2007-03-26 08:11:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys like chubby girls. We are attracted to a girl who is comfortable in her own skin. Be happy with yourself and you will be noticed.
2007-03-26 08:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first things first.
It wont hurt to get the extra fat off, guy or no guy.
I am not saying do it to find a BF, i am saying do it for urself.
U will feel and look healthier, beauty is not the issue here.
If u feel u r chubby, u r not sure of urself, then it must show in ur attitude too and that probably puts men/boys off.
U should build confidence. For that u dont have to be drop dead gorgeous, just presentable.
Exercise more, eat less and eat healthy.
Cut out sugar and simple carbohydrates and starch from ur diet.
Go for long walks.
dont skip meals, just make them healthier, less fat, more protein, lean meats, veggies, etc.
Have an early dinner.
No late nite munching.
Have lots of water
Sleep well, at least 8 hours.
And u will see the differnce in urself within a month.aND WHEN U DO SEE A DIFFERNCE,keep going the way u r , dont go back to unhealthy ways of eating.In time u r feel healthier, happier and more attractive.
If u have health issues other than weight, see a doc for advise and therapy.
Good luck & peace.
2007-03-26 08:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress out about it. I got a boyfriend and I'm chubby! You just need to wait for the right guy to come along. Being patient is always good and just being confident in your own skin works well. Also, get your mind off it. I snagged my guy when I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend.
2007-03-26 08:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the guys you try and date? Look for someone who is kind, sensitive, caring....kinda geeky too. You'll find someone the second you stop looking. I'm definitely chubby, but it doesn't matter to my man. He sees the beauty inside, and a little on the outside. Just be confident in who you are, without being hoochie!
2007-03-26 08:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't get a boyfriend by asking....first you develop a nice and sincere personality. Be someone who asks wise and interesting questions, values themselves and does not put out "desperate" vibes.
A boyfriend is someone who sincerely cares about you. Are you just looking for a sexual invitation? You don't say how old you are, but at any age or size, being interesting, smart and busy will attract the right kind of men.
2007-03-26 08:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by bevrossg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey.
There is a guy out there.
Maybe it's time to take a break from "getting a boyfriend" and focus on your own goals.
Things happen when you are not looking.
So if you think you are chubby - then focus on that.
Success makes you confident and confidence attracts.
No easy answers, just my best wishes.
2007-03-26 08:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Stan W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient n forget the losers, you dont need a bf that bad. IF you keep searching n be honest up front about your weight (in instances where you haven't met the guy yet) you will find someone who likes you 4 you. You'll be much happier that way then 2 have a guy go out w/ you just b/c he feels sorry 4 you!
2007-03-26 08:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUOTE: "Guys don't like fat chicks, no matter how cool you might be".
How damn naive can you be, I'm overweight, undertall and most defininitely not a contender for the front cover of Swimsuit Illustrated but I'm happy as I am, and my boyfriend adores the shape of my breasts, hips and even my jelly belly.
I can assure you that not everyone thinks that a) thin is beautiful and b) you should be judged on your appearance. Everyone will go through some form of knock backs during that dangerous game that is dating, but when you do find someone then be yourself and be appreciated for who you are.
2007-03-26 08:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by afterbirth07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try losing some weight but you shouldnt want to be with a guy like that anyways! Find a guy that loved you not matter what they are out there!! I just say More cushion for the pushin LOL
2007-03-26 08:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Taylor part of me wants to tell you "it shouldnt matter what you look like...."
But I can tell you that if diet and exercise, you can lose some weight and have all of the boys eating out of your hand!
However, make sure that you are true to yourself and always keep in mind, that if someone doesnt like you for the way you look, then they are stupid.
It won't hurt though to make yourself a little more attractive.
Give it a go girl!!
2007-03-26 08:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋