.
2007-12-23 09:48:56 · update #1
Since he is dating your Best friend, respect her and their relationship. You can't do anything. Just like him as a friend and let your best friend have him. He asked her out so he must like her. If he were your boyfriend and your best friend liked him, what would you want her to do?
I would find someone else to like in that way. When your time is right, the right guy will come along. Think of them all as just friends for now. Merry Christmas.
2007-12-23 09:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do don't try to steal him from your best friend cause if you try it will mess up your best friends and yours relationship.
Just let him go. Try and find another guy to like. If this guys tries to do things with you and even if he's with your best friend don't full into his game. Tell your friend about it as soon as possible and let her know what kind of guy she is dating.
Also, you have to think about it this way. If this guy you like for a long time. Left your friend to be with you. What makes you think he wouldn't leave you to be with another girl.
2007-12-23 17:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by "Foolishness" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you haven't thought about him in a long time then you obviously didn't like him that much. If you're a true friend you will let this whole crush thing go. Stop crushing on your best friends boyfriend.
2007-12-23 17:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best friend? tell her that u will not ruin their relationship but want to be hones and i hhope yall are together for a long time blah blah. yea i like him a little.
Or keep quite and look for someone else. Friendship rules over relationship
2007-12-23 17:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Secrets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like all girls so he probably likes your friend and you at the same time. So the real question is are you willing to mess up you and your friends relationship for this guy? Which pursuing him will mess up your relationship.
2007-12-23 17:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by MassiveIntellect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone. I would not date a guy who's going out with your best friend. Find another guy.
2007-12-23 17:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if you want to lose a best best friend then start flirting with him and try and make him your b/f. but otherwise just stay away and uninterested.
2007-12-23 17:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he starts dating ur best best friend--then both of them aren't on ur good side--they're playing u and that's just not nice--they obviously think ur easy to flick around
2007-12-23 17:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by hmm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
rethink your friendship and ignore the guy. if he knew you at all he knew that would hurt your feelings a bit
2007-12-23 17:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he likes you tell him how you feel maybe he'll feel the same way but wait till he is single
2007-12-23 17:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lilly Knows Best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋