Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

2007-03-26 06:52:28 · 33 answers · asked by angiee 1 in Friends

I know it sounds weird but.....both of us are far from virgins. But he told me he made his new years resolution to not have sex for the whole year. I'm not gonna lie, I need it. But I like him and want to stay with him but I'm not gonna cheat on him. Plus, it would be pretty shallow to break up with him because of that. How can I deal with his decision?

2007-03-26 06:52:21 · 52 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy off and on for about two years now. For the two years we have been seeing each other we get along okay and have good conversations. Its just that he doesn't really show that he's into me. He doesn't kiss or cuddle or even hug me. When we have sex its nothing really cause there is no foreplay or nothing. I have told him about it before and he just says he's not a bama to guy to do things like that. I'm just so tired of it cause today he claimed he wanted to see me so bad and then when I get there he barely says anything and doesn't touch me at all. So I told him that I was just gonna go and he was all like why are you mad at me. Honestly what should I do?? The way I feel right now is that I just am not contacting him anymore and I want nothing to do with him.

2007-03-26 06:52:12 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this beautiful girl at the wedding reception of my friend last week. later i found out that she was his cousin.

before leaving, i tried to look for her to get her cell number, but i could not find her.

should i ask my friend for her number. what should i say to him? WILL HE MIND?

2007-03-26 06:52:09 · 12 answers · asked by Rosanna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this girl and we have been friends for years and I have become in love with this girl.
We usually hang out, such as going out to eat, watch movies and we even have gone clubbing once.
I can't stop thinking about her and we chat on the phone once in a while.
I've always wanted to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid that our friendship may be ruined and it will be ackward between us and I don't want that.
I can talk to her about anything except my feelings
Also, another reason why I haven't told her is because she is living with her boyfriend.
What can I do? Should I tell her how I feel?

2007-03-26 06:51:38 · 2 answers · asked by nicemusic_lover 2 in Singles & Dating

what is love? My daddy said that love was the naked people on tv kissing. but my mommy said that jesus loves me, ever night before i go to sleep. we pray and she says that jesus loves me. sometimes when i see the naked people loving each other it looks like it hurts. is jesus going to hurt me? i dont want to make those noises that she did. one time my mommy loved my daddy on the couch and it broke. does that mean that jesus will break me?

please help, i dont know what to do. im very confused. :-(

2007-03-26 06:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by Erin J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Allow him to spank your bare bottom and everyone wins or...
Just let him be mad and pout a while?
I choose the first one.

2007-03-26 06:51:18 · 26 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 06:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by grnismom 2 in Singles & Dating

Friend of mines ex-girlfriend chased this guy down, professed he was everything she always wanted. as soon as she had him, she pretty much drifted away. Went back to her ex. Thing was my friend was stupid, he was married and divorced his wife for her. But he also is scaring me with talk of vengence against this women. What should I say to him, besides you had it coming stupid?

2007-03-26 06:51:07 · 4 answers · asked by thejanitorsez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 06:50:10 · 13 answers · asked by Bud's Girl 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 06:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by jho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 06:49:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see him every weekend and we usually sit around, watch movies, make love, and he usually cooks for me. It's definitely amazing and that stuff alone is special.. I want to suprise him this weekend, though. And do something special!

Does anyone have any suggestions?

thanks<3
peace&love
stella starlight

2007-03-26 06:49:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine is...It's all good...my son likes to say 'it just keeps getting better and better' he loves life as much as I do!!! Throw out your favorite saying or motto.

2007-03-26 06:49:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 06:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by xxdizmaxx 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when your best friend can't stand a guy you are seeing? I really want to know because my best friend "hates" this guy I am seeing. Sometimes she will start talking about him before I will. She always says he treats me like a princess and if it was some other girl, he wouldn't treat her so nicely. She also said that she wants a guy to treat her nice too. But her constant namecalling and always talking negatively about the guy I am seeing is getting on my last nerves. What advice do you have for me? Thanks

2007-03-26 06:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Singles & Dating

We have a new joint cell phone account. Previously we had each had our own accounts, from before we were married. My husband set up the new acct in his name, since he decided to pay it. I could have just as easily paid it but I pay for the majority of the household bills. so this one is his to pay. I asked him to use a password he didn't mind sharing with me and he said "it's secret." i.e. he won't tell me the username and password to "our" account. There's something about it that bothers me - it doesn't seem equal - He has access to all of my phone call records, but isn't willing to let me have the same access to his. Or for that matter, not even to my own. I don't want to make a big issue out of this, but it makes me feel like his KID, not his wife. I don't know how to tactfully tell him I think it's only fair that both of us have the ability to log in, check minutes, etc. without sounding weird about it. Am I right on this?

2007-03-26 06:47:36 · 41 answers · asked by open_policy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I moved in with my boyfriend after five month of relationship. We agreed that this was NOT a relationship move, but a financial move, since rent is so expensive in the region where we live...We are living in a house that my boyfriend recently purchased and we agreed that I will pay 1/2 the mortgage (and he doesnt want me to pay for utilities). When I told my mom about our decision, she was upset... She feels that I should pay the very minimum (to help a little) or NOTHING at all because he is investing into a house and I am NOT. Basically, she feels that I am giving him money, which he will get back; he is my boyfriend and he should be taking care of me. I, on the other hand, just look at it as rent. Am I being foolish for paying rent to my own boyfriend?

2007-03-26 06:47:21 · 11 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

In all honesty, are the really skinny girls sexier than us average girls? I mean, Im not fat, but Im not as skinny as I once was. I just had a baby a couple of months ago, and Ive lost most of my baby fat, but Im not as skinny as I used to be...So Im just wondering... Are skinny girls hotter?

2007-03-26 06:47:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes when we are depressed we forget that we have a lot of beautiful things in us and i guess when we remmber these things we feel better

2007-03-26 06:46:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel sometimes that I just am cursed. I have no women. I am 26 and it just sucks sometimes. I dont have as much experience as others so sometimes I feel stupid cause I dont know what I am doing. I dont know ladies would you date a guy with not that much experience but was willing to learn? Yeah maybe I should except my curse and just live with it and move on. Everyone has a purpose, and if mine is to be alone then shall be it. Hey some people dont have food on there table so maybe I should thinking about this and except as it is.

2007-03-26 06:46:23 · 4 answers · asked by sirloin 1 in Singles & Dating

weve been friends since childhood an now it seems like she to busy. i called her make plans an she dissed me for her two faced friend. im the most loyal person you could meet how do i fix it. a present i gave her she said her sister wore it an she let her keep it an i bought her that shirt from my heart.

2007-03-26 06:45:45 · 4 answers · asked by mexica mami 1 in Friends

This woman is bossy. We are buying a new house, I have colors planned out for it. I am going to paint the cabinets because they are too dark. She butts in with why they just need cleaned. I stated cause I don't like them. She went on till my husband said Mom we don't like them end it. Then she started on the kids rooms. My youngest son wants his blue and white with a skateboard theme. The oldest wants Hawaiian blue and white with a beach theme. They both want loft beds. She got her panties in a bunch over all that. Oh and two weeks ago she wanted to come paint. Ummm no! I can't take the stress of her being there. Our current house she came in while we were on vacation and re-arranged my cabinets. Told me that skillets don't go in the oven. Who cares? That is where I like them and it saves cabinet space. Help! I can't take her bossiness much more. I tell her I want it this way and she starts with well I would...

2007-03-26 06:45:11 · 10 answers · asked by misstigeress 4 in Family

I am 27 and a mother of 4. I live with their father who is 39 and we are not married. He recently brought a friend of his home for a get together and he has been hanging out here almost every weekend since. We are the same age and have so much in common. Sometimes we will sit up until 3 a.m. playing cards and talking and joking around. I have developed feelings for this guy! I haven't acted on any of these feelings other than flirting from afar. (He flirts back) This weekend we were alone for a few minutes and I just felt like telling him how I feel and kissing him. In the 6 years that I have been in my relationship I have never even looked at other guys with thoughts like this. It seems like I have lost all romantic feelings for the father of my children and we just don't have anything in common anymore. I am sure if it weren't for having these kids that we wouldn't be together anymore. Please give me any advice you have!

2007-03-26 06:44:00 · 9 answers · asked by flmamaof4 1 in Singles & Dating

give a striptease kinda dance...id love to but where should i do it. a neutral location. How far should i go with it?

2007-03-26 06:43:43 · 5 answers · asked by mywild k 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that time heals all wounds? Look at it in your own perspective. What do you think?

2007-03-26 06:43:04 · 17 answers · asked by chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 06:42:47 · 5 answers · asked by Bedazaler 1 in Singles & Dating

has liked me for a long time, and i know it. he tells like evryone. and i have really never liked him anymore than i friend. a really good friend. well, lately he has been acting like he is going to comit suicide. like he keeps saying how great death will be and everything. plus, he keeps saying to people the thing about how i dont like him. so i talked to my mom about it and she told me just to tell him i like him back, just so he wont do it. but now he thinks i like him and i dont at all. not even in a million years. when i go to the same school as him next year, i just know that if this is still going on he will freak out when i get a boyfriend. and it will hurt him even more. how am i supposed to tell him i dont like him but not hurt him so bad that he kills himself?

sorry its so long, i didn't think i would type that much.

2007-03-26 06:42:18 · 30 answers · asked by :] 2 in Friends

I was sitting around watching T.V. the other night with some guy friends and I fell asleep. I don't remember anything after that. The next day one of the guys was over at my house, and we were talking and he brought up something about us having sex. I thought he was just joking at first, but he said the he wasn't and that we had sex last night. He said said when I fell asleep he lifted my shirt up and played with himself, until he got it up. He said he tried to mess with me then but I pulled my shirt down and rolled over. He said he rolled me back over and I woke up, and thats when he started having sex with me. He said that I was awake through the whole thing and was all for it while we was doing it, and that I liked it a lot. After he finished he said I rolled over and went right back to sleep, but a few minutes later I asked him to get me a napkin b/c its running. I don't remember any of this and I kind of feel violated. What would u consider this and what should I do?

2007-03-26 06:42:15 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 06:41:09 · 27 answers · asked by ~Sarah~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce