I've been seeing this guy off and on for about two years now. For the two years we have been seeing each other we get along okay and have good conversations. Its just that he doesn't really show that he's into me. He doesn't kiss or cuddle or even hug me. When we have sex its nothing really cause there is no foreplay or nothing. I have told him about it before and he just says he's not a bama to guy to do things like that. I'm just so tired of it cause today he claimed he wanted to see me so bad and then when I get there he barely says anything and doesn't touch me at all. So I told him that I was just gonna go and he was all like why are you mad at me. Honestly what should I do?? The way I feel right now is that I just am not contacting him anymore and I want nothing to do with him.
2007-03-26 06:52:12 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's using you for sex and you let him. Dump the loser.
2007-03-26 06:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are drifting off. It also seems that he has found other interest besides you. Its a bad sign for a good relationship, you should talk to him in an honest way and tell him how you feel with the things he does. He either will shape up or sorry to say that maybe you should move on to someone else who will pay the attention you deserve.
2007-03-26 13:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Vic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been married to a man for 25 years and it started out that way.Sometimes I still crave affection,and stroking, etc..Found out he is from a large family and there was no hugging and his was beat with a belt as a child.This man really loves me.Took me a long time to figure him out.He will do anything for me. I would suggest not to talk about it and you just start the cuddleind ,etc. when you are together.It maybe that he really wants and needs it,but he has no idea how to show it. i taught my hubby how to hug,hold hands, and now with all the love he has for me that has grown over the years,he needs it now, but i usually have to come up to him first.
2007-03-26 14:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You care for this man and he doesn't know how to show you he cares for you (if he does) I have dated guys like this and it would never work for me because I am the type of girl who needs to be hugged and kissed and cuddled. I have to be with a man who is open with his feelings or it feels like there is a void in me. You should move on, even if he is a great man, he isn't fulfilling you. You will find happiness.
2007-03-26 13:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right, forget about this loser and get on with your life. What is the sense in staying with someone who doesn't show you any affection? You might as well be a log or something. Leave him--he isn't worth your time and effort.
2007-03-26 13:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your doing the right thing in not seeing him
Its important for both parties in a relationship to know the other cares...and if one isn't responding or showing it it seems pretty one sided.
Especially cuddling etc...and forplay...without that then your just an object to him...
Dump him.....I however am available :)
2007-03-26 13:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new guy. I know its pain full i have been there. If i didn't get a new one I wouldn't have a loving husband or a daughter. You need someone how appreciates you for you. Your guy should make you feel good most of the time.
2007-03-26 13:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by rm3alford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this really a question? Dump that loser and find someone who will treat you like a human being!
2007-03-26 13:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're unhappy with this relationship (or lack thereof) then, move on.
I don't see why you continue to allow him to treat you this way.
2007-03-26 13:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like think you should leave him becauz he probally is just using you for sex
2007-03-26 14:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Leona M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋