Friends - December 2007

for the past few months i've just been really down..i don't really eat anymore, i sleep all the time, i don't enjoy doing the things i used to. i cry all the time over absolutely EVERYTHING...i'm only 18 but i just feel like the entire world is against me. i have a great boyfriend who's always there for me but even he can't do much.

basically this whole year has kinda sucked..i've lost a lot friendships that i thought were genuine but a lot of people are shady and two faced, so whats new. i don't know what i should do. i don't know where to get help or even how to...i don't want to tell my parents because my mom lives in scotland of all places, she can't do much, and my dad is literally useless..he doesn't care about me that much. i feel worthless all the time and i've had thoughts of suicide, which scares me because i'm so against that. if you're going to be rude about this then really, don't answer. anyway, i'm NOT looking for pity, it's just that i don't know what to do..

2007-12-25 07:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 07:15:05 · 18 answers · asked by Janet ♥(YFFL) 7

this is NOT over a guy, no men were involved.My best friend is Bipolar, and she is on meds.I don't believe that can be used as an excuse for her behaviour, but then again I don't live with the disorder.We have been Bff's for years and it's mostly been because of my forgiving and understanding nature.But I feel the betrayal has gone too far this time,and her subconcious attempts to destroy herself and everything she loves is finally comming true. I don't want to say what she did,but I knew she would do it.I wasn't suprised at all when she betrayed me.I expected it.And I don't know if thats what I want in a frienship, to expect betrayal.But after realizing that she finally crossed the line she started desperatly trying to appoligize in her own way.She wrote me a long apology letter,blaming everything on herself and admiting that she did betrayed me on purpose to prove that she was **** and to show others that she is ****,and that she doesn't deserve my forgivness but I deserve the truth.

2007-12-25 07:00:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I Have a friend that I've known since my teens. She has two kids.Her parents are well off. She received $3000 for Christmas and a laptop, won $1000 at a casino, had her car note paid for 6 months by friends, gets taken out to dinner,spends $200 on a cellphone, gets money to pay for her rent, has a doctor boyfriend who splurges on her,gets sufficient child support, and only has to work about 2 days per week. Its not fair. She has always been the lucky one when it comes down to finances. She has never once asked me if I need anything?She doesn't have to, but it would be nice. I have a apartment that I must give up because I can't afford the rent, I don't have a car,no cable,internet,used junky furniture, clothes and shoes have holes in them,not alot of food,television screen is now green.She gets everything and doesn' have to work for it. A perfect life. I will be going to college sometime in the future, but I am worried about the loans that will be acquired.Why do the rich get richer?

2007-12-25 06:47:33 · 3 answers · asked by emerald 3

New York Penpal?
Hi I am after a penpal from New York as we are studying the city at school. I really do not want to meet anyone over the internet as I have heard of some bad incidents from other people. But I was wondering if anyone alse could suggest any ideas of how to get in contact with someone?? I am a 14 year old girl and I live in New Zealand. Maybe through a school or something i'm not sure any ideas???Does anyone living in New York know a good school I could ask???And would the school think it was weird if some random from the other side of the world just emailed them and asked for a penpal?

PS : I have already asked my teacher if she could put me on to someone but she said it was not something our school did or something like that.

2007-12-25 06:44:07 · 1 answers · asked by adg 2

Not the country of your choice, but any safe country, rememebr you return home with the rest of the money you have left.

2007-12-25 06:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Hey 4

Like, all of my guy friends are just always immature around me... and i know the can be serious, but they never are...

Please help me understand :S

2007-12-25 05:18:53 · 10 answers · asked by FooFightersChickk_14 3

I have lee andrews in kingsteighnton. I rang 118 118 but they only had one number And it was not his! can some one please help me? Thankyou

2007-12-25 03:40:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i have two drop dead gorgeous girl friends over for drinks, they got very merry and stripped off and started touching each other now they are both laying there very drunk undressed being intimate with each other and want me to do them both....BUT they are my friends.........what do i do?

2007-12-25 01:20:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this guy friend I really like and we often flirt. In fact he told me one time he was falling for me (after a couple of drinks). Thing is, he never asks me about my love life. Could this be because he is not sure how I feel and this makes him shy? Normally he is not a shy guy at all. Now we live in diff. states as our jobs took us away. But we got together recently and kissed one time and he got very quiet with me at that time. We never discussed it as had to return home the next day. What do you think? Also one time he asked me to go on a trip with him but I couldnt. I dont think a guy can do a trip with a girl unless he is into her...at least that's what I feel.

2007-12-25 01:15:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-24 21:37:58 · 20 answers · asked by Nishu 1

2007-12-24 21:28:58 · 21 answers · asked by Devishankar S 1

HI. My name is Jubilee and I live in LA.

I have a serious problem. I bet you readers have heared the

name 'Paul van dyke' (If you don't, type Paul van and search

for his images) the best DJ ever.

When I saw his music video 'white lies', (featuring jessica

sutta) for a sudden I just fell for him.

He was so hot.. that charm I can't explain.

So, I started to search more about him, and there I saw,

a picture with his wife. .It kind of killed me inside.

I have never felt this way in my life..! Even when I was going

out with my x-boyfriend. I know, I know this is dumb.

Somebody, please. Is there any way to make me feel better..?

Please, I am waiting for your answer. All of you readers are

welcome.

2007-12-24 21:00:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How should i confront a toxic friend.

2007-12-24 19:16:25 · 11 answers · asked by Vince J 2

My so called "best frend" made my sister nd her frends get into a fite, started swearing at my frend, nd sed bad things bout me jus coz shes jealous of the guy im with but evrytime i get mad at her she makes me feel sorry for her nd stuff. or she makes her ex go all against me nd he starts saying bad bout me nd stuff
shuld i still be her frend?

2007-12-24 19:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by Ctrl. Alt. TheBeat. 2

ok well i have this friend but i dont really know him tht well! hes really anti social and has friends and doesnt talk to his family.
i offered to be his friend yesterday and since yesterday hes become really obsessive! i dont wanna tick him off either! so what do i do?

2007-12-24 18:57:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since my childhood whoever i have been with only i used to adjust. whatever they used to say i was supposed to do and accept it, they never accept the things i say or they make just fun of me.Even now in present days the same thing is going on. what should i do?

2007-12-24 17:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-24 17:17:07 · 51 answers · asked by Janet 3

I am 15 years old, and a sophomore in HS.
I don't exactly live the dream life, but whatever. I am one of the most popular girls in my class of 830, and naturally treat everyone below me like crap. I feel like they HAVE TO KNOW that I am more popular than them.
I also love making young children cry, because it makes me feel like I can "make a defference."
I'm a total gossip, and theres nothing better to me than adding unappreciated spice to some innocent girl's life by starting horrendous rumors about her.
My GPA is 1.0, and I couldn't care less.

Last night I was thinking how disrespectful I am, and that I want to apologize to everyone for everything. I know that I won't get anywhere with the level of respect that I have, nor wit the grades I have.
I want to straighten myself up, and become a girl who accepts everyone for who they are. I want to be the girl that goes and sits with the loner at lunch one day, and starts a conversation.
I don't wanna be "me" anymore.
I need advice!

2007-12-24 17:16:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My favourite contact went of to die.

2007-12-24 16:59:22 · 9 answers · asked by D 7

I do thinks it is.

2007-12-24 16:37:19 · 13 answers · asked by D 7

2007-12-24 16:05:34 · 4 answers · asked by chattykinz 1

2007-12-24 16:01:01 · 3 answers · asked by zingis 6

i am not living in my country i'm missing home my relatives my friends and all veryyyyyyyyy much. here i can not enjoy much. all the places in my city are repetitive for me and i can't go for a trip these days. all my friends are busy. these are not my problems these r just simple reasons y i cant enjoy and be happy... my problem is something else which i cant find a solution for it since 1 year ago !! i've asked it many times even in yahoo answers but still didn't come to any solution. that doesn't matter i will try my best not to think about that.... 2007 was not good year for me what about u?? how can i enjoy my life being 18?
I've one week holidays what do u suggest me to do??
thanks and merry christmas ;)

2007-12-24 15:59:01 · 10 answers · asked by negar 2

When I see my friend chatting and being friendly with someone else, I get irritated. Sometimes to the point that I end up not being friend with that person anymore.

I've lost many a friend because of that. What the heck is my problem?

2007-12-24 14:43:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If she is not thick most of the time and has shown to come out with sharp answers before hand but maybe can be a bit ditzy at times when not thinking..what would you think of her if she asked when everyone takes out their drivers license to show as ID, why it is a different colour to hers, because she has the provisional and hasn't got her full license yet. Would you think she's a total airhead after that regardless of anything decent she has said in the past?

2007-12-24 14:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by groovybaby33 1

okay my friend broke up with his gf and im worried about him he keeps talkin 2 her and all dat and i dont want him 2 hurt wat do i tell him

2007-12-24 14:25:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is just a chance to get something off of your chest.......
I was abused from ages 8-10 by an uncle then at 14 I was raped by my boyfriends older brother I never turned either of them in. I wish now that I had said something. Again this is just a chance for you to share your story a lot of times the victims are not given a voice.

2007-12-24 14:23:37 · 9 answers · asked by feb29 4

okay i am 16 yrs old and i have a bunch of amazing friends and family. i luv to spend time with my friends. i work almost full time and my mom is tellin me that i cant be friends with them cuz they do bad things supposefully. I cant stay at ne ones house or hang out with ne of my friends any more just cuz of 1 nite when i didnt come home till 3 in the morning. i can stay at families house but not any of my friends house. i am really upset and just dont wanna be here and have to deal with this anymore. i want to live my life how i wanna live it. my parents just dont understand and its making me drift away from them. and do stuff behind their backs. they are taking my life away from me. i need them to no how i feel about this but i just dont know what to say. i want to live my life not have other ppl live it for me. i can only live my life once and they just dont understand. what should i do. plz help

2007-12-24 14:02:53 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_lil_princess200110 1

how high is the possibility for that to happen? or it is impossible??

2007-12-24 11:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by lemonade 2