I broke up with him last year, because of my own insecurities, and I wanted to protect him. But nothing between us ever changed, we continued to be intimate, our love for each other grew, we spent more time together and the communication improved. Well lately, he's been hit with hard times, and one of his problems is not being able to express how he truly feels and what's really going on upstairs. So because of these hard times, and him not being able to manage his feelings correctly, we've become accustom to arguing on a daily basis. So therefore, along with arguing comes along other feelings that I wasn't used to experiencing. I have so many mixed emotions towards him. One day, was actually a good day between us, but it quickly ended when I went in for a kiss and there was already some trace of lipstick left! I asked him to swear on his Aunt, a woman he loves dearly, and he did! But something still didn't sit right with me! I'm so curious what should I do and how should I feel?
2007-03-24 04:03:14 · 8 answers · asked by bgordon041 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you broke up with him, then you're on a break.
2007-03-24 04:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I ever got was "Change your attitude or change your address". Meaning, either look at the situtation for what it is and what he gives you and ask yourself...does he enhance my life on a long term basis?. If other lipstick and not handing himself well, and not communicating is enough for you...you are in the right place. If not, move on! You really know in your heart the answers to what your asking. When you are ready you will hear the answers you already have.
2007-03-24 11:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by babycakes44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your "gut" feeling tells you inside that something is wrong, it usually is. I would listen to it. You can hire a private investi- gator if you so desire and have the money, do some checking on your own, on the side, go to counseling, if he will, together, or for your own benefit, no one wants to believe someone they love is cheating on them, but, better to know now than find out he is dishonest after you are married, trust is a "Biggy", and once broken, things are never really the same.
2007-03-24 11:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by sweetyebug3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you need to ask yourself to do you trust him, and if the answer is yes, then don't question him so much, because when you do you show lack of trust. And if you can never gain that trust you may have to just tell him how you feel in a nice way, just sit down face to face and have a little talk.
2007-03-24 11:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know how you should feel. We can suggest what you may do, though. Has he sworn on his aunt before, but you proved him to be lying? If so, then I'd be worried. If he's sworn on his aunt before, though, and you couldn't prove that he was lying, then just forget about it. You haven't been suspicious that he's with someone ese, so wait it out until something else smells a little fishy. Maybe he just had too much chapstick on, or something. Good luck.
2007-03-24 11:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to see a consular to work out this problem. I doubt if your going to be able to do it on your own. If your going too be worried about his cheating, then remember once they do, they will again. So if you want to not be worried and let it ruin your health, then best to forget him.
2007-03-24 11:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe him,otherwise it burns you always
2007-03-24 11:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts.....
2007-03-24 11:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by jrsgurl62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋