Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I don't like having my life completely revolved around other people. I like to come and go as I please. My girlfriend, on the other hand, is one that likes to know where I am, what I'm doing, and when I'll be home, and if she goes more than 1-2 hours without seeing me (work excluded), I have to put up a fight with her to "let me" go out, whether it's with friends or to the bar where I'm being paid learning to do KJing, or even to visit with my parents. I understand the consideration aspect of telling her when I'll be home. My problem is I seem to need her "approval" without a huge blowout fight and having her call me irresponsible and inconsiderate. Am I the bad guy here because I believe as a 21-year-old I shouldn't have to ASK my girlfriend if I can make plans that don't involve her or should she let up and loosen the leash?

And no, I've never done anything to make her not trust me. I'm 100% faithful. All I want is a little "me" time, not spending every second together.

2007-03-24 04:17:02 · 11 answers · asked by Jay M 2 in Singles & Dating

My Friends and family will think we are showing off. Its at a Great place. But :( I can hear the comments now, "you spent too much on this", "how can you afford this" The thing is I can afford it and this is solely for my brother who has endured so much and a celebration of his life. Additionally, it is to have friends and family over to get together! Should I do it?

2007-03-24 04:16:50 · 2 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2 in Friends

I cant find a nice one. All the nice girls are in other countrys. I know we have some but were are they.?

2007-03-24 04:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

i have a 16yr old daughter who has a grl freind 15 this girl has got my daughter to steal money to pay the girls phone bill and to buy cigs and weed,when ever theres any problem with my daughter this girl is involved.everytime i catch them or bust them i tighten the rein my daughter no longer has any money she can steal so no more money for her friend grl seen this all last month.this girl also is very sexually active and i found out a few weeks ago she talked my daughter into sneeking 2 boys in my house her friend bearly knew in middle of night so now shes not allowed over her house no more and if when girl comes back here im sleep on couch i told girl i wasnt calling her mom but she knows rein gona tighten more.ever since i confronted them the girl hasnt called and is hangin at brothers ben 2 weeks which is weired she always begs come over every week and usually is here even when im mad shell wiggleback in,i feel she just a user so what do you think why hasnt she called or even tried

2007-03-24 04:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by wh1te_diamond06 1 in Friends

ok.... so here is the story. the guy that i suddenly fell in love with has been crazy for this girl for about 2 years now. this girl happens to be my bff. she never really liked him, almost creeped out by him actually, until about a month ago. now they spend every waking hour together (it seems) flirting and just being cute together. now, here is a twist. about 5 months ago my friends decided it would be funny to tell me that this same guy liked me and to tell him that i liked him. (neither of which were true at the time) so that ended after about 2 weeks, and i forgave everyone although now... it has made me think sometimes "hey, he used to love me..." then i say "oh wait... even that was a joke" so thats where i am. also, my bff is perfect. i have decided it. she is super cute and funny and flirty and he loves it all. BUT (ok ok so one more twist) he flirts with me constantly when she is not around. he just stares at me or randomly hugs me for about 2 minutes. WHAT IS THAT? help...

2007-03-24 04:15:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 04:15:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know that I will not be responsible for child support anymore after the adoption, but I was told that in Connecticut I would still be responsible for medical coverage of them if their mother chose to push it. Is that true? (It won't make a difference to me either way, I'd pay it---but, I want to make sure that's accurate info.)

2007-03-24 04:15:09 · 11 answers · asked by wow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister just recently lost some one an i wanted to write something like a poem that lets her know i am there for her i care about her an she is my best friend not just my sister thise corny myspace poems dont do it the walmart cards to many ppl have gotten her so i wanted somethin special an i want it to be nice could yall please think of something or any thing please an thanks p.s. dont say o just write whats on your mind cause i aint good at that when it comes to family for some reason....

2007-03-24 04:15:05 · 2 answers · asked by none of your biz. 3 in Family

why do some guys love it when girls make out with eachother? i find it sick and discusting and have no idea y anyone would do it. why does it turn some people on?

2007-03-24 04:14:53 · 15 answers · asked by ♥愛♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

and in grade 6,during the ski week dance she asked me to dance with her and sumhow i messed it up.Then at the graduation dance i wanted 2 ask her to dance and sumhow i messed that up also.By the way we're both 17. Anyway between grade 6 and grade 10 we've seen each other a few times(on the bus for example).Since we last saw each other on the bus, i didnt have any contact with her. Then this past summer i found out wut her email was so i added her. I got the impression she didnt want anything to do with me but lately it seems that she still likes me even though she has a bf. For example she's asked me if i had a gf and a few days ago she confessed that when we last saw each other she thought that i hated her( i told her no, that im just shy).She was like i havent seen u anymore and she invited me 2 her friends bd party. I told her i couldnt come and all of a sudden she got mad, like u dont have 2 come if u dont want 2.(By the way i know she likes me; she told me when we were younger)

2007-03-24 04:14:31 · 4 answers · asked by ticko 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf was going to propose to me on valentine's day this year but he said he didn't feel like he was in the right place with my parents. then he mentioned about me asking him. Do you think that it is proper for the girl to propose to the guy or vise versa?

2007-03-24 04:12:53 · 3 answers · asked by Joanna 1 in Singles & Dating

over a year and a half ago my bestfriend lost trush in me because i did something stupid, just recenty i saw her in town and it brought up some memories from back then, i was hoping she didnt see me because i didnt want to make things weird and i didnt want to start and arguement in from of her boyfriend and my mum, but i want to talk to her even if she wanted to argue with me and hit me, anyone have any ideas, i really dont want to lose this friendship, i gave her some space, we havent spoken in over a year and a half, please help me

2007-03-24 04:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I know. she's in some of my classes and we speak on MSN. Recently she's been repeatedly asking me who I fancy, then she started constantly asking if I fancy her. She says that she doesn't like me in that way, but i'm not sure whether she's trying to see if i'm interested before she says that she is.

2007-03-24 04:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by Phoenix 1 in Singles & Dating

am married, am24, i fancey girls i have always wanted to go with a girl to see wat its like...but if it come to it i think i cudnt do it..am i gay???

2007-03-24 04:11:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is telling me that he likes me much and I am special to him at same time he feels that I am so indecisive and hesitant about my feelings but I do like and respect him. I can't understand why I am feeling confused, shy, not comfortable sometimes though I like him?

2007-03-24 04:11:52 · 4 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 04:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by David R 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend was with two other guys in the last few months. I love her, and I think she doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

2007-03-24 04:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 04:10:21 · 3 answers · asked by John J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my life is being critical.i think after marriage intrest in other women is wrong but my heart creat problem.all time i think about sex from others women.my life is totally disturb please advise what is right for me ?

2007-03-24 04:09:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get over him and not want him back. He broke up with me and never realy gave me a reason why. So I was hoping some of y'all could give me reason why I shouldn't want to be with him. He no longer speaks or looks at me even though I see him nearly everyday. He's acting like a jerk but I still love him. How can I force myself to believe that hes really no good for me?

2007-03-24 04:09:39 · 2 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up half a year ago but have stayed in touch since. We are still very good friends. The break-up was not on bad terms at all. Recently we have been flirting with each other alot and I can feel he still cares a lot about me. He has always been nothing but a sweet and respectful guy to me. He has made it clear that he does not want any friend with benefits yet says he would not mind getting" physical" with me again. I still have feelings for him and want to work things out with him, so I want to know how he feels. I am just too scared to ask him as I hate to be rejected. So how do I go about asking him without sounding desperate and pushy. I don't wan to play mind games nor do I want to beat around the bush.

2007-03-24 04:09:13 · 6 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 19 year old dating a 39 year old woman is there anything wrong with that? Neither of us have money so it's not like were getting something out of dating each other so is there anything wrong with me dating someone who is 20 years older than I am?

2007-03-24 04:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lol im a scorpio ascendant sun in cancer..maybe thats why he's so attracted to me?

2007-03-24 04:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by coo_coo_mandi 2 in Singles & Dating

Who made up the saying I am sure it was a man because it's not really true My husband has Nine inches and my last boyfriend years ago had 5inches so I say size does matter what do you think.?

2007-03-24 04:07:24 · 10 answers · asked by loopy loo 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl in my 2nd period who treats me like i've done something to her, the funny thing is, i haven't. She's mainly saying bad things about me, she even told another girl something and pointed to me while smiling. The other girl laughed, with one of the hugest grins on her face. What does this mean? I haven't done anything to the girl but she treats me as though i have. Maybe she likes me but is secretly hiding it?

2007-03-24 04:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by dirtybird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I a 17 year old boy

2007-03-24 04:06:31 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. House 1 in Singles & Dating

he just dumped me without telling me why. he's really shy when it comes to talking to me. should i try talk to him and ask him why he dumped me? or should i ask one of his friends?

the only reason i wouldn't want to talk to hm about it is because 1. i'm shy too, and 2. i think he's a little annoyed at this whole situation because people keep telling him he was really mean in breaking up with me 3. i don't want him to know i really want him back, it'll make him too full of himself.

if i do ask him, how should do it?
please help!

2007-03-24 04:05:46 · 18 answers · asked by italiancat73 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, well i had this dance yesterday and my crush said that he would go. i wait 2 hours and had fun but he didn't show up. when i came home from the dance, i really felt bad for myself because i've been waitin for this day forever, and then he just stood me up. and when i see him in school he just says eww or just starts cursing, but i know he likes me because he teases me sometimes if i get on his nerves and i don't know what to do. my friends keep on telling me to give up, and if i listen to them, things go wrong again like the last time i listened to them, i ended up with a new nickname, a bad one too! so what am i supposed to do?

2007-03-24 04:04:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think will happen and how would things be in your life and where you would live and how much things would change???? Wow one thing could change everything!!!!!!!

2007-03-24 04:03:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have liked this guy since i was seven, my dad and his dad are friends. so i always see him. and now im noticing that he is starting to get attracted to my friend. how do i prevent it?how do i tell him that i like him without stabbing my friend in the back? I REALLY wana know if he likes me back

2007-03-24 04:03:21 · 2 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Singles & Dating