i weigh 165. complete with a semi-round belly and a pokey butt, not to mention thunder thighs. i hate my body. sometimes i wonder if a guy will ever like me because of my weight. i'm 5'6". no guy has ever liked me before. are there guys out there who don't care about weight?
2007-03-26 08:08:43 · 32 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
prolly not but men dont get supermodels unless theyre rich like me so ull have a guy he might not be a loser or fat but he wont be the best like me
2007-03-26 08:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Many men don't really like "boney" girls. The men that dated me preferred my body type since I had some "meat on my bones". I wasn't pointy and poky, I was soft and comfy.
As long as you watch that you don't become obese, which is dangerous to your health, then you will be fine.
If you are seriously uncomfortable with your weight, exercise... there is no miracle drug to help you lose weight. It takes time and effort and if you are willing go for it. Become the size that YOU are comfortable with, ignore what most men think. The men who like your type will be around.
EDITED: I am 5 feet tall, by the way, what guy likes girls that are so short, right? And believe me do I have thunder-thighs... also I'm now 5months pregnant and men still find me attractive because of my confidance. I don't let what men or other women think get me down.... they don't like how I look, they don't have to look.
Keep that chin up and walk through the insults, ignore the bad and listen to the good.
2007-03-26 08:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not that I am a guy or that I date girls--but I have a story of sorts.
I was dating a guy (I was a size 6 -8) and he told me I was the smallest woman he had ever been with. Eventually we got married--well my size 6-8 went away and I became a size 12 in the process. He loved that I gained weight in my stomach (not to mention everywhere else too).
Needless to say--we aren't married anymore and from what I understand he is still dating women who are a little bigger than average (size 14-16).
I lost the weight and am happier with myself now, but he really liked me a bit heavier. So yes, there are men out there who prefer women who are not just bones. And you will find them out there. Just be happy with yourself and the rest will follow.
2007-03-26 08:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not the weight, it's the attitude. You say "I hate my body". So you sound like a miserable person. If it bothers you that much, do something about it. You will be amazed at what 1 month of consistant exercise, and just not eating a bunch of junk will do for you. It will boost your confidence, and then you will attract lots of guys, no matter if you are over-weight. But exercise!! Trust me!!
2007-03-26 08:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is find a brilliant sense of style that shows off who you are. Develop a fun, exciting personality. Pretend that you love yourself and are happy. That attracts men more than body type. If we see that you love you, then we'll love you right back. We're kind of wired that way! Ever see the movie "Babycakes" with Rikki Lake? See it. It will give you hope, sugar. You can do it.
2007-03-26 08:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, grl, im not a guy but im not skinny either and alot of guys like a grl with curves, not every guy wants a bone. my guy luvs my body. im 5' 180 same deal, if u luv u, guys will too, of course u will have those few that dont but watevr. be happy with urself, walkin helps with the tighs, and situps and crunches for ur tummy, if ur still not satisfied with look urself in the mirror and say, it doesnt get no better than this. u got to be confident, i have things im workin out on my body, it wont happen right away but im happy knowin i luv myself. remember others often see u the way u see u, smile. there is someone out there who will like and luv u for u. dont worry bout wat others say, i know its hard but they just need to grow up.
2007-03-26 08:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by chell4evr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey. i weigh 170 and i'm 6'5. i have had PLENTY of boyfriends and i dont think im anything too special. honestly i dont mean to be rude, but ur weight isnt the problem. your problem is most likely your attitude about your weight. 165 is not a lot.
2007-03-26 08:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by seksigirlie23 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am 6ft 250lb round belly also and not a great looking guy...I have had a same girlfriend for over 5 years....She is 5ft 5in 115lb and skinny and beautiful
my point is....If I can do it so can you :)
2007-03-26 08:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only a few that I know of,some girls can`t help being that way if you are one of them sorry,on the other hand if one has let oneself down a little the best you could do is a crash diet?Good luck with whoever,whenever.
2007-03-26 08:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys need to stop listening to their bonehead friends and decide what they like on their own. Some guys like girls with a little meat or bony, but now I've seen guys who want someone who looks healthy not emaciated.
2007-03-26 08:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow your 5' 6" and your 165... its seriously not that bad your just a lil thick thats all..... its also about confidence a lot of guys like girls who are confident if you feel confident about your self...you'll be fine.... try and go out more with friends or soemthing!
2007-03-26 08:14:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋