Help me understand this gurl:I've always had feelings for this gurl i had in my elementary school(grade 1-6)

Question

and in grade 6,during the ski week dance she asked me to dance with her and sumhow i messed it up.Then at the graduation dance i wanted 2 ask her to dance and sumhow i messed that up also.By the way we're both 17. Anyway between grade 6 and grade 10 we've seen each other a few times(on the bus for example).Since we last saw each other on the bus, i didnt have any contact with her. Then this past summer i found out wut her email was so i added her. I got the impression she didnt want anything to do with me but lately it seems that she still likes me even though she has a bf. For example she's asked me if i had a gf and a few days ago she confessed that when we last saw each other she thought that i hated her( i told her no, that im just shy).She was like i havent seen u anymore and she invited me 2 her friends bd party. I told her i couldnt come and all of a sudden she got mad, like u dont have 2 come if u dont want 2.(By the way i know she likes me; she told me when we were younger)

Even her friends told me.(when we were also on the bus we couldnt keep our eyes off each other). she also has a bf right now.The question is what do you think about all this? Does she still like me or not? How should i procede with caution?

Answer 1

So she likes you. Congrats! don't cheat with her. Her b/f will get mad. One before the other. Double is a big no-no. Wait for her to get out of her other relationship before becoming her awe-inspiring love. K?

Answer 2

You know, I've had the same thing.. just not being a 17-year old.. but If she really, really likes you... you should like at least go to a place where she invited you to go. It would be thoughtful. But, since she already has a Bf and likes you.. it's gonna be kinda hard to explain every detail on what to do. E-mail her and ask her when her B-day is, and ask if you can come. Make sure to get somthing that is really nice, like a Hallmark b-day card and a Nice present to go with it. When you go to her B-day party, and if her Bf is there, just give the present to her while saying " Happy Birthday" with a smile. If your really shy, you should try to bring your brave side out. After the party, and she talks to you, Ask her nicely " Hey, so how have things been going?" then talk about some intresting stuff that she might like. If she looks at you directly... she might show that she likes you... if she tries to kiss you.. wait at least like 8 seconds, then say " But, what about your boyfriend?" If she says about breaking up with him, ask her if she's ok with that. If she says yes, then you should ask her nicley, and sweetly, " Will you go out with me?"

Well, good luck on all that. Oh, yea, by the way, if you still need my help, my e-mail address is [e-mail]

Ok? add me if you need help.


Oh, make sure you try to befriend her ex- bf ( if she ever brakes up with him) and keep him on his good side. then help him find a gf so he can keep his mind off of the girl you like. Best of wishes, from a relationship wise 13 year old.

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Answer 3

If she has a boyfriend, leave it. If she somewhat likes you she'll ruin up together with her boyfriend, and you will possibly be able to flow from there. If she would not ruin up with him you will possibly desire to assume she needs to be with him - she's the right age no longer in basic terms to have a boyfriend for the sake of it. Do no longer something till/till the region adjustments.

Answer 4

honestly I don know If she still like u or not but U man love her alot go for it man just do it tell her that u like her and u always do , u never forget her she always on ur mind U think of her all time try to know If she love her bf or he is just liken him tell her that u like and U'll c what happened
try try try and
good luck