i have this male friend and he has been seriously upsetting me for awhile now. I have formed a small crush on him which i wouldn't have if he hadn't thrown signals out that he was interested in the beginning. like a drunken one night stand, wanting to take our relationship slow, and we did make out while we were sober. he is just getting out of a long relationship and has told my friend that he is torn about his feelings for her. he tells me he is not attaracted to me in that way. i have tried to change my feelings for this man but, whenever i get close he sucks me back in. he saw me and my now ex fighting one nite and after staring at me for 3 min he turns and just walks away. he then told me that he saw us but since we are still friends it didn't matter. and last night he pissed me off when we were iming i asked him to hang with me and my friends for new years eve because i trusted him and didn't want to spend it alone. he gets all quiet changes the subject and then refuses
2007-12-23 05:36:27 · 4 answers · asked by S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to talk anymore. he says he is too tired. i get upset and say bye and tell him i guess i will see him when i see him and shut the computer off. he still didn't understand i was mad when he told me bye and said ok. i am upset and confused as how to handle this friendship. he calls me aggressive and pushy over wanting a relationship. i don't think i am i am just trying to figure this all out. pls only real answers and no bull ****. i've heard it all! and i am upset because this has gone on for months. what should i do?
2007-12-23 05:39:33 · update #1
we are both in college and in our 20's. i am seriously thinking of ending our friendship over this.
2007-12-23 06:00:39 · update #2
any way sorry for that but the only thing you have to do is to just easy your self and relax, give him time to be free but all of a sudden he'll feel missing you then he'll turn back to you very soon.
but you can also pray to God to make him your friend for real if you dont mind.
2007-12-23 06:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by mandez112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
: ( kick him in the spot .hell be nice to you
2007-12-23 13:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kℓαяαissα●•·нєαятz·•● 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat him up right there!
2007-12-23 13:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by shygirl93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!
2007-12-23 13:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Regina Thunderpants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋