Okay, there is a boy at my school that I like as a friend and just a friend because he is really cute and funny and not obnoxious in any way. I really want to become closer to him but not in a sexual way. more like a brotherly way because I get along with him really well at school but we hardly ever talk about things seriously. We're forever making jokes and laughing about random stuff. How do I get him to like me more and hang around with me more WITHOUT making him feel uncomfortable or make it seem like I fancy him. I don't fancy him because I like someone else but I still really want to get closer to this boy. PLEASE help someone!!
2007-03-24 03:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by ThePoloHole 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seriously people I don't fancy him. I can't picture myself going out with him!!! It would be like dating a brother. Eeew!!
2007-03-24 04:08:09 · update #1
First of all hun, make it clear how you feel about him say to him your a really good mate and i dont want you thinking i like you in that way because i couldn't ask for a better friend. Then if he's fine with it and accepts your friendship, then there you go hun problem solved.
2007-03-24 04:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it plain `n` simple `cos if you screw up you will lose more than his friendship!Try asking a common not to difficult question about day rto day stuff that you yourself have an opinion on just maybe it might interest him enough to get a conversation going in the right direction.
2007-03-24 04:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have a Mum and Dad, or brothers/sisters? Ask them, or do you know in advance that they will simply tell you how silly you are?
2007-03-24 03:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey!! trust me-- u HAVE developed a fancy 4 this guy too.
U cud just try being more funnyor whatever he prefers n be nearer him.
2007-03-24 03:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by kapilbansalagra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems to me you protest to much about not fancying this boy
2007-03-24 03:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by BARBARA M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave it as it is if you start pestering him too much you will lose the friendship you already have
2007-03-24 03:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by MARIE S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋