Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

My ex gf is remarried and her new husband is physically abusive and she is contemplating leaving him. What verbal banter should I offer her so she knows that I stand by her decision to consider herself and children. She says she is just venting when she emailed how abusive he is. Is she venting or seeking help?

2007-03-26 08:03:30 · 6 answers · asked by reme14u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I'm talking with right now makes me cry like every day, and he always says sorry and i always forgive him. My question is okay so whenever we make up he always wants to know if i cried. I always tell him the truth which is that i do cry, but my friends tell me not to tell him anymore becuase it makes him feel like he has control over me or something like that? Should i tell him that i cried when he asks, or no?

2007-03-26 08:02:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well this is the story, i liked my buddys younger sis, we started hangin, it progressed slowly, i always did sweet/nice things for her, but she never showed me physical attraction, meanwhile she was out having sex with 6-7 new guys in this time frame of a month or two....
moving on. we started to date, we had rocky times, mainly becuz of indescretions i see in her, and felt like i was decieved in this time when we were first starting to hang out, like i knew she was up to something and didnt wanna believe it..and she wouldnt admit it...so we were rocky,,and we break up,..well she breaks up with me by email..then that nite, another guy who she lied to me about, she invites him to hang out, and has sex with him, then a couple weeks go by, she seems distraught, im distraught, i finally get all this truth out of her...she says she wants to work on alot, (she is bipolar/boerderline) but its coming along really slow, im 27 she is 20...i love her..but...should i give her renewed chances?

2007-03-26 08:02:23 · 4 answers · asked by Answeroni-the dime piece 1 in Singles & Dating

I have released them from prison and jail and want them to marry my friends daughters and get the hell out of my house, my daughter is sick of her brothers smoking marijuana in her room and I am sick of finding rolling papers in their PS2's so I broke their PS2's and burned most of their stuff which I bought they are 23 and 28 how to break it to em?

2007-03-26 08:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i asked this question earlier but i didn't give enough info so people were confused. Here it is:

Before me and my boyfriend went out, he made the new years resolution to not have sex for the whole year. He said it was because he has had alot of sex, and his friends told him he can't do it, so he wants to do something he knows is nearly impossible i guess. He HAS tried to have sex with me a couple years ago, but I turned him down. After he told me this, I respected his wishes (but he waited until after we got together to tell me all this) and when he came over my house one day, he was gonna do it with me but we tried three times and failed because he couldnt get it to work or he couldnt turn me on.

I want to respect his wishes and I really like him, but I cant go on for long without sex. I know im NOT going to cheat on him, but I dont want to break up with him just for this reason because I think its shallow.

So how the hell do I deal with this?

2007-03-26 08:01:40 · 24 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

do they get the same kind of tingles etc...

2007-03-26 08:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

Thanks.

2007-03-26 08:01:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay this guy that i know gave this note to my friend telling me how he feel about me and to call him....this was last week i didnt call cuz im not feeling him should i still call him or what please help i dont want to hurt his feelings i feel really bad!!!!


oh yea he goes to a different school i know him from church

2007-03-26 08:00:29 · 16 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 08:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by sugarplum 3 in Singles & Dating

It seems that big jugs and a nice roung booty are what do it for me....I really don't care about intelligence......does that make me shallow?

2007-03-26 08:00:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married 8 yrs, together 10. Children 1,5,7. about 8 yrs ago, we lived in a town with both of our mothers within a 30 minute drive. She had her mother/sister and other family there as well.
I was given a career opportunity which required a move about 7 hours away. I brought the opportunity to her and she agreed that moving would be a good decision for the family, and she had no concerns. 8 years and 3 children later, and now with her being dignosed bipolar, the issue about lliving so far from her family is ruining our marraige.
As of right now, she sees her family about 7-8 weeks out of the year. And she also tells me I am a great husband and father, but she also says that I am not enough and that the only way she will ever be happy is if we move to the city where her mom lives. I do not want to give up everything especially since she visits and talks to them plenty, i simply do not want to give everything up and risk being unhappy myself.
she doesnt put me first, never has.

2007-03-26 08:00:01 · 10 answers · asked by Langaan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if it doesnt change things.I know for sure that this person is decieveing her husband,sneaking out at night and such,telling her friends that she threw him out ,that he doesnt live there anymore,and she is telling this other girl that she is going to get a apt or house with her.This girl is looking for houses everyday .She tells me that she isnt going to live with her.Who knows she might be decieveing me about that too.I dont think she ever tells the truth.I also knows she lies to her kids.Why does she do this?Is it depression.I dont think you can be free if you have to keep oin this facade.Would this be the beginning of a breakdown?She is 35

2007-03-26 07:59:56 · 3 answers · asked by dlbonhomme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 07:59:48 · 14 answers · asked by Blake B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have already paid for a sound man at the church and I intend to play 2 songs on a CD during the ceremony. Should I pay an extra $50 just to have a woman play the prelude music or will other CD's be fine? Please let me know your opinion.

2007-03-26 07:59:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Iwant to be friends with my exbest friend again. I miss her. I miss not talking to her about guys and gossiping with her. What should I do.

2007-03-26 07:59:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-26 07:58:50 · 2 answers · asked by Americka S 3 in Family

She said she wants a divorce because I am not affectionate enough and because she caught me looking at adult sites on the net. I promised her that I would not look up the sites anymore and that I would work on being more affectionate. She refuses to respond to my e-mails or phone calls. I want to work things out, but she is being as difficult as she can be. Before she threw me out, I pleaded with her to see a counselor with me or whatever it takes to work things out. We have only been married for 8 months and other than these issues, we have had a great relationship and marriage. We communicate well, do everything together, and share common interest for almost everything. There is so much good to our relationship that I can't believe she has shut down so quickly and absolutely. She has been on depression meds in the past and went off of them about a year ago. Why is this happening? What do I do? How do I get her to listen to me and consider other options besides divorce?

2007-03-26 07:58:47 · 1 answers · asked by T S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 07:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by asia 1 in Singles & Dating

and he erased them... she was inviting him out to lunch but he said no. She also calls him when she goes out to let him know that she might call him if she gets too drunk. Has this biitch passed her boundaries ? What should i do? she is married and her husband is away in Iraq. One night they went out with a couple of friends and she also told him that she was on birth control .... why would she tell him that ?

2007-03-26 07:58:38 · 28 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Who Would YOU Personally Choose????
Who , out of these 4,would you date, or not date, and why?
Here are the potential candidates:

1) Downhome Country Boy loves to show & raise horses. Knows value of $. Has always had to work for everything himself. Loves to drink whiskey & have small house parties. shaggy brown hair & goatee. Weight~ 200 Height~6'0

2) Uptown Chicago Gangsta~ loves to flaunt money, expensive clothes,& flashy cars. Long black hair,tounge ring, tattoos, & cocky attitude. Also a BIG drinker/smoker. Weighs ~125 and~5'6.

3) Sloppy Hippie Guy w/ never combed long sholder length hair, baggy pants, and always a tye-dye shirt. He weighs about 270 and is about 5'7. Plays guitar, smokes, drinks like a fish. Very Smart, though.

4) Nerdy Chemistry/Video Game Lover~ Very Smart, but never had a girlfriend. Long curly hair, tan, Italian, w/ glasses. ~ 160 & 5'6. Drinks occasionally

2007-03-26 07:58:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to get a dildo, but I want the kind that looks like a real penis, and I know that my husband would be upset if he knew I got one, but he would know because he controls our finances, how do I go about getting my way without hurting him?

2007-03-26 07:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Alice 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So recently me and my ex were having problems with trust and i assumed that he was cheating and called him on it. Still not sure if he wasnt b/c he story was shady but at the same time could be believable. Anyways he practically stayed at my house and when this fight happened we broke up b/c he said i was jumping to conclusions. So upset i packed his stuff up and had it by the door. So he was coming by the next day and decided that he was goign to talk it out but had a clear sign when his stuff was by the door. A few days later i wanted to talk about what happened and if we could fix it. So he says he isnt sure and proabbley will but wants to see if it falls back into place. So from what i gather he wants act like it but not have the title...What's going on? Is he serious?

2007-03-26 07:57:25 · 2 answers · asked by babygurlot 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, im 5 1/2 stone overweight after having two births one after another and didnt have time to loose the weight.

now after constant exercise and dieting the weight wont come off.

i aint that worried about my weight but i feel i have to loose it to please my hubby and get him to notice me.

when i sit him down and ask him if my weight is an issue to him he says no and he loves me the way i am. but when we get into an arguement about silly little things, he always brings my weight into it calling me fat and stuff.

he says he dont mean it but he knows that it hurts me to think i have to loose the weigh to please him.

hes put on the same amount of weight himself since weve been together and he has no excuse of any births,lol.

i really dont care about his weigh as i still love hi the way he is. i dodnt marry him because he was thin.

does this sound like im over- reacting or is he really bothered about my weight when dragging it up in a row.

im a lonely mum of two

2007-03-26 07:57:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If the ugly guy was good to you and treating you like a lady and never cheats and helped you out and his love making was good but he was just ugly would you stay and try to make it work. Or on the other hand the cute guy wants you too and the only thing the cute guy gots going for himself that he is cute, good in bed, and the cute guy sometimes cheats but comes back home, sometimes steals from you and hangs out with his friends all the time. Would you stay with the cute guy who treats you like dog meat or the ugly guy who treats you like a princess. And the ugly guy is really ugly and he so dark that you can't see him at night, but he treats you good. What do you think and if those where your only two options who would you pick?

2007-03-26 07:56:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why dont some men want to get married...they just want to stay with their gf have a kid an whatever?...whats up with that?

2007-03-26 07:56:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I have been had a few arguments on and off because I am against her fancying a certain man. My reasons are that (in no particular order):

a)he's newly married
b)he's her manager in the family business
c)he's a relative of mine
d)he's over 10 years older than her
e)to be honest he's quite a jerk in general, but that's just my opinion

Do I have a point or am I being out of order? I can just see so many problems with this man that I really don't like how she's been sucked in by him, even though she says she's not. I think she's quite confused about how much she likes him to be honest because he's the first man to have even looked at her in an admiring way. He's a bit of flirt, but he's not doing anything outrageous, although he is playing her around by blowing hot and cold with her. I just don't want her to be hurt and to think that he's the only man in the world.

2007-03-26 07:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by Lawlotr 1 in Singles & Dating

when was your first? ♥

2007-03-26 07:56:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have to write a story about a girl who is an extreme tomboy. one boy is entered into a bet to get the girl to have sex with him. But he falls in love with her and either kills him self or just calls off the bet and looses his friends...

What's a good catchy title for that?

2007-03-26 07:56:11 · 9 answers · asked by tonylmitchell 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats the definition of a best friend?

2007-03-26 07:55:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Saturday night I was at a party and one of my friends that just broke up with her boyfriend, came up to me. she asked me if i wanted to have sex with her. She is a very attractive girl but i don't just sleep with girls that i'm not dating. She also has low self esteem and thinks she has to sleep with guys so they will like her. I told her no but before I could say anything else she started crying and ran out the door. I chased her but she got in her truck and drove away. I talked to one of are mutual friends and i guess the reason this girl broke up with her boyfriend was to date me. But she did not think she was good enough for me. By this morning, before i had a chance to tell her that i like her she was back together with her boyfriend.I told her how i felt but she is mad at me for turning her down. I really like her but don't know what to do now.

2007-03-26 07:55:42 · 7 answers · asked by The Real McCoy 3 in Singles & Dating