Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I broke up with him last year, because of my own insecurities, and I wanted to protect him. But nothing between us ever changed, we continued to be intimate, our love for each other grew, we spent more time together and the communication improved. Well lately, he's been hit with hard times, and one of his problems is not being able to express how he truly feels and what's really going on upstairs. So because of these hard times, and him not being able to manage his feelings correctly, we've become accustom to arguing on a daily basis. So therefore, along with arguing comes along other feelings that I wasn't used to experiencing. I have so many mixed emotions towards him. One day, was actually a good day between us, but it quickly ended when I went in for a kiss and there was already some trace of lipstick left! I asked him to swear on his Aunt, a woman he loves dearly, and he did! But something still didn't sit right with me! I'm so curious what should I do and how should I feel?

2007-03-24 04:03:14 · 8 answers · asked by bgordon041 1 in Singles & Dating

screaming at him and crying... is it necessary to call and apologize, or can I just cut my losses and run?

The break-up was fine, mutual, but since we've broken up he's been doing so well, and I've kinda become a drunken mess... so I guess I get angry in my one my alcohol fueled evenings. I kinda remember telling him that I hoped he died last night....Instinct tells me I should just leave him alone and pretend it didn't happen.

2007-03-24 04:02:59 · 5 answers · asked by Barbara M 2 in Singles & Dating

yesterday after a brief encounter with my husband which turned ugly after he refused to discuss our situation however i did manage to get a couple of my feelings out and for the first time he said he would think about giving it a chance...he drove off in a huff but not even 30 minutes later he was texting me and by the end of the day he came by and i even got a kiss on the cheek am i reading something into this? i'm so confused by his actions, he said he really hasnt had a chance to think about us. i really do want to be friends but not just when he wants to. any suggestions?

2007-03-24 04:00:55 · 12 answers · asked by MIMKA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have any girlfriend of mine who can be my bestfriend. Do u think I will get somebody someday. Please answer.

2007-03-24 04:00:52 · 17 answers · asked by sridip d 1 in Singles & Dating

We were out to dinner last night and she had forgotten to make the reservations. So we sat at the bar and had a couple drinks, waiting for a table to become free. After being seated, she spilled her glass of water all over the table, and onto my pants. Naturally she had to be punished for this, as it isn't acceptable behavior. I reached across the table and slapped her face with a firm backhand. I then ordered another drink to have with my meal, and the guy at the table next to us noticed her crying. Should have I waited until we were outside to slap her?

2007-03-24 04:00:36 · 33 answers · asked by quit_callin_me_dumbass 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Last week I proposed break-up with my boyfriend, but the next day I regretted about the stupid decision. I tried to bring him back by saying sorry, but now it seems that nothing works. We generally communicate via email because he's in another country, but today I didn't get a single mail from him. I suddenly realized I am deeply attached to him. Could you pls tell me what to do to bring him back to me?

2007-03-24 03:59:02 · 12 answers · asked by apple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 03:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by Chie 1 in Singles & Dating

communicated was by text and phone call,,,,we had a big text fight 3 weeks ago,,,,and i got the last word,,,,the problem is she thinks i still love her,,,,and she tryed to wind me up by talking about another man,,,,after 3 weeks of no texts or calls she sent a text to my phone that was meant for her daughter,,,i text back and said that she sent the text to the wrong person and explained that it was me,,,,about 1:30AM I another text with the same topic meant for her daughter again,,,,by this time she clearly knew who she was texting,,,,,what is she playing at???? and why is she sending someone elses text to me??????

2007-03-24 03:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 03:57:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 03:57:12 · 9 answers · asked by trisha" singing queen!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-24 03:56:21 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_tender_chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

We were just friends, now we became like addicted intimate friends, sounds like he likes mailing, sms and calling me more than frequent (daily nearly)! he send me gifts ...says "I like you so much, you are special girl to me" Can it be a move towards something else?

2007-03-24 03:54:21 · 8 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a tendency to run away when things get stressful or bad. I was talking to my brother yesterday and I asked him what he and my ex-husband had been talking about in e-mails and he said its between the two of you. I said Okay and then hung up. It was wrong on my part.

I want to correct this behavior and now have heard it from several people.

I felt hurt because my brother had said things from the e-mails to my cousin and Dad, but would not tell me. My cousin told him to call me and he did not. So I called him.

Also, my ex-husband has said that he will not allow me to come to my daughter's graduation. She is 14 and in 10th grade. She will be graduating in 2 years.

How do I learn to be strong and not let rejection and other's feelings about me get to me?

2007-03-24 03:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been seeing two guys on an off for the past 3 months and have history with both of these guys. One guy was my first love and would be the bf but hes not very affectinate unless its in the mornings in bed or right before intercouse..witht he other guy we were dating shortly before I rekindled things with mynow bf but things didnt work out for us at the time until recently we have been talking alot and he seems like he is extremely genion about how he feels for me. We have alot of fun while we are together and everything just meshes extremely well between us. . I have no clue who I want to be with but i know i hate seeing them both.the person i am not with knows i am with someone but oviously my bf does not know i talk to my ex or hang out with him.i love my bf and if I was sure of his dovotion to me this wouldnt be an issue. but this other guy is just wonderful.Do you guys think I should risk it and just go for something new or stay witht he person i do love and play it out?

2007-03-24 03:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by jenn p 2 in Singles & Dating

I like to keep myself emotionally disconnected from relationships. When I do this I never get hurt and it feels wonderful. Is there anyone out there that feels the same way as I do.

2007-03-24 03:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by babyface 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-24 03:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would say about 30 years ago, white women were the most desirable women on earth, but today they are at the bottom of the list.... largely because they have been everyones ho for the past 20 years and have a reputation of being stupid and easy. No other women drink to the point of being pissy drunk and sit on the ground or dance on top of bars etc. (unless they hang around white girls)

So I'm wondering, are you white women happy now? Did you achieve what you wanted to achieve?

2007-03-24 03:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am too shy girl, how do I overcome my shyness?

2007-03-24 03:51:57 · 9 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy of 16 months broke up on Thursday night. We texted a little last night, and that's where he told me that sometimes he liked me, and other times he didn't. I still really like him, but he says, "I want us to just be really close friends." I don't want to settle for that, but I don't want to bug him about it anymore. We both agreed to be close friends, though. What can I do around him (besides dressing like a tramp) that will make him want to go back out with me? Oh, and he knows that I still like him. . .<3

2007-03-24 03:51:23 · 8 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

why man do it to a good girl that never do nothing my boyfriend he never wanted to live with a girl why do men say that all the time do they have another girlfriend and the good thing about it he is my first boyfriend and first love if he want it that way i just want to live myself and i don't never want a man

2007-03-24 03:50:46 · 2 answers · asked by yaya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

... with my ex, that they give me stupid answers. They answer things like...
Let go. Move on. Forget about it. There are other women in the sea. These are not the answer to my question you idiots. You rebuff my question much like politicians do.
A beautiful vase has been broken, and I want to repair it. I did not ask you where I can get a new vase (other women out there), I did not ask you if I should just ignore the broken vase and walk around it, pretending it isn't there (forgetting about it), I didn't ask you if I should just sweep up the pieces and throw them away (letting go.) Throw it up to experience? What the heck is that, does that repair the damage? I don't think so. The original broken vase still remains broken, with all of these "techniques" that you suggest. These are not the answer to my question. In fact they are not answers at all but telling me to do exactly the opposite of what I am asking you to tell me how to do.

2007-03-24 03:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Singles & Dating

im 15, and the girl i like asked me to go ice skating with her the other day, and i said great let us know but the only problem is i cant find any skating shoes in a size 15 what do i tell her now?

2007-03-24 03:48:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 03:48:09 · 22 answers · asked by k. 1 in Singles & Dating

We have family members we are close to but know they will not be able to attend the wedding despite their desire to because of a schedule conflict. Do we still send them an invitation?

2007-03-24 03:47:27 · 18 answers · asked by Holly 1 in Weddings

Okay, there is a boy at my school that I like as a friend and just a friend because he is really cute and funny and not obnoxious in any way. I really want to become closer to him but not in a sexual way. more like a brotherly way because I get along with him really well at school but we hardly ever talk about things seriously. We're forever making jokes and laughing about random stuff. How do I get him to like me more and hang around with me more WITHOUT making him feel uncomfortable or make it seem like I fancy him. I don't fancy him because I like someone else but I still really want to get closer to this boy. PLEASE help someone!!

2007-03-24 03:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by ThePoloHole 6 in Friends

Awhile ago I happened to see my friend's boyfriend kissing his ex. I saw him again with her 2 nights ago. Me and this girl are pretty good friends but as she has a bit of a temper at times, people tend to keep things from her. She also knows that I don't like him at all! She really thinks this guy is the one and that he would never dream of cheating. They are going out for 3 months now. I have kept quiet but it is really bugging me. She is very loyal to him. Should I tell her what I saw?

2007-03-24 03:46:50 · 27 answers · asked by Jade AvA 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a fair few friends, never had a girlfriend, kept myself out of trouble, I don't think that is helping, I am really lonely, I am 19 years old. I try to make new friends by talking to them but it never works and I have been nice to them. my yahoo messenger is groovingbuddie@yahoo.com

2007-03-24 03:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I ask myself the question, because I work with a brother o mine, and I have undergoing a difficult situation at a point, that I am about to quit the job, because this has gone to personal arguments every day....I do not know what to do..

2007-03-24 03:45:53 · 4 answers · asked by Potitin 5 in Family

of being a boyfriend?

2007-03-24 03:45:04 · 4 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a fair few friends, never had a girlfriend, kept myself out of trouble, I don't think that is helping, I am really lonely, I am 19 years old. I try to make new friends by talking to them but it never works and I have been nice to them. my yahoo messenger is groovingbuddie

2007-03-24 03:45:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships