2007-03-24 03:56:21 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_tender_chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chose to take care of yourself, be a devoted christian christian (you'll enjoy it if you understand faith, mercy and how powerless guilt is especially when you know sex education,incurable std's, healing in God's Word and love/threat yourself good despite what anyone says or how you feel. Stay away from him because he dosen't deserve you - that's how to move on although like in my case(experience) it took time and trial with errors until I finally suceeded . Infact, When it comes to relationships I am too smart to be cheated and I Know how to move on after heartbreaks etc.
2007-03-24 04:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by good day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
Try not to get involved with someone else unless you are over him because his memory with keep coming back to haunt you.
Also, it is not fair to a new relationship if you get into it too soon, because you are not the person you are going to be when the heartbreak is over. You will be using the new guy as a bandaid
You have to feel the pain and walk through it to get to the other side. It sucks, but you will feel better in the long run.
2007-03-24 11:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Busybake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to grieve it. You have to cry and let it out. When I was in the process of getting a divorce, I remember trying to hold back the tears and asking why, why can't I let it go. But then I realized by letting it all out I was letting go. Tears are your body's reactions for relief from strong emotions. One day I promise, the tears will stop and the sun will shine again. Don't worry you will only become a stronger more independent woman in the end and the tables ALWAYS turn.
2007-03-24 11:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by SW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three things cure a broken heart:
1. Time. It took time for you to fall in love and it will take time for you to stop being in love. If you do steps 2 and 3 the time it takes could be shorter
2. Get busy! Keep your mind on other things. It will keep you from obsessing.
3. Give your heart to something else. This falls in line with getting busy. Volunteer somewhere and show love to someone who really needs it. You have alot of unused love in your heart right now. Give it to a sick child or animal.
2007-03-24 11:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by kamille_elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get your confidence back... never turn down an offer to try something new or go someplace you've never been... you surround yourself with friends... go shopping... do anything that builds your confidence.
You put a smile on your face even if it's fake.
You trust in the knowledge that things happen when you least expect it and the more you "put yourself out there" the more chance you have of finding someone you can truly love.
P.S. And won't it just piss him off that you forgot him?!
2007-03-24 11:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There're tons of nice guy out there. The thing is, if you still thinking of a guy that doesn't even care, then you close the door of chances to meet those who does.
Stop thinking about him. Make yourself pretty and attractive. Also find constructive activity to engage with. Before you know it, all kinds of interesting guy will line up because people love to be with someone that know what they are worth.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 11:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Master M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write out a list of all the things he used to do that really pissed you off. Don't write any of the good stuff, the bad stuff automatically negates it.
Go out with your girlfriends, find someone who is really good to talk to... shop (or window shop, it's cheaper) have your hair done, get a manicure.
My sister has just recently got over her first love and it took her almost a year. She has seen him since and spoken to him and realised he wasn't as wonderful as she remembered him being.... it helped her move on.
Chin up chick, I hope your heart heals soon, big hugs.
2007-03-24 11:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget about him by remembering him being a jerk walking away from u cause he thought u weren't good enough.So just move on... just think that u have a destined person out there for u. its just that ur destine one is somewhere out there,and all u have to do is just search 4 him.There's always a guy better than that jerk.Don't waste ur precious time thinking about him and everything.All i have to say is that time is precious,use it wisely cause u can't turn back time,its the past now.ROCK ON!!! *^_^*
2007-03-24 11:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Doria K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gal the best thing is to make yourself busy sports, join clubs do things that will make you forget about him you life has to go on his is still moving on.
2007-03-24 10:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by cena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have any contact with this man? if so, you need to cut all ties. don't call him, don't answer his calls, do not visit him. i know this is easier said than done...i've been there. a friend once gave me some great advice and i'll pass it on to you:
"take it one day at a time. if you can't take it one day at a time, take it one hour at a time, if you can't take it one hour at a time, take it one minute at a time"
this advice works great in most situations. keep it in mind. :)
2007-03-24 11:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋