I feel sometimes that I just am cursed. I have no women. I am 26 and it just sucks sometimes. I dont have as much experience as others so sometimes I feel stupid cause I dont know what I am doing. I dont know ladies would you date a guy with not that much experience but was willing to learn? Yeah maybe I should except my curse and just live with it and move on. Everyone has a purpose, and if mine is to be alone then shall be it. Hey some people dont have food on there table so maybe I should thinking about this and except as it is.
2007-03-26 06:46:23 · 4 answers · asked by sirloin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pls dont get me wrong, but if u really think ur cursed then listen to my life. im a single child raised by a single parent and as i never had a dad my grandma was like my second parent and she died when i was 10 and basically everyone new that she was gone die but i noone told me so i hardly visited her in hostpital (she had cancer) thinking that soon she would come home again, because i didnt vist as much as evryone else she tought i didnt love her and she died thinking that although there is noone who meant more to me. she died the day me and my mum came back from a 3 week holiday, and if iu wouldnt have insisted on stoping for some food we would have still made it but because of me we arrived just 15mins too late. and i never had the chance to say good bye and tell her how muc i loved her.
after she died everything went pearshaped, soem maniac came to my school and shot 17 people (including my tutor, biology and art teacher). half a year later i was forced to move to england and leave all that i knew behind. and live with my stepdad who i didnt get on with.
i´ve never had a boyfriend before and there is a good chance that the guy if been falling in love with for the past few month doesnt even like me. my uncle told my aunt that he´s only staying with her cause of the kids (i love them both and dont want them to split up) someone who means a lot to me has just lost his uncle and i now how much he meant to him. sometimes i think the universe has run out of bad things that could happen to me and is now having a go at everyone i know. and thats all just a brief of all the bad things that have happened to me (there are way more).
and if i can somewhere inside of me find the strenght to live everyday with a smile (even if its just a fake one) than for god´s sake pull urself together and stop complaining (sorry if that sounds a bit mean)
only because u havnt found someone to spend ur life with it doesnt mean ur cursed and if u r than what am i? and anyway it isnt ur past that counts its what ur gonna do with ur future. u can do so many things with ur live, start living and maybe u will find that speciall someone.
ps: sorry if i draged on about how misserable my life was/is but i just wanted to know that there are poeple out there that are worse off then u, and i know there are some worse off than me and they still manage to not give up and live there life no matter what, and that gives me strenght.
2007-03-26 07:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Finn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone goes through this, I was there a couple times, you are young and have plenty of time to find the right one, just be patient and remember "love happens when you aren't looking for it" that has been so true for me, whenever I felt down and lonely and was going after all the wrong guys, I only got more hurt, once I was able to be happy with ME and enjoy life, I met a wonderful person. It will happen for you as well.
2007-03-26 06:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't have a curse that you just think about it so much that is seems realistic to you. Maybe you should try to not think about it that way. You could try being happier about things rather than being so against things that are happening in your life. This might help you out.
2007-03-26 06:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by punkxrocker3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have felt that way,and it's a form of self pity, pick yourself up and have some fun in life, and before you know it you will find someone
2007-03-26 06:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋