I 'm having a huge crush on someone and it's hopeless?

Question

HI. My name is Jubilee and I live in LA.

I have a serious problem. I bet you readers have heared the

name 'Paul van dyke' (If you don't, type Paul van and search

for his images) the best DJ ever.

When I saw his music video 'white lies', (featuring jessica

sutta) for a sudden I just fell for him.

He was so hot.. that charm I can't explain.

So, I started to search more about him, and there I saw,

a picture with his wife. .It kind of killed me inside.

I have never felt this way in my life..! Even when I was going

out with my x-boyfriend. I know, I know this is dumb.

Somebody, please. Is there any way to make me feel better..?

Please, I am waiting for your answer. All of you readers are

welcome.

Answer 1

you just idolize him... ummm...errr... *sigh*
i think you are serious with him...

i also suffered the same situation as yours with JESSE MCCARTNEY, KOIKE TEPPEI, JUN MATSUMOTO, AND MANY MORE... would you believe that i also fell for natsume hyuuga of alice academy or gakuen alice? if you don't know that "anime", search for it... it is famous in our class.
you see? i also fell for an anime character! so it is not just you.
ummm... try not to think about the wife. i also did the same when i found out about the wife and kids of michael fox a long time ago. you're gonna get over him when you've spotted a cuter guy!

thanks because of you i've proved myself i am not alone...


MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Answer 2

just let me say this. did it feel like you were being dumped when you saw that pic? you are in a fantasy dream world and yeah it feels good to be there, but that world isn't permanent nor does it benefit you except to de-stress. i would like to bet that you have never fallen truly in love with someone before. try doing that before you fall in love with a man in your fantasy. its pretty great you shouldn't be afraid to try it.

Answer 3

ok so you "know this is dumb".
what you don't know (obviously) is EXACTLY HOW dumb.
read your own post. if it doesn't make u laugh, then it's hopeless. lol
:D