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Question

i got raped by my classmates and i am afraid to imform the police because i am afraid people will start to know that i was raped. what should i do?

Answer 1

Since you stated that you're in Japan in your last question, I think the language barrier will be a problem. If it happened, tell your parents or the police because this sort of thing doesn't go away.

Answer 2

You are going to live with this the rest of your life, trust me. One day when you are older and don't care what others think you'll wish you had done something. Besides he probably has done it to other girls. Be strong and take this guy down. If people want to talk about it maybe they'll learn something from it and the outcome won't be as bad as you think. Think of it this way, the next girl he would have raped will thank you for it.
Good luck, you can do this!

Answer 3

Try talking to a friend or family member about it. They will take most of the stress off of you, and be there to comfort you when you need it! Coming forward may help another girl somehow! I know you do not want to make your situation known, but it just might give you closer. Once they are delt with you can start to move on. Ultimately it is your choice! You have a choice in EVERYTHING that you do! You might feel differently as a result of the situation, but you do! What they did to you is horrible, but don't let it change you!

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Answer 4

Afraid, afraid, afraid! Stop being afraid and start getting angry.
No one has the right to rape you, and you need to stand up for yourself.
Yes, people may find out that you've been raped but you shouldn't be embarrassed.
The rapist is the one who should be ashamed.

Hold your head high and do the right thing.

Answer 5

OMG! Hunny, you need to tell someone. Stuff like that hurts you and prevents you from being yourself, and telling people helps get that off your chest and face the world along with reality again. Read Speak, it's a great book and it has to go exactly with what you're dealing with. My heart goes out to you and I'll be praying for you every day. I wish I could really help you, but start by telling your parents, that's the right place to start. I know it'll be extremely hard. I had to tell my mom, my ex threatened to rape me. No one deserves rape to happen to them and no one deserves to get away with it, so tell someone, I beg you. I'll be happy to talk to you any time. I'm so sorry!!!

Answer 6

As embarassed about this as you probably are, you have to go to the police anyhow. It's not the victim's fault. Rape is a crime of violence! What about the next victim??? I was date-raped when I was younger and have always felt that it was somehow my own fault. GO TO THE POLICE. I wish I had done that, back then.

Answer 7

Don't wash any evidence away keep your underwear and anyother evidence. Being a victim is not your fault and you shouldn't feel ashamed. At least contact the police to save future victims from these animals. If this took place in school go to your guidence counselor and they will help you. Tell anyone just tell someone!!

Answer 8

TELL the police any way an inform the police who did it. SO some one else won't get raped too. THINK of othres plus your self.

Answer 9

you need to inform the police right away! they will help you arrest the classmate, and can take you to a doctor to make sure that you aren't hurt. the police are very confidential! they won't tell anyone anything if you don't want them to! im so sorry to hear what happened to you, and i hope life gets better! =)

Answer 10

you should definatly inform the police.what this person did 2 u shouldnt go unpunished.u shouldnt care what other people think or know about u.it is very importent u tell the police.and if u want to keep it a secret tell the police not to make the situation public.