my life is being critical.i think after marriage intrest in other women is wrong but my heart creat problem.all time i think about sex from others women.my life is totally disturb please advise what is right for me ?
2007-03-24 04:09:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you love your wife
If yes then forget about any other woman because it is really going to hurt your wife when she know about it...it is not good to sail in two boats.
If no, leave your wife and marry the one whom you love, but who knows, soon you'll get bored of her and find attraction in another woman.
It is the mentality of a man that he is not satisfied with what he has..so better try to concenterate towards your family and feel the love that you get when you are with your wife.
Family is a big and heavenly institution my friend, always remember it and you'll never be in dillema again.
2007-03-24 04:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the first place have you settled with your wife?
It should be thought a million times before you marry her.
I'm a conservative, God fearing and sincere type of person.
As an advice, I wouldn't allow you to be tempted simply because you are married already and being married means you have promised her and God that she's the only one.
It takes 20 years to build a reputation and just 5minutes to ruin it. A damage done can not be repaired anymore. You'll never know how it would greatly affect your marriage and your life if you cheat on her.
Divert your attention on sports and other religious activities. Before trying to cheat your wife (if you really haven't done so), please please consult a counselor or a priest or nun (they'll treat your problems confidentially) you won't know and realize your weakness until you try and do so my advice.
I'm a lady and if that happens to me, i'll really be deeply hurt.
I ask you, if you were on the position of your wife and you don't know what's running on your husband's mind and suddenly you knew you were cheated, how would you feel?
I'm sane, mature and responsible enough to advice you words of wisdom.
You have only one life. A wife is a wife and will forever be your wife.
Cure your discontentment disease, because in God's eyes, both of you should never be separated.
Pray to Him, always ask for strength, guidance, enlightenment, and ask Him to send you away from temptations. You should be a man of words and dignity, as you have promised that during your sacrament of matrimony.
God bless you and your family.
2007-03-24 04:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at the age where this usually happens, but I think you married for better or worse so you should go to counseling and maybe with her so you can both know what is bothering you both and be able to work on the problem.
2007-03-24 04:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek some marriage counseling or Hey I bet this might help click on this link or cut and paste it in your address bar! www.sa.org or http://www.sa.org/ It's for Sexaholics Anonymous. Good luck and you what sometimes a healthy imagination is good just act them out on your wife!
2007-03-24 04:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋