okay this guy that i know gave this note to my friend telling me how he feel about me and to call him....this was last week i didnt call cuz im not feeling him should i still call him or what please help i dont want to hurt his feelings i feel really bad!!!!
oh yea he goes to a different school i know him from church
2007-03-26 08:00:29 · 16 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if this guy gave a note to someone else, give a note to that same person telling him that you are not interested.
it would be worst if you would call, not having feelings for him.
i am sure you wouldn't rather date him not to hurt his feelings, right?
good luck!
2007-03-26 08:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with most people here. You're not a bad person for not calling, but either way you should call and say either "sure, I'll go out with you" or "I'm not so interested". I personally feel that he deserves a chance and if the date goes wrong, then oh well! At least he had a chance and you gave him one, and you got free dinner. In all seriousness, I know a couple where one boy just kept asking this woman again and again to go out with her, and eventually she gave up on saying no and said yes even though she had no interest what so ever. Now they have been going out for at least a year.
2007-04-03 00:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by U-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not required to call him ever not even as a matter of good taste. In fact if he had any taste at all he would have called you instead of passing a note through a mutual friend and sort of emotionally black mailing you. You have no reason to feel bad for having some self respect and dignity you're not playing games you're just acting like a lady.
2007-03-26 15:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can do two things
you can not call him and he will get the hint that you dont like him and that is just fine and you aren't a bead person for that
or you can call him and tell him that you just want to be friends and you aren't into him that way but if he likes you can stay friends and chill and this wouldn't make you ca bad person either
you seem really nice and i think you are my hero for caring about what other people feel like so i am going to give you a thumps up girl
2007-03-26 15:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to just tell him that he's not your type and that u feel that u guys should just be friends it may hurt his feelings for a while but eventually he'll get over it after all you don't want to lead him along and make him feel even worse
2007-03-26 15:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call and tell him the truth, its not fair to leave him hangin I went through this to, but if he was man enough he would have came to you hisself not through your friend, i'm not the type who like to play thos childish game....but um yeah call him and tell him how you truly feel and if he cant accept that then hes not worth it.
2007-03-26 15:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by simplypeachy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you can be friends dont lead him on. That will hurt him worse in the end.
2007-04-03 11:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Newtron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just call him and tell him how you really feel so he does not hafe to wonder constantly that is worse for a guy then knowing how you feel
2007-04-03 10:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling might be nice, just so he knows that you don't hate him or something like that. But, either way, you're not bad.
2007-03-26 16:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I always do that.By not calling he gets the message if not then talk to him and tell him you just want to be friends.
2007-04-03 09:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋