Does he want to be with me still?

Question

So recently me and my ex were having problems with trust and i assumed that he was cheating and called him on it. Still not sure if he wasnt b/c he story was shady but at the same time could be believable. Anyways he practically stayed at my house and when this fight happened we broke up b/c he said i was jumping to conclusions. So upset i packed his stuff up and had it by the door. So he was coming by the next day and decided that he was goign to talk it out but had a clear sign when his stuff was by the door. A few days later i wanted to talk about what happened and if we could fix it. So he says he isnt sure and proabbley will but wants to see if it falls back into place. So from what i gather he wants act like it but not have the title...What's going on? Is he serious?

Answer 1

Its hard to tell because men will tell you anything to try and blame you for the break up when they dont know how to break up with you. I honestly think that you had your doubts for a reason, so listen to your intuition, you might of been right, But anyway now the important thing is to talk to him, tell him how you feel, that you were really upset and you wanted to end things because you were hurting, that it kills you to think that he might be cheating. Dont apologize for your feelings, but let him know that you love him and want to work things out. Together you can get back in the relationship, you have nothing to lose. If he tells you that he doenst want to, its because there is someone else, and now all he wants to do is make you feel guilty for breaking up in the first place... dont fall for that. God Bless...

Answer 2

Sounds like he may not be ready to get back with you, i would give him some space and not call him often and when you do call try to keep it simple and not about what happened just yet....once things settle down than i bring it up and speak with him about what happened.