over a year and a half ago my bestfriend lost trush in me because i did something stupid, just recenty i saw her in town and it brought up some memories from back then, i was hoping she didnt see me because i didnt want to make things weird and i didnt want to start and arguement in from of her boyfriend and my mum, but i want to talk to her even if she wanted to argue with me and hit me, anyone have any ideas, i really dont want to lose this friendship, i gave her some space, we havent spoken in over a year and a half, please help me
2007-03-24 04:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what was the "something stupid" that you did? that would help to give a better answer.
however, my best friend since childhood and i have stopped speaking because of something she did. i was separated from my husband and asked her to hold a significant amount of cash for me. when i asked for it back, she was obviously afraid. she brought me bits and pieces of bills that her dog supposidly ate, and claimed the dogs ate even more than that. i have never been sure if this was true, or if she made it appear that way because she or her live in boyfriend used some of the money.
point being, she has avoided me for 2 years because of this stupid act with money. i miss her. i am a very understanding and forgiving person. i would have understood even if the truth were that she spent some money impulsively thinking she was able to pay it back. because of her own guilt and embarassment over the situation she cut off the relationship, and that hurts 10 times more than what happened.
hope this helps.
2007-03-24 04:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by sherman supporter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not talking to her for a year and a half didnt solve anything. time just got lost think about what could have happend in such a long time. my friend and i got into a fight and we didnt talk for like a month but than we just called each other said sorry and decided not to talk about what happened so that we wouldnt get into a fight over something that happend a while ago. so my advice is talk to her tell her how you miss her and how sorry you are about what happened before and you want to start over and forget about what happened before
2007-03-24 11:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know her email address, or does she have a myspace account? I think you should email her to let her know how sorry you are and let her know how you feel! That way it won't be so weird between the two of you to not see eachother, and get your feelings out at the same time!
2007-03-24 11:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by courtany_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry,but I can't help you and your friend because you need to give up the main reason your friend had turned away from you it must have been something that really hurt her the main part of this question was not stated and more is needed to correctly answer this question.SORRY
2007-03-24 11:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come up and say hi(but make it look like you are heading their way to look at something), if she ignores you, don't push it.
2007-03-24 11:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey what did you do to make her mad at you??? Give me some more details. e-mail me at wild_texas_cowgirl18@yahoo.com
when you send me details I'll give you ideas.
2007-03-24 11:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Fighting Irish Lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋