Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

My boyfriend cheated on me. He told me that a girl went into his apartment and they did stuff and no clothes came off or anything and he said that she never touched him and all they did was make out. BUT one month later he called me and told me that they had actually had sex and more then once with her. That night before he said he was all crying and praying that I would forgive him and that I wouldn't leave him. Well I'm still with him and i forgive him but he needs to gain back my trust and I know that I have to do some work in this dilema and I need to learn to trust him again.........but I don't know how to do that becuz i've been hurt so badly. But I really love him and love is a fragile thing so I know that I have to take my time on this ......please help

2007-03-26 08:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by Jess J 1 in Singles & Dating

i got raped by my classmates and i am afraid to imform the police because i am afraid people will start to know that i was raped. what should i do?

2007-03-26 08:12:45 · 41 answers · asked by jonathqan d 1 in Friends

2007-03-26 08:12:15 · 1 answers · asked by h_biatch 2 in Singles & Dating

I wana get one so I can become a Jedi Knight and go to outer space and not clean my room.

2007-03-26 08:11:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-26 08:11:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dose u partner wakes u up @ nite?????? sometime me hubby just sit on couch n watch TV n drinks beer n smokes all nite,,,,,but when he in bed he ussaly go to bed @ 1am then he wake up bout 3a,m n lite up a couple malboros in bed n then he munch on a couple donuts n sometime cake n ice creams,,,,then he fall back to sleep n wake up bout 4am n lite up another coupled malboro,,,,,then he wake up @ 5.30 n go out n watch TV n he smokes bout a pack of pall malls before he done with brekfest,,,,,,,,,,,,he wake me up so much!!!!! whenever he wake me up i gets ups n needs to smokes 2. dose u partner wake up n bother u @ nite????

2007-03-26 08:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At my reception I want to serve tea, soda, and lemonade w/ a cheese ball and then after dinner there will be an open bar. People act like this is a major letdown like they can handle not having alcohol! My parents do own a liquor store and I understand the expectation but still. I don't feel that people should be getting drunk before I even get there....opinions please!?!

2007-03-26 08:10:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have great respect for my Dad but at times i think he fails to understand my point of view & loses his patience & temper on me.I always try to keep quite in front of him.But at later interactions , i at times blow the frustation out.Which he is not appeciative off.Please guide.

2007-03-26 08:10:17 · 5 answers · asked by crazy1000 1 in Family

I have friends, but they live far away...like 15 minutes away.....and my dad is always at work so he cant take me anywhere....and my mom doesnt have her drivers license!

2007-03-26 08:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Family

I don't know why, but on the subway, in an alley, in a movie theatre....why is this such a rush for me?

2007-03-26 08:10:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is it something else that drives them to cheat.

Beleive me, I UNDESTAND the nedd for STRANGE....But is that all there is to it?

Is it something more profound that makes a woman cheat or is it just the shallow need for some STRANGE.

2007-03-26 08:09:30 · 15 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do officiants tend to stay for the receptions if they are not connected to the bride and groom in any way other than they were hired to officiate at the ceremony and chances are you will never see them again? Should they be given an official invitation?

2007-03-26 08:08:44 · 20 answers · asked by non-traditionalist 2 in Weddings

i weigh 165. complete with a semi-round belly and a pokey butt, not to mention thunder thighs. i hate my body. sometimes i wonder if a guy will ever like me because of my weight. i'm 5'6". no guy has ever liked me before. are there guys out there who don't care about weight?

2007-03-26 08:08:43 · 32 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like my friends neighborbut he like this other girl who is a cheeleader AKA alyssa helmar what should i do I LUV HIM

2007-03-26 08:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs.Brandon Kapoor 1 in Singles & Dating

!!!!! PLEASE !!!!!

2007-03-26 08:08:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone know what will happen...or how to calculate what i will get...or anything about the visitation rights in the state of ky? if so your help would be greatly appreciated

2007-03-26 08:08:13 · 4 answers · asked by Christy B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a person we'll call her Victoria, she dated a guy for 2 years they are split up and have been for about 1 month officially. Prior to the one month they were only intimate twice in seven months....it wasn't something that you could really call a relationship.
There is a guy that used to be there neighbor. Victoria used to think he was sort of cute, but was always faithful to her boyfriend.
The other night she had a dream that they went out and had a good time, now she has been thinking about him a lot and is debating calling him.

Is it too soon (only officially 1 month)
The other thing is that this guy is shorter than what she prefers.
Is she thinking to much into it? What should she do? Should she wait until some more her physical style comes around?
Should she not "settle" for a guy that doesn't seem the perfect physical match?
How should she approach calling him, last he knew she lived w/her boyfriend (almost a year ago)

2007-03-26 08:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by laughalot 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend likes to kidnap people and chop off their toes. I want to tell someone but she's my best friend and i don't think i could do that to her! please help me! I don't know what to do! and i'm scared that if i tell someone she my kill me too! HELP!

2007-03-26 08:07:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this friend who thinks he has found the girl of his dreams, he thinks she's beautiful, funny, smart, etc. but most of our guy friends think she's dull and ugly, if u were in his situation would u care abt what ur best friends think? and y?

2007-03-26 08:07:51 · 12 answers · asked by Mo A 1 in Singles & Dating

any boys out there in irvine california who want a girl that has brown hair and hazel eyes. who does water skiing, jet skiing, wake boarding, snowboarding, snow skiing, sk8boarding, and dirtbiking and as u might have guessed has a slim figure of the body?

2007-03-26 08:07:51 · 8 answers · asked by chrystal 1 in Singles & Dating

I've taken my car to this place a couple times and now I have a crush on the receptionist. I'm picking the car up after work today, does anyone have any suggestions on how I can pick the girl up too?

All the girls in my office are saying to just ask her out for a drink...that seems to easy and boring to me and I want to make sure my attempt is successful. I'd realllly appreciate any good advice. Thanks so much in advance.
-Curt

2007-03-26 08:07:28 · 1 answers · asked by Curt F 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends (guys and girls) and I were discussing this question. Is your partner's job a question of status? if you had to pick let's say between an architect, a mechanic, and an accountant, would any of these jobs turn you on, or turn you off? or does it matter at all? be honest, i'm just interested.
How about for the guys- does a girl's job or career matter?

[We decided that for us, a job is sort of important in the end]

2007-03-26 08:07:03 · 3 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 08:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by Argad B 1 in Singles & Dating

He has 4 kids, none live with us. I don't have custody of mine. I want another child. Am I wrong for wanting this? He tells me that if I want a child that badly, then I need to find someone younger. I need HELP!!!!

2007-03-26 08:05:43 · 17 answers · asked by dixieangel0530 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 08:05:27 · 25 answers · asked by Argad B 1 in Singles & Dating

I usually talk to my bf everyday, pretty much on and off all day long... but since friday we've talked all of maybe 10 minutes and texted maybe 4-5 messages. On friday I texted him and he was being short with me so I ended the conversation, that night I texted him again and was like "thanks for talking to me so much today" he said he was with his friends, and then got upset and was like "whatever its not like you tried to talk to me either"... and i didn't feel like arguing so i was just like whatever im not mad... Saturday, he called me on his way home, and talked to me for about 5 minutes, but he could tell i had an attitude, even tho i said i was fine... so he said he'd call me later... I texted him while i was out, and again with the short responses, so i stopped... I called him and midnight to tell him happy birthday, but he didn't answer, and called me back 5 minutes later, he was out with his best friend and his ex-gf (that he cheated on me with, but is dating someone now)

2007-03-26 08:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by lilmissheiress 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 08:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by Argad B 1 in Friends

How do I know if I'm a good kisser? What is it that I need to know?? My boyfriend said I am but how do I know if he's not lying? I want to find a way to make him.. hmmm... Hott. So guys and girl ((it doesn't really matter)) what is it I can do to make sure he likes making out with me?

2007-03-26 08:04:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 08:04:08 · 1 answers · asked by *emokisses<3* 3 in Friends

ok, so my bf is really shy, and always acts like nothing is going on between us around his friends, because they ragg on him all the time. so, he also always goes to kiss me n then pulls back becuz his friends come by. he always says that he just doesn't want a 'public' relationship, meaning he doesn't want everybody looking while we kiss, but this is getting me really frustrated and i really don't know what to do about it. is it me?

2007-03-26 08:04:01 · 5 answers · asked by Tawddie 2 in Singles & Dating