Friend of mines ex-girlfriend chased this guy down, professed he was everything she always wanted. as soon as she had him, she pretty much drifted away. Went back to her ex. Thing was my friend was stupid, he was married and divorced his wife for her. But he also is scaring me with talk of vengence against this women. What should I say to him, besides you had it coming stupid?
2007-03-26 06:51:07 · 4 answers · asked by thejanitorsez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is right to feel angry at the woman who broke up his marriage for no good reason and then dumped him.
But vengeance is not going to bring back the love he lost. And vengeance can end up making his life even worse and even more unhappy than it is now.
The woman who broke up his marriage didn't break any law. And there is nothing he can do against her in court. But if he breaks the law to get back at her, then he can end up in jail.
Perhaps you can tell him to get on with his life, learn from his mistakes, find another good woman, and be happy with her.
Life is too short to be wasted on vengeance. True love is the only worthwhile pursuit in life because true love is what makes people happy.
2007-03-26 07:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that karma will come back and hit the girl so he doesn't have to do anything. let her go and find someone else. maybe this girl and his ex wife are just not right or not meant to be with him then. ask him to open his mind and look for others. don't get all close minded and thinking about revenges. there are many beautiful things in his life he wanna do and enjoy. if he follows the vengence route, he won't be able to enjoy any of those. just find someone else and enjoy the life with his future wife then!
2007-03-26 13:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you aren't much of a friend if you tell him he had it coming. He thought he had a chance at love, maybe he was miserable in his marriage and thought the girl was what he had been missing. The girl who screwed him over and lied is the *****. I don't recommend vengeance, but just be there for him to vent to.
I have a feeling she will be crawling back to him someday and at that point he can quote an awesome Toby Keith song, "It's a little too late, I'm big time over you baby."
2007-03-26 14:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Aquaria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had it coming, you moron? Seriously though, he was hurt pretty bad and I understand that things like that can really screw up the 'logic' part of the brain. He should have looked before he leaped and now that he fell on his a $$, he can't blame anyone but himself.
Remind him that vengance gets you nothing and if he tries something like that he can get in legal trouble as well.
2007-03-26 13:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋