am i gay help?

Question

am married, am24, i fancey girls i have always wanted to go with a girl to see wat its like...but if it come to it i think i cudnt do it..am i gay???

Answer 1

I think you are just curious and there's nothing wrong with that, girls are so pretty and other girls can appreciate a beautiful woman when they see one. And if girls turn you on in a sexual way that's fine, normal nothing to be ashamed of maybe you just need to explore it one time, i know this guy who went out with this stunning girl and she used to pick up girls from clubs so they could have threesomes, so i suppose she was bi. God knows why he ended up cheating on her he had it good i mean real good. So don't feel guilty or anything , explore your feelings and you may find it wasn't for you after all or you may find a desire that needs to be fulfilled. hope it all goes well Donna, such a good name, i told u that before didn't i, well c ya

Answer 2

You are not gay. You are a victim of the media image that promotes gay as acceptable and fun. The reality is far from that. What you are is married. You are not anymore gay than adulterous because it occours to you to sleep with another man/women; thief because you wish you could take something in the mall without paying for it. To the extent that these remain thoughts, you are not those things. Dont throw away what good you have to the alter of the media. The media's interests are different from yours. You need love, stability, companionship, and a future--exactly the things the media thrives on taking away from you

Answer 3

You are not alone. Many people struggle just as you do. It is important to realize that God loves you deeply and does not condemn you for your same-sex feelings and temptations. But He is intensely interested in what you do with them. If you engage in homosexual relations or lust (willful fantasizing about such relations) God is deeply grieved and sets about in a variety of ways to turn you from such a destructive course. When homosexual thoughts arise in your mind, you must reject them and turn your mind to wholesome thoughts (Philippians 4:4-8). The Bible says, "No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it" (1 Corinthians 10:13). You must discipline your mind as an athlete disciplines his body.

God not only wants to protect you from homosexual behavior, but He wants to begin to meet the deep needs at the root of your same-sex desires. Apart from an occasional miracle, this psychological and spiritual healing which leads toward sexual wholeness does not happen quickly.

Usually, outside help is necessary. For this reason, I would suggest that you contact a Christian ministry which assists men and women who want to deal with homosexual issues in their lives. For information about a ministry which may exist in your general area, you might contact Exodus International North America, P. O. Box 540119, Orlando, Florida, 32854, telephone: [phone]; or, Homosexuals Anonymous Fellowship Services, P.O. Box 7881, Reading, Pennsylvania 19603, telephone: [phone].