i have a boyfriend that i love very much but i still have really strong feelings for my ex..so what do i do?

Answer 1

Go out with the one you are with now. but you can keep talking to your ex but just dont cheat on the other. Give your bf a chance and if things dont work out then go back out with your ex. or ther is always the other option you can go out with both if there OK with it. but that is just weird!

Answer 2

Even if you 'love' both of them there will only be one that you truly want to be with. Have a think about which one this is. If it's your ex but theres no chance of a reconciliation then let the other guy go. It's clear that you are not yet over your ex and need space and time on your own to do this. You can sometimes think you still have some feelings for an ex but then all of a sudden a great guy comes along and you transfer all these feelings onto him. If you know deep down that you want to be with the new guy then accept that you do have some residual feelings from your ex but try and avoid him. Don't see him unless you have to.

Answer 3

I think that you should stick with the guy that you have right now.
The past three times that I've tried to get a relationship started, things would go well for a while, and then they would dump me to go back to their ex boyfriends. I guess it depends on how they treat you. Good luck, and do what you feel is right and what will make you happy.

Answer 4

Do not lead your current boyfriend on.

You have to deal with the fact that in most cases after a break up there are feelings that come up.

Think long and hard about why you broke up in the first place.

Chances are you remember only the goodtimes.

I just recently broke up with a man who professed to love me.

I felt the same about him.

Then I found out he was lying and spying on me.

So when memories of him come up, I think about why we are not together.
No matter how many good times we had, I will never get back with him.
He broke my trust.

So good luck to you.

Dig deep the right answer will come.

Answer 5

I think it is perfectly normal to have feelings for an ex especially if you have children with him. I've been divorced from my ex for 14 years and I still feel strongly for him. But I wouldn't go there again. Didn't work the first or second time, doubt if it would work the third!!

Answer 6

Was your ex your first love?
If so, then it's pretty normal to feel that way. The first love always takes a long time to get over.

If not then you need to decided which one makes you feel the best about yourself and the relationship. Then you can choose.

Answer 7

You shouldn't be in a relationship until you are over the past one. You need to be honest with the new guy because it isn't fair to him if he's really into you but you still have feelings for someone else.

It's not a good relationship sign anyways if you're fantasizing about someone else. Are you sure you're not just dissatisfied with the present guy and you just want something else?

Be honest with yourself. You hold the real answers. Sometimes we don't want to face them, but it's the only way to move forward.

Answer 8

First off, why did you break up with your ex in the first place? Which guy treats you better? Go for the guy who you know will be a better relationship with. Obviously something happen with you ex, would it really be worth going back to that?

Answer 9

well so what you are saying is that you are thining about giving up your boyfriend (which by the way you are happy with and love) for an ex boyfriend that most likely didnt work out with him cus you are just to different for each other

huh um that is kinda already answered
why would you give up someone you are happy with for something that didnt work out uhhhh i dont even know why hmmm?

Answer 10

Only you can decide that. You need to figure out who you could picture yourself getting married to and having kids with. Find out who makes you happier, who treats you better. Make a list of the good and bad of each one. Ask yourself why did you and your ex really break up. Good luck!