Last week I proposed break-up with my boyfriend, but the next day I regretted about the stupid decision. I tried to bring him back by saying sorry, but now it seems that nothing works. We generally communicate via email because he's in another country, but today I didn't get a single mail from him. I suddenly realized I am deeply attached to him. Could you pls tell me what to do to bring him back to me?
2007-03-24 03:59:02 · 12 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
never say something you can't take back
2007-03-24 04:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by ChrisAV8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's an action that you have to think of many times before actually saying it.. why did you break up with him in the first place? i'm guessing you are having a hard time coping up with the long distance relationship that you have that's why you broke up with him to get some attention however, on his side, you breaking up with him gave him a chance to realize that it's better for the two of you with your present situaiton, it's really hard to keep a long distance relationship, diifficult to be honest, loyal and the effort you need to make to continue the relationship, if i were you try for the first 3 days to get back with him if it's still a negative response from his side, cool down.. maybe it's meant to be that way, anyway, if he truly loves you he'll get back to you or communicate with you whatever the circumstances is, you don't want to go ga-ga over a guy that doesn't really love you right.. it's ok.. be strong..
2007-03-24 04:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, let him go. If he comes back, then you know it was meant to be. Sorry to be so cliche, but in your case, it may be true. If he doesn't come back, it probably means he was thinking of breaking up too, and may have had more resolve than you. (I say, good riddance...do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?) Unfortunately, you may not be with him anymore if that IS the case, but you will probably be better off. Why, do I say that? The more you beg for him to come back, the more it puts him in the 'driver seat' of your relationship. Your relationship should be equal in many ways, and you are losing respect if you are begging him to come back. You are probably a real great person, feed off that and realize how special YOU are and understand how significant HE should make you feel (it should not be a one-way street!).
2007-03-24 04:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by qumungis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance? i've been there. you don't know what he is doing over there or who is is hanging out with. it is very easy for him to not tell you things when you are so far away. you need to move on and find someone closer. this is actually very easy to do. as hard as it might be, do not reply to his emails. if you have to, block them so you don't even realize they are being sent. this is the only thing you can do to get over him. you can't do anything to bring him back to you...he has to come back on his own. if he wants you, he will come back. but it sounds like he has lost interest or found something else that is closer to him.
2007-03-24 04:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl forget him, he is the stupid one, but there are too many guys in the world to cry about this one. No girl should ever have to try to make a boy come back to them, don't beg, it's his loss. If I were you I would take sometime to myself and enjoy life and maybe find someone else.
2007-03-24 04:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try not to be so mean to the next one and you'll have a boyfriend.He's tired of you move on and don't be a drain.
2007-03-24 04:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too late! Don't ever say something you don't truely mean because it can bite you in the a$$ everytime.
2007-03-24 04:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He took what you said at face value and gave you what you wanted. Sorry, you're probably screwed.
2007-03-24 04:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would have a boyfriend who lives in another country anyway?
2007-03-24 04:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it go, if he wants to continue with you, he will let you know.
2007-03-24 04:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go and get a new one
2007-03-24 04:05:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋